Sophie is nine months old and has figured out how to clap. Jennifer sent a video of Sophie clapping at the kitchen table while David tried to feed her mashed banana, and the clapping was so enthusiastic and so unrelated to anything happening around her that I played the video six times and laughed until I coughed. Babies clap for the pure joy of discovering they have hands that make noise. Adults should clap more often for the same reason.
I drove to White Plains on Saturday to see the children. Ethan is nearly three now, verbal and opinionated and in possession of a personality so large it barely fits in his small body. He told me, with great seriousness, that his favorite food is "Bubbe's cookies," which is either the highest compliment I have ever received or a sign that David is not feeding the child enough variety. I choose the compliment interpretation. Bubbe's cookies are butter cookies — simple, rolled, cut into shapes with the same cookie cutters Sylvia used, which are tin and misshapen and I will not replace them until they disintegrate.
I baked cookies with Ethan. He "helped" in the way that a nearly-three-year-old helps — by eating raw dough, pressing cookie cutters crookedly into the rolled sheet, and decorating the finished cookies with a commitment to sprinkles that bordered on geological. Every surface of David's kitchen was covered in flour. Jennifer looked at the mess with the quiet resignation of a woman who has learned that grandmotherly visits leave wreckage. I cleaned everything before I left, because I am a guest in my son's kitchen and guests clean up their flour.
On the drive home, I thought about baking with Sylvia. The same cookies. The same cutters. The same mess. I was Ethan's age when Sylvia first let me help, standing on a step stool at the Grand Concourse counter, my hands too small for the rolling pin but trying anyway. She guided my hands. I guided Ethan's. The hands change size. The gesture doesn't.
I wrote about baking with grandchildren on the blog — about how the activity is never about the cookies. The cookies are the excuse. The activity is about hands: old hands guiding small hands, experienced hands teaching new hands, the transfer of knowledge that happens through touch, not words. You can write a recipe. You cannot write the feeling of dough yielding under a child's palm for the first time. That is something that must be passed hand to hand, generation to generation, the way everything important is passed. The chain. Always the chain.
Baking with Ethan that afternoon reminded me that the simplest recipes are the ones that hold the most — and Sylvia’s whipped shortbread is about as simple as it gets, which is exactly why it’s survived three generations of small hands and step stools. The dough is forgiving, the cutters do the work, and there’s just enough flour on the counter to make a child feel like a real baker. Here’s how we make them.
Whipped Shortbread Cookies
Prep Time: 25 min | Cook Time: 14 min | Total Time: 40 min | Servings: 36 cookies
Ingredients
- 1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter, softened to room temperature
- 1/2 cup powdered sugar, sifted
- 1/4 cup cornstarch
- 1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour, plus more for rolling
- 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
- 1/4 teaspoon fine salt
- Sprinkles or colored sugar, for decorating
Instructions
- Preheat. Heat oven to 325°F. Line two baking sheets with parchment paper.
- Whip the butter. In a large bowl, beat the softened butter with a hand mixer or stand mixer on medium-high speed for 3 to 4 minutes, until very pale, light, and fluffy. This step is what gives whipped shortbread its melt-away texture — don’t rush it.
- Add sugar and vanilla. Add the sifted powdered sugar and vanilla extract. Beat another 2 minutes, scraping down the sides of the bowl as needed.
- Mix in dry ingredients. Add the cornstarch, flour, and salt. Mix on low until just combined and the dough pulls away from the sides of the bowl. The dough will be soft but not sticky.
- Roll and cut. Lightly flour a clean work surface. Roll dough to 1/4 inch thickness. Press cookie cutters firmly — or let small hands press them crookedly — and transfer shapes to prepared baking sheets, spacing about 1 inch apart.
- Decorate. Scatter sprinkles over the tops with whatever level of enthusiasm feels right. There is no wrong amount of sprinkles.
- Bake. Bake 12 to 14 minutes, until the cookies are set and the edges are just barely turning pale gold. They should not brown. The bottoms will be lightly golden when done.
- Cool. Let cookies rest on the baking sheet for 5 minutes before transferring to a wire rack to cool completely. They firm up as they cool.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 82 | Protein: 1g | Fat: 5g | Carbs: 9g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 18mg