May. The month everything changes. Alexander's graduation is in three weeks and the house is vibrating with the particular energy of an ending that is also a beginning. He ordered his cap and gown. He received his cords — honor student, top ten percent of his class. He is quiet about his achievements in the way Nikos was quiet about his — not modest, exactly, but private, holding his pride inside where it warms him without needing an audience.
I have been thinking about Nikos constantly this month. He did not want me to go to college. He stood in the kitchen on Dodecanese Boulevard in 1991 and said daughters do not need college, they need husbands. I went anyway. I went to USF and studied business and met Mark and married wrong and divorced messily and rebuilt my entire life from the rubble, and now my son — Nikos's grandson — is graduating from the same high school system that Nikos did not complete, going to the same university that Nikos did not want me to attend. The irony is so perfectly Greek it should be in a tragedy. Or a comedy. In our family, it is both.
The real estate market does not care about graduations. I showed six properties this week. I closed on two. The spring pipeline is converting at a rate that makes my broker happy and my bank account happier. I am earning more this year than I earned last year, which means I am earning more than I have ever earned, which means the woman who was bankrupt in 2010 is now a top-ten agent in the largest county in the Tampa Bay region. The comeback is real. The olive oil is expensive. Both are worth it.
Sophia finished her first year of high school with straight A's both semesters. She is the top student in her biology class. She announced at Sunday dinner — with the casual confidence of a girl who has earned the right to be casual — that she wants to be a dentist. Not a doctor. Teeth. Mama said a dentist is a doctor for teeth. Sophia said that is technically correct. Mama said your Papou wanted Eleni to work at the bakery and she became a real estate agent so you can be a tooth doctor if you want. This was Voula's blessing, delivered in the most Voula way possible: through a comparison to past stubbornness.
I made moussaka this week — not for any occasion, just because the eggplant was beautiful at the market and my hands wanted the comfort of a dish they have made a thousand times. The kitchen filled with cinnamon and the particular warmth of bechamel bubbling under a broiler. Alexander ate three pieces. In three weeks he will be a high school graduate. In three months he will be a college freshman. The moussaka will be here when he comes home. It will always be here.
The same week I made moussaka, I also found myself at the market staring at a pile of zucchini so bright and firm it felt like an instruction. My hands have always known what to do when life is moving fast — they reach for the cutting board, the olive oil, the eggs, the kind of layered, savory baking that turns a vegetable into something that feels like home. This zucchini pie is not moussaka, but it belongs to the same tradition: Greek, unfussy, built for a table full of people you love and a week that has asked a great deal of you. Make it when you need to feel capable. Make it because the zucchini was beautiful. Make it because in three weeks your son will graduate and you want the kitchen to smell like it always has.
Zucchini Pie
Prep Time: 20 minutes | Cook Time: 45 minutes | Total Time: 1 hour 5 minutes | Servings: 8
Ingredients
- 3 medium zucchini (about 1 1/2 lbs), grated
- 1 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more to taste
- 1 cup crumbled feta cheese
- 1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese
- 4 large eggs, lightly beaten
- 1/2 cup whole-milk ricotta
- 1/4 cup olive oil, plus more for the pan
- 3 scallions, thinly sliced
- 2 tablespoons fresh dill, chopped (or 1 teaspoon dried)
- 1 tablespoon fresh mint, chopped (optional)
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
- 1 cup all-purpose flour
- 1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
Instructions
- Salt and drain the zucchini. Place the grated zucchini in a colander set over the sink. Sprinkle with 1 teaspoon salt, toss to combine, and let sit for 10 minutes. Working in batches, squeeze the zucchini firmly in a clean kitchen towel to remove as much moisture as possible. Transfer to a large bowl.
- Preheat and prepare the pan. Preheat your oven to 375°F. Generously oil a 9×13-inch baking dish or a 10-inch round oven-safe skillet with olive oil.
- Mix the filling. To the bowl with the drained zucchini, add the feta, Parmesan, ricotta, eggs, olive oil, scallions, dill, mint (if using), black pepper, and nutmeg. Stir well to combine.
- Add the dry ingredients. Sprinkle the flour and baking powder over the zucchini mixture and fold gently until just incorporated. The batter will be thick and lumpy — that is exactly right.
- Fill and bake. Pour the batter into the prepared pan and spread it evenly with a spatula. Drizzle the top lightly with olive oil. Bake for 40–45 minutes, until the top is deep golden brown and a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean.
- Cool before slicing. Let the pie rest in the pan for at least 10 minutes before cutting. Serve warm or at room temperature. It is equally good the next day, straight from the refrigerator.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 265 | Protein: 12g | Fat: 16g | Carbs: 18g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 520mg