September. Miya starts second grade. She walks into the school with her purple backpack and her bento box and her sense of ownership — this is her school, her classroom, her desk. She knows the building. She knows the rules. She knows where the library is and she goes there first, every day, the way I go to the kitchen first, every morning. The library is Miya's kitchen. The books are her miso soup. The reading is her practice. I see myself in her and the seeing is both mirror and window: mirror because she is mine, window because she is hers, and the hers is already larger than the mine, and the largeness is exactly what I want for her.
I made bento again — the second-grade bento, an evolution of the first-grade version. This year: onigiri shaped like animals (a skill I developed over the summer and can now execute in three minutes), tamagoyaki, tsukemono pickles, fruit. The animal onigiri are Miya's favorite — a bear face made from nori cutouts, a cat made from a triangular rice ball with seaweed ears. The artistry is modest. The love is enormous. The ratio between artistry and love is the ratio of all parenting: imperfect craft, infinite feeling.
Saturday Japanese school continues. Miya is reading at a basic level now — simple sentences, common kanji, the hiragana and katakana fully memorized. She no longer sulks on Saturday mornings. She does not exactly skip. But the resistance has been replaced by acceptance, which is the first step toward enthusiasm, which is the first step toward fluency, which is the first step toward reading Fumiko's recipe cards without help. The steps are many. The stairs are long. She is climbing.
The book cover arrived — a PDF from the publisher, the first image of the object that will contain Fumiko's story and my story and the miso soup story and the internment story. The cover is beautiful: a chipped ceramic bowl on a wooden surface, steam rising, the title in clean type. I stared at it for ten minutes and then I printed it and taped it to the wall above the stove, next to Fumiko's recipe cards, because the book belongs there, in the kitchen, next to the recipes that made it.
The animal onigiri are the stars of Miya’s bento, but they never travel alone — they need a protein beside them, something sliceable and sturdy that sits in its little compartment without complaint. This zucchini egg bake has become my answer: I make it on Sunday, refrigerate it in a square dish, and cut it into neat rectangles each morning the way you’d slice tamagoyaki. It isn’t tamagoyaki — Fumiko’s recipe cards hold that version, and Miya will get there when her Japanese is ready — but it is honest, it holds its shape, and it fits exactly in the space beside the bear-faced rice ball, which feels like enough for now.
Zucchini Egg Bake
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 35 min | Total Time: 50 min | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 2 medium zucchini, thinly sliced into rounds
- 6 large eggs
- 1/2 cup whole milk
- 1/2 cup shredded Parmesan or mild cheddar cheese
- 1/4 cup yellow onion, finely diced
- 2 tablespoons olive oil, divided
- 1/2 teaspoon fine sea salt
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
- 1/4 teaspoon dried thyme (optional)
Instructions
- Preheat. Heat oven to 350°F (175°C). Grease an 8x8-inch baking dish with 1 tablespoon of the olive oil and set aside.
- Sauté the vegetables. Warm the remaining tablespoon of olive oil in a skillet over medium heat. Add the diced onion and cook 3 minutes until softened. Add the zucchini slices, season with a pinch of salt, and cook another 4–5 minutes until just tender and lightly golden. Remove from heat.
- Make the egg mixture. In a large bowl, whisk together the eggs, milk, salt, pepper, garlic powder, and thyme until fully combined and slightly frothy.
- Assemble. Spread the sautéed zucchini and onion evenly across the prepared baking dish. Pour the egg mixture over the top, pressing gently so the zucchini is submerged. Scatter the shredded cheese evenly across the surface.
- Bake. Transfer to the oven and bake 30–35 minutes, until the center is set (a knife inserted comes out clean) and the top is lightly golden. Do not overbake — the eggs should be just firm, not rubbery.
- Cool and slice. Let the bake rest at least 10 minutes before slicing. For bento use, cut into neat rectangles once fully cooled. Refrigerate leftovers in an airtight container for up to 3 days.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 145 | Protein: 10g | Fat: 10g | Carbs: 4g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 230mg