Christmas week, winter break. I am in Oak Lawn for five days. Ryan has Christmas Eve with his family in Bridgeport — the Italian-Irish Bridgeport Kowalczyks, the gnocchi and Sunday gravy side — and comes to us on Christmas Day. This is how two families work: you divide the days and you are grateful for both halves. I spent Christmas Eve with mine and told him everything about it by text while he was doing the same from his grandmother's table. He texted: "She's making gnocchi. I'll bring some." I said: bring gnocchi. He sent a photo. His grandmother in an apron, the gnocchi on a floured board, the same image I have of Babcia Rose. He said "They would have gotten along." I believe that entirely.
Christmas Day: Ryan came. He brought the grandmother's gnocchi in a container, cold, ready to be reheated. He handed them to Patty, who handed them to Babcia Rose. Babcia Rose held the container. She said "What is this?" Ryan said: his grandmother's gnocchi. She said "Italian?" He said yes. She opened the container and looked at them for a moment. Then she handed them back to Patty and said "Heat them with the butter." She did not taste one until dinner. She ate two servings. She did not say anything.
Made the pierogi again this year, for the third annual Christmas session with Babcia Rose. It was different this year — she let me lead more. She watched. She corrected twice: the water temperature and the pinching on the second batch. The notebook now has four full pages on pierogi. I made forty-eight of them. She made twelve, at the end, to demonstrate the right pinch. Her twelve were perfect. Mine were very good. I am getting there. I am getting there in the way that means: in ten years, mine will be right. I intend to have ten more years of this.
Babcia Rose is 89. She went home with Steve at eight PM, which is earlier than usual. Before she left she held my hand for a moment and said "The recipes are all in here" — she touched my head. She said "You have them." I said: I know. She said: "Good." She let go and went to get her coat. I stood in the kitchen and looked at the notebook on the counter. Everything she has taught me. Everything that is now mine. Everything that has been mine all along, just waiting to be written down.
Ryan’s grandmother made gnocchi the same way Babcia Rose made pierogi — by feel, by hand, on a floured board, in an apron — and watching those two traditions meet across a container of cold pasta on Christmas Day made me want to cook something that honored the Italian side of our table, too. This lazy lasagna is my weeknight version of Sunday gravy love: layered, unhurried in spirit even when it’s quick in practice, the kind of thing you make when you want the kitchen to smell like family. It isn’t gnocchi from a 90-year-old grandmother, but it’s a start, and that’s always how it begins.
Weeknight Lazy Lasagna
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 40 min | Total Time: 55 min | Servings: 8
Ingredients
- 1 lb ground beef (80/20)
- 1/2 lb mild Italian sausage, casings removed
- 1 jar (24 oz) marinara sauce
- 1 can (14.5 oz) diced tomatoes, drained
- 1 tsp garlic powder
- 1 tsp dried Italian seasoning
- 1/2 tsp crushed red pepper flakes (optional)
- 1 container (15 oz) whole-milk ricotta cheese
- 1 large egg
- 1/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese, plus more for serving
- 2 tbsp fresh parsley, chopped (or 1 tsp dried)
- 9 no-boil lasagna noodles
- 3 cups shredded low-moisture mozzarella cheese, divided
- Salt and black pepper, to taste
Instructions
- Preheat and prep. Preheat oven to 375°F. Lightly grease a 9x13-inch baking dish with cooking spray and set aside.
- Brown the meat. In a large skillet over medium-high heat, cook the ground beef and Italian sausage together, breaking up the meat as it cooks, until no pink remains, about 8–10 minutes. Drain excess fat.
- Build the sauce. Stir the marinara, diced tomatoes, garlic powder, Italian seasoning, and red pepper flakes into the skillet with the meat. Season with salt and pepper. Reduce heat to low and simmer for 5 minutes, then remove from heat.
- Mix the ricotta layer. In a medium bowl, stir together the ricotta, egg, Parmesan, and parsley until combined. Season lightly with salt and pepper.
- Layer the lasagna. Spread 1 cup of meat sauce evenly across the bottom of the prepared baking dish. Lay 3 no-boil noodles over the sauce. Dollop half the ricotta mixture over the noodles and spread gently. Sprinkle with 1 cup mozzarella. Add another layer of meat sauce (about 1 1/2 cups), 3 more noodles, the remaining ricotta, and another cup of mozzarella. Finish with the final 3 noodles, the remaining meat sauce, and the remaining 1 cup of mozzarella.
- Bake covered. Cover the dish tightly with aluminum foil and bake for 25 minutes.
- Bake uncovered. Remove the foil and bake for an additional 15 minutes, until the cheese is golden and bubbling and the edges are caramelized.
- Rest before serving. Let the lasagna rest, uncovered, for at least 10 minutes before slicing. This helps the layers hold. Finish with extra Parmesan at the table.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 520 | Protein: 34g | Fat: 26g | Carbs: 38g | Fiber: 3g | Sodium: 870mg