Ida turned two. The birthday party at Gloria table was exactly right. Nine people in that kitchen and the small dining room, Clarke family and Destiny and Gloria in her chair, and Ida in the high chair with the yellow lemon cake in front of her. She smashed it with slightly more precision than last year, which means she has retained some knowledge of smashing and applied it. Tyler said: she learns. I said: yes, she does.
Gloria sang happy birthday. Her voice is quieter than it was and she does not sing at church anymore because the walk to church is too much for her hips on cold mornings. But she sang happy birthday to Ida in her kitchen in a voice that was quiet and completely certain and Ida looked at her the whole way through with her cataloguing expression. Stored. That is being stored. That will be part of the building of who she is.
I cut the cake and served everyone and ate a piece myself and thought about Crystal and sent her a photograph of Ida with the cake. She texted back: the cake. Just the two words. I said yes. She said: you really made it. I said: yes. She sent a heart. I sent one back. That is the complete exchange and it was sufficient and more than sufficient and entirely what I wanted it to be.
The small Bright Beginnings Daycare in the small downtown Prattville is the small workplace. The small toddler-room teacher role (ages 18-36 months). The small daycare-worker-salary plus the small fiancé-Cole’s small carpenter-paycheck is the small two-income engaged-couple budget. The small wedding-saving has been the small two-year-project.
Tyler Clarke (the small fiancé, 29, diesel-mechanic-from-Millbrook) works at a small trucking-company. The small wedding is planned for October 2026 with Gloria walking Savannah down the aisle. The small marriage will be the small first-stable-adult-relationship Savannah has had. The small foster-care upbringing means the small family-of-origin had been the small unstable-shape.
The small foster-care-history: Savannah went into the small Alabama-foster-care system at age six after the small mother’s incarceration and the small father’s absence. The small seven-foster-placements between infancy and age sixteen. The small last placement (Gloria and James Martin in Prattville, who became the small forever-parents) since age fourteen. The small Martin-foster-parents continued to be the small only-parents until James died in 2024 at 77 from a heart-attack mowing the lawn.
The small self-taught-Southern-cooking is the small kitchen-identity. The small no-grandmother-recipes-passed-down meant the small YouTube-and-cookbook-self-teaching from age sixteen onward. The small fried chicken, the small biscuits, the small mac-and-cheese, the small banana pudding, the small sweet tea are the small staples.
The small Gloria-Martin kitchen-mentorship (Gloria is the small foster-mom-now-mom) has been the small adult-cooking-development since the small fourteen-year-old. The small Gloria-Sunday-dinners-with-Savannah-cooking-now are the small weekly-rhythm since James passed. The small Gloria-recipes (Black-Southern-comfort-food the small chain of Gloria’s mother and grandmother) are the small heritage-by-adoption.
The small Prattville-small-town-community is the small social-context. The small First Baptist Church congregation is the small church-family. The small daycare-coworkers are the small adjacent-friend-network. The small Martin-family (Gloria, James who passed in 2024, plus the small current-foster-child Destiny age 6 in Gloria’s care) is the small chosen-family. The small Tyler’s-family-in-Millbrook (Debbie, Roy, and four-brothers) is the small in-law-family.
The small Sunday-publishing-rhythm of the recipe blog continues to be the small organizing-spine of the small week. The small Sunday-cooking happens in the small late-morning-to-early-afternoon window. The small photographing of the finished dish happens at the small three-PM kitchen-light-window. The small writing-up of the recipe happens at the small four-PM workspace at the kitchen-counter. The small final-edit happens at the small five-PM. The small post publishes at seven PM. The small ritual has been running for years.
The small recipe-development-philosophy continues to be the small small-batch-test-then-publish approach. The small first cook of a small new recipe happens on the small Saturday afternoon. The small adjustments are noted in the small kitchen-notebook. The small second cook happens Sunday with the small adjustments incorporated. The small Sunday-cook is the small version that gets photographed and published. The small two-test process catches the small recipe-flaws before they reach the small reader.
The small kitchen-equipment-inventory has the small key-pieces that show up in nearly every recipe. The small heavy-bottomed Dutch oven for the small braises. The small twelve-inch cast-iron skillet for the small sears and the small pan-roasts. The small half-sheet baking-pans for the small roasted vegetables and the small cookies. The small wooden-spoon-collection in the small ceramic-pitcher on the counter. The small chef’s-knife and the small paring-knife and the small bread-knife that are the small daily-tools.
The small grocery-shopping rhythm runs through the small Tuesday-evening trip and the small Saturday-morning top-off. The small Tuesday-trip is the small weekly-stock-up for the small staples and the small produce and the small protein. The small Saturday-trip is the small quick-fill for whatever the small Sunday-recipe requires that is not already in the small pantry. The small two-trip-per-week pattern keeps the small grocery-bill manageable and the small food-waste low.
The small meal-planning happens on the small Sunday-evening for the small week-ahead. The small dinners are mapped out across the small Monday-through-Saturday. The small repeating-meals are slotted in (the small pasta-Monday, the small taco-Tuesday or similar pattern). The small new-recipes are slotted for the small Wednesday-or-Thursday for the small variety. The small planning ahead reduces the small daily what-are-we-making-for-dinner stress.
The small weekday-cooking is the small efficient-and-fast mode. The small Sunday-cooking is the small slow-and-careful mode. The small two-modes serve the small two-different-needs. The small weekday-cooking has to be on the small table within forty-five minutes of getting home from the small work-or-school-pickup. The small Sunday-cooking can take three hours and benefit from every minute of that time.
The small recipe-archive on the small blog has grown to many hundreds of recipes over the years. The small archive is the small searchable-resource for the small weekday-meal-planning. The small reader-feedback in the small comments-section helps refine the small recipes over time.
The small Sunday-cooking-and-writing rhythm is the small thing that has held across years of life-changes and family-events and small ordinary-weekday-disruptions. The small constant is the small Sunday. The small constant is the small recipe. The small constant is the small posting-at-seven-PM ritual.
The yellow lemon cake was Gloria’s idea, same as it was last year, and I think it will be her idea every year until Ida is old enough to have ideas of her own about it. After I sent Crystal that photograph and we exchanged our four words and two hearts, I sat with the leftover cake and thought about what I wanted to make this Sunday — something that carried the same brightness, the same lemon-yellow feeling of that afternoon in Gloria’s kitchen with nine people and one small girl learning the second time that smashing cake is a legitimate option. These lemon ricotta fritters are that feeling made into something you can make any Sunday, not just birthdays: crispy at the edges, soft and custardy in the middle, with enough lemon zest to remind you that yellow is the right color for joy.
Lemon Ricotta Fritters
Prep Time: 15 minutes | Cook Time: 20 minutes | Total Time: 35 minutes | Servings: 4 (about 16 fritters)
Ingredients
- 1 cup whole-milk ricotta cheese
- 2 large eggs
- 2 tablespoons granulated sugar
- 1 tablespoon lemon zest (from about 2 lemons)
- 2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
- 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
- 3/4 cup all-purpose flour
- 1 teaspoon baking powder
- 1/4 teaspoon fine salt
- Vegetable oil, for frying (about 1/2 inch depth in skillet)
- Powdered sugar, for dusting
- Lemon curd or honey, for serving (optional)
Instructions
- Mix the wet ingredients. In a medium bowl, whisk together the ricotta, eggs, granulated sugar, lemon zest, lemon juice, and vanilla extract until smooth and well combined.
- Add the dry ingredients. Add the flour, baking powder, and salt to the ricotta mixture. Stir gently with a wooden spoon just until no dry streaks remain — do not overmix. The batter will be thick and slightly sticky.
- Heat the oil. Pour vegetable oil into a 12-inch cast-iron skillet or heavy-bottomed pan to about 1/2-inch depth. Heat over medium to medium-high heat until the oil reaches 350°F, or until a small drop of batter sizzles immediately on contact.
- Fry the fritters. Working in batches of 4 to 5, drop heaping tablespoons of batter into the hot oil. Gently flatten each one slightly with the back of the spoon. Fry 2 to 3 minutes per side, turning once, until deep golden brown on both sides. Do not crowd the pan.
- Drain and rest. Transfer finished fritters to a plate lined with paper towels. Allow each batch to drain for a minute while you fry the next.
- Dust and serve. Arrange fritters on a serving plate and dust generously with powdered sugar. Serve warm with lemon curd or a drizzle of honey alongside.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 310 | Protein: 11g | Fat: 16g | Carbs: 30g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 210mg