Valentine's Day is tomorrow and this is the forty-first with Marvin and also, I know now, the last one at home. The last Valentine's Day with Marvin in this house, in this kitchen, at this table where I have served him forty-one Valentine's dinners and given him forty-one Valentine's cards and received forty-one of his, each one worse than the last in terms of literary quality and each one more precious, the cards declining in humor as the disease progressed, from clever to simple to the last few that were just his name signed in a shaking hand, and the name was everything, the name was the love, and this year there will be no card because the signing is too difficult and the choosing is too confusing and the understanding of what Valentine's Day means is too abstract for a brain that is losing its abstractions one by one.
I bought him a card anyway. I wrote: "Forty-one years. I would do them all again. Even the ones where you forgot. Especially the ones where you forgot, because the forgetting didn't change anything. The love is not diminished by forgetting. I will prove this to you every day for the rest of your life." I read it to him. He listened. He smiled. He said, "That's nice, Ruth." He said my name. On Valentine's Day. He said my name.
I made chocolate mousse — rich, dark, the kind of dessert that is more feeling than food, the kind that sits on the tongue and dissolves and leaves behind only the taste of something decadent and serious and worthy of a forty-first Valentine's Day with a man who said my name. Ruth. He said Ruth. The mousse was perfect. The name was perfect. The night was not what it used to be. It was what it is. And what it is is enough.
I have always reached for chocolate when the evening calls for something more than food—something that asks to be felt rather than merely eaten. That night, after Marvin said my name and the mousse dissolved on our tongues and the kitchen held us both in its quiet, I knew I wanted to share this: a white chocolate ganache, glossy and unhurried, the kind of recipe that rewards patience and presence. It is simpler than the night deserved and richer than any words I could add to it. Make it for someone you love. Make it especially if the love has gotten complicated. The chocolate doesn’t mind.
White Chocolate Ganache
Prep Time: 5 minutes | Cook Time: 10 minutes | Total Time: 15 minutes (plus 1 hour chilling) | Servings: 8
Ingredients
- 12 oz high-quality white chocolate, finely chopped
- 3/4 cup heavy cream
- 2 tablespoons unsalted butter, cut into small pieces, room temperature
- 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
- Pinch of fine sea salt
Instructions
- Chop the chocolate. Using a sharp knife, finely chop the white chocolate and place it in a heatproof bowl. Smaller pieces melt more evenly, so take your time here.
- Heat the cream. Pour the heavy cream into a small saucepan and warm it over medium-low heat until it just begins to simmer—small bubbles forming at the edges. Do not let it boil.
- Combine. Pour the hot cream over the chopped white chocolate. Let it sit undisturbed for 2 minutes to allow the heat to begin melting the chocolate.
- Stir until smooth. Starting from the center and working outward in slow, gentle circles, stir the mixture with a rubber spatula until completely smooth and glossy. If any pieces remain unmelted, set the bowl over a pot of barely simmering water and stir gently until incorporated.
- Finish with butter and vanilla. Add the butter pieces one at a time, stirring after each addition until fully melted. Stir in the vanilla extract and sea salt.
- Cool and set. Allow the ganache to cool at room temperature for 15 minutes, then cover with plastic wrap pressed directly against the surface and refrigerate for at least 1 hour, until thickened to your desired consistency.
- Serve. Use as a glaze poured warm and silky over cake, or spoon chilled into small cups and serve as a simple, rich dessert. Garnish with a pinch of flaky salt or fresh raspberries if you like.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 310 | Protein: 3g | Fat: 22g | Carbs: 26g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 55mg