Diego is one month old. One month. In that month, he has consumed approximately 150 bottles of milk, produced an astonishing volume of diapers, slept in increments that range from twenty minutes to three hours (never four, never the mythical four), and developed a personality that can only be described as "loud." He is, without question, the loudest baby I have encountered in my personal or professional life, and I have responded to medical calls involving babies. When Diego cries, the neighbors know. The dog three houses down knows. Satellites in low orbit probably know.
But he also does this thing — this new thing, just started this week — where he looks at you and his mouth twitches up at the corners. It's not a smile. The books say it's gas. Jessica says it's gas. The pediatrician says it's gas. But when Diego looks at me and his mouth twitches and his dark eyes focus on my face and he makes that sound — that small, soft sound that isn't crying for once — I don't care if it's gas. I'm calling it a smile. My son smiled at me. Fight me.
Sofia has fully accepted her role as big sister, which she interprets as "tiny dictator with authority over the baby." She tells Diego when it's time to sleep ("sleep now, Diego"), when he's being too loud ("no crying, Diego"), and what he should eat ("Diego, eat crackers"), none of which Diego can do or understand, but the intent is there. She also insists on kissing him goodnight, which she does by pressing her face against his head with the force of a small hydraulic press. Diego tolerates this. He has no choice.
I'm finding my rhythm with two kids. The key is: never sit down. The moment you sit down, someone needs something. Stay standing, stay moving, stay one step ahead of the chaos. Morning routine: wake with Diego at 5 AM, bottle, back to sleep (him, not me). Make coffee. Start breakfast. Sofia up by 6:30. Eggs, fruit, milk. Jessica up by 7 (later if I can manage it, because she needs the sleep more than air). Then the day unfolds in its unpredictable, beautiful, exhausting way.
Made something new this week: a one-pan shakshuka. Sautéed onion, garlic, and bell pepper, added canned tomatoes, cumin, paprika, and a pinch of cayenne, simmered until thick, cracked eggs into the sauce, covered and cooked until the whites set but the yolks stayed runny. Scooped it out with warm pita bread. It's Middle Eastern, it's simple, it's one pan, and it takes twenty minutes — which is approximately the maximum cooking time available to a man with a one-month-old and a three-year-old. Jessica ate it and said "where has this been?" and I said "waiting for a month where I had exactly twenty minutes and not one minute more." Parenthood is cooking under constraints. The constraints make you creative.
The shakshuka that night got me thinking — what made it work wasn’t the recipe itself, it was the logic behind it: one pan, eggs as the anchor, tomatoes doing the heavy lifting on flavor, and a twenty-minute hard ceiling enforced by a baby who doesn’t care about your sauté technique. This spinach and tomato frittata follows the exact same philosophy. It’s what I make when Diego grants me a second window and Sofia is occupied with her very important work of explaining the rules of her toys to no one in particular. One pan, in and out, and something on the table that looks like you tried.
Easy Spinach and Tomato Frittata
Prep Time: 5 minutes | Cook Time: 15 minutes | Total Time: 20 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 6 large eggs
- 1/4 cup whole milk
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1 tablespoon olive oil
- 1/2 small yellow onion, thinly sliced
- 2 cloves garlic, minced
- 2 cups baby spinach, loosely packed
- 1 cup cherry tomatoes, halved
- 1/3 cup crumbled feta cheese
- Fresh basil or flat-leaf parsley, to serve (optional)
- Warm pita bread or crusty bread, to serve
Instructions
- Heat the broiler. Position an oven rack about 6 inches from the broiler element and preheat your broiler to high. (If your oven runs slow, do this first — don’t let it surprise you at the end.)
- Whisk the eggs. In a medium bowl, whisk together the eggs, milk, salt, pepper, and smoked paprika until fully combined and slightly frothy. Set aside.
- Sauté the aromatics. Heat the olive oil in a 10-inch oven-safe skillet over medium heat. Add the onion and cook, stirring occasionally, for 3 to 4 minutes until softened. Add the garlic and cook for 30 seconds more, until fragrant.
- Add the greens and tomatoes. Add the spinach to the skillet and toss until just wilted, about 1 minute. Add the cherry tomatoes and spread everything into an even layer across the bottom of the pan.
- Pour in the eggs. Pour the egg mixture evenly over the vegetables. Sprinkle the feta over the top. Let the frittata cook undisturbed over medium heat for 3 to 4 minutes, until the edges are set but the center still jiggles slightly.
- Finish under the broiler. Transfer the skillet to the broiler and cook for 2 to 3 minutes, watching closely, until the top is set, lightly golden, and puffed at the edges. The center should be just firm when you give the pan a gentle shake.
- Rest and serve. Remove from the broiler and let rest for 2 minutes before slicing into wedges. Scatter fresh herbs over the top if you have them. Serve directly from the pan with warm pita bread on the side.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 215 | Protein: 14g | Fat: 15g | Carbs: 6g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 410mg