Summer 2029. Two kids who can both walk. Two kids who can both run. Two kids who can both open the refrigerator (Ellie learned from Tommy; Tommy learned from the devil). The house is a battlefield of toys, crackers, and the particular chaos of a three-year-old and a one-year-old sharing a yard that also contains a groundhog family (Gerald II, Mrs. Gerald, and what appears to be three baby Geralds).
I'm cooking dinner every night for four people, which sounds manageable until you factor in Tommy's nightly food protest (he refuses to eat anything green), Ellie's nightly food exploration (she puts everything on the floor before eating it), and my nightly attempt to make something that satisfies a three-year-old, a one-year-old, a teacher, and a head brewer simultaneously. The answer is usually pasta. Pasta with butter for Tommy. Pasta with marinara for Megan. Pasta with whatever Ellie doesn't throw on the floor. Pasta for me, eaten standing up, from the pot, at 8 PM, after the kids are in bed.
At the brewery, summer production. The sour series. The hefeweizen. The lager. The business of beer. I love it. I will always love it. But the Helen's notebook sits on my nightstand and the pages turn and the dream gets closer every month. The timeline is four years now. Four years from now, I will be standing in my own pierogi shop, if the universe cooperates. The universe has cooperated so far. I'm betting on the universe.
Made a simple grilled chicken with corn on the cob — the summer meal that requires a grill and ten minutes and feeds a family of four. Tommy ate the corn. Ellie ate the chicken. I ate the leftovers. Megan ate while grading papers. We are a family that eats in shifts, in stages, in the particular rhythm of working parents with small children. It's not elegant. It's love.
The small Polish-American heritage is the small kitchen-identity. The small pierogi-recipe-cards from Babcia Helen (Jake’s grandmother who passed in 2018, who had lived two blocks from the small Bay-View family-house) is the small monthly-Saturday-tradition. The small kielbasa-and-sauerkraut. The small bigos. The small recipes that came over from the small Krakow-region in the small 1910s.
The small Milwaukee-winter is the small six-month-condition. The small cold-weather-comfort-food rotation runs October through April. The small soups, the small stews, the small braises, the small heavy-baked-goods. The small Midwestern-comfort-vocabulary is the small kitchen-language.
Megan and Jake married in June 2024. The small newlywed-rhythm is in its small second year. The small two-bedroom rental on the small east-side of Milwaukee continues to be the small first-home. The small thirty-year-mortgage-eventually-someday is the small five-year-goal. The small marriage is the small foundation the small life is being built on.
Megan and Jake married in June 2024. The small newlywed-rhythm is in its small second year. The small two-bedroom rental on the small east-side of Milwaukee continues to be the small first-home. The small thirty-year-mortgage-eventually-someday is the small five-year-goal. The small marriage is the small foundation the small life is being built on.
The small Lakefront Brewery shift-work continues to be the small steady-paycheck. The small forty-hour-week brewery-floor job pays the small twenty-two-an-hour rate that the small Milwaukee-blue-collar-economy supports. The small benefits are the small union-decent. The small ten-year-tenure-target is the small career-anchor.
The small Polish-American heritage is the small kitchen-identity. The small pierogi-recipe-cards from Babcia Helen (Jake’s grandmother who passed in 2018, who had lived two blocks from the small Bay-View family-house) is the small monthly-Saturday-tradition. The small kielbasa-and-sauerkraut. The small bigos. The small recipes that came over from the small Krakow-region in the small 1910s.
Megan is from a small Irish-Catholic Milwaukee-suburban family. The small Sunday-dinners at her small parents’ house rotate with the small Sunday-dinners at Jake’s parents’ house. The small in-laws on both sides have been the small welcoming-presence. The small two-family-network is the small extended-support the small newlywed-life rests on.
The small Milwaukee-winter is the small six-month-condition. The small cold-weather-comfort-food rotation runs October through April. The small soups, the small stews, the small braises, the small heavy-baked-goods. The small Midwestern-comfort-vocabulary is the small kitchen-language.
The small future-kid-conversations have begun. Megan teaches small fourth-grade at a small public school in Wauwatosa. The small adoption-vs-biological conversation is in the small early-discussion stage. The small five-year-plan includes the small kid-or-kids in some form. The small kitchen is the small place where the small future is being practiced.
The grilled chicken and corn handled the main event that night, but it was the chilled fruit cups I threw together beforehand that actually got both kids to sit still for thirty seconds — Tommy picked out every grape like he was on a mission, and Ellie mostly wore hers, which counts as engagement in our house. After a summer of eating in shifts and calling it love, I’ll take any win I can get, and a cold fruit cup that requires zero grill-space and zero supervision is the kind of recipe that belongs in the rotation permanently.
Chilled Fruit Cups
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 0 minutes | Total Time: 10 minutes (plus 30 minutes chilling) | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 cup fresh strawberries, hulled and quartered
- 1 cup seedless green grapes, halved
- 1 cup fresh blueberries
- 1 cup watermelon, cut into 3/4-inch cubes
- 1/2 cup fresh pineapple chunks (or canned, drained)
- 2 tablespoons honey
- 1 tablespoon fresh lime juice
- 1/2 teaspoon lime zest
- Fresh mint leaves for garnish (optional)
Instructions
- Prep the fruit. Wash and dry all fruit. Hull and quarter the strawberries, halve the grapes, cube the watermelon, and cut the pineapple into bite-sized pieces. Add everything to a large mixing bowl.
- Make the dressing. In a small bowl, whisk together the honey, fresh lime juice, and lime zest until the honey is fully dissolved and the mixture is smooth.
- Combine. Pour the lime-honey dressing over the fruit and gently toss to coat, being careful not to break up the softer fruit.
- Chill. Divide the fruit evenly into four individual cups or small bowls. Cover and refrigerate for at least 30 minutes to let the flavors meld and the cups get properly cold.
- Serve. Remove from the refrigerator, garnish with a sprig of fresh mint if using, and serve immediately alongside your main dish.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 110 | Protein: 1g | Fat: 0g | Carbs: 28g | Fiber: 3g | Sodium: 5mg