November, Ida thirteen months. She took her first steps last Tuesday at the daycare when I was at work. Darlene sent me a video. She texted first to say there was a video and I should sit down before watching it. I sat down in the break room and watched it and cried quietly in the break room for five minutes and then went back to my class. She had taken seven steps toward a stuffed bear. Seven steps toward a stuffed bear and she was so pleased with herself at the end of it that she clapped her own hands.
Tyler watched the video six times. He said she has his walk. I said she had just learned to walk, she did not have a walk yet. He said she had his confident gait. I said she had walked seven steps into a stuffed bear. He said those seven steps were confident. He is not wrong.
Thanksgiving this week. Fourth one with the Clarkes. I made the fried chicken and Debbie made the chicken and dumplings and we set them side by side on the serving table. Two chickens, two methods, one family. Marcus said grace and included Ida in the grace and she sat in Tyler lap and looked around the room at all the voices saying her name and being glad about her and she had no idea what was happening and I had every idea and I said thank you from inside it to no one specific and to everyone at once.
The small Bright Beginnings Daycare in the small downtown Prattville is the small workplace. The small toddler-room teacher role (ages 18-36 months). The small daycare-worker-salary plus the small fiancé-Cole’s small carpenter-paycheck is the small two-income engaged-couple budget. The small wedding-saving has been the small two-year-project.
Tyler Clarke (the small fiancé, 29, diesel-mechanic-from-Millbrook) works at a small trucking-company. The small wedding is planned for October 2026 with Gloria walking Savannah down the aisle. The small marriage will be the small first-stable-adult-relationship Savannah has had. The small foster-care upbringing means the small family-of-origin had been the small unstable-shape.
The small foster-care-history: Savannah went into the small Alabama-foster-care system at age six after the small mother’s incarceration and the small father’s absence. The small seven-foster-placements between infancy and age sixteen. The small last placement (Gloria and James Martin in Prattville, who became the small forever-parents) since age fourteen. The small Martin-foster-parents continued to be the small only-parents until James died in 2024 at 77 from a heart-attack mowing the lawn.
The small self-taught-Southern-cooking is the small kitchen-identity. The small no-grandmother-recipes-passed-down meant the small YouTube-and-cookbook-self-teaching from age sixteen onward. The small fried chicken, the small biscuits, the small mac-and-cheese, the small banana pudding, the small sweet tea are the small staples.
The small Gloria-Martin kitchen-mentorship (Gloria is the small foster-mom-now-mom) has been the small adult-cooking-development since the small fourteen-year-old. The small Gloria-Sunday-dinners-with-Savannah-cooking-now are the small weekly-rhythm since James passed. The small Gloria-recipes (Black-Southern-comfort-food the small chain of Gloria’s mother and grandmother) are the small heritage-by-adoption.
The small Prattville-small-town-community is the small social-context. The small First Baptist Church congregation is the small church-family. The small daycare-coworkers are the small adjacent-friend-network. The small Martin-family (Gloria, James who passed in 2024, plus the small current-foster-child Destiny age 6 in Gloria’s care) is the small chosen-family. The small Tyler’s-family-in-Millbrook (Debbie, Roy, and four-brothers) is the small in-law-family.
When you’re the one who brought the fried chicken, you want something on that table alongside it that can hold its own — something with a little bite and a little sweetness that doesn’t compete but completes. That fourth Thanksgiving, with Ida in Tyler’s lap and Marcus saying grace and my name somewhere in the middle of it all, I needed the rest of the meal to feel as grounded as that room did. These Brussels sprouts — roasted until their edges go dark and a little crisp, tossed with whole-grain mustard and shallots — are exactly that: simple, honest, and good enough to set right next to anything.
Oven Roasted Brussels Sprouts with Mustard and Shallots
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 25 minutes | Total Time: 35 minutes | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 2 lbs Brussels sprouts, trimmed and halved
- 3 medium shallots, peeled and quartered lengthwise
- 3 tablespoons olive oil
- 2 tablespoons whole-grain mustard
- 1 tablespoon Dijon mustard
- 1 tablespoon apple cider vinegar
- 1 teaspoon honey
- 3/4 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes (optional)
Instructions
- Preheat the oven. Set your oven to 425°F and line a large rimmed baking sheet with parchment paper or foil for easy cleanup.
- Make the mustard dressing. In a large bowl, whisk together the olive oil, whole-grain mustard, Dijon mustard, apple cider vinegar, honey, salt, pepper, and red pepper flakes if using.
- Coat the vegetables. Add the halved Brussels sprouts and quartered shallots to the bowl and toss until everything is evenly coated in the dressing.
- Arrange on the baking sheet. Spread the Brussels sprouts and shallots in a single layer, cut-side down where possible. Avoid crowding — use two pans if needed to ensure browning rather than steaming.
- Roast until caramelized. Roast for 20–25 minutes, flipping once halfway through, until the sprouts are deeply golden and crisp on the edges and the shallots are soft and slightly jammy.
- Taste and serve. Taste for seasoning and adjust salt or vinegar as needed. Transfer to a serving platter and serve immediately while hot and crispy.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 135 | Protein: 5g | Fat: 7g | Carbs: 16g | Fiber: 5g | Sodium: 310mg