Heat advisory Tuesday. The AC ran all day. Three days of counseling at the middle school in East Point. The work was the work.
Daddy in his apartment in the back. I brought him his coffee and his medication this morning. He grumbled. The grumble was the love. Marcus, 21, studying for finals at Alabama.
Baked beans for the cookout. Bacon, brown sugar, mustard, onion. Slow simmer.
Jasmine, 18, home from Howard for the weekend. Isaiah, 18, called from Charlotte — coaching season starting.
The kitchen smells like greens. The greens smell like home.
I had a hard counseling case at school this week. A seventh-grade girl whose mama lost her job. We talked. I gave her my number. I told her she could call.
Darnell sent a photo from Clarksville. The garden is producing. He grew tomatoes the size of softballs. I sent him back a photo of my sweet potato casserole. We are competitive about food now in our middle age.
I drove to the Walmart on Camp Creek Saturday morning. The kind of grocery run that takes two hours because you run into three people you know. Sister Patrice caught me in the produce. We talked about her grandbaby for fifteen minutes.
The blood pressure check was Wednesday. The numbers were borderline. The doctor wants me to walk more. I am walking more.
Wednesday Bible study at the church. We read through Proverbs. The women in my row argued about whether wisdom is built or born. I said both. They agreed, sort of.
Pastor preached about the prodigal son again. He preaches about that boy at least three times a year. The text is the text but every preaching is different. I cried in the second service this time. Don't ask me why.
The neighbors had a Friday cookout this week. I brought my mac and cheese. They have come to expect this. I have come to expect this. The block is the block.
I made a casserole for the church potluck. The pan came back empty. That is the only review I trust.
Daddy sat in his chair after dinner watching the news. He fell asleep before the third quarter. Standard.
Sunday service at New Birth this morning. The choir sang. I sang soprano in the second alto row. Pastor preached about Naomi and Ruth. The congregation said amen. I said amen.
The kids were home for the weekend. The house was loud the way it should be.
Tuesday evening I sat at the kitchen table with my composition notebook and worked on the cookbook. From Brenda's Kitchen — that's the working title. I cannot write the introduction without crying yet.
Thursday I made cornbread for a sister at church whose husband had surgery. I dropped it off at the hospital. She cried at the door. I told her, eat the cornbread, baby. The food is the saying.
Saturday morning I had Set the Table at the Cascade Heights center. Twelve young women. We did baked chicken. One of them — Imani, sixteen — was so afraid of seasoning that she barely shook the salt. I stood next to her and put my hand over hers and said, baby, you cannot be afraid of food. We seasoned the chicken. The chicken came out right. She glowed.
I went to the cemetery Saturday morning. Brenda's grave is on the hill at South-View. Curtis still goes most Sundays. I left a small bouquet of magnolias.
Andre called from LA. He told the Kevin Hart story again. Twenty-some years and that boy is still telling that story. Everyone in this family is going to hear about Kevin Hart at our funerals.
The baked beans were already handled — bacon, brown sugar, mustard, slow simmer, done — but when you’re the one the block counts on to show up with something good, one dish is never really enough. This Vidalia Onion Swiss Dip came together on the same Saturday afternoon I was prepping for the neighbors’ cookout, and it felt right: sweet Georgia onions, melted Swiss, warm from the oven, the kind of thing that disappears before you even set down your bag. Brenda would’ve had a scoop before I finished stirring.
Vidalia Onion Swiss Dip
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 25 minutes | Total Time: 35 minutes | Servings: 10
Ingredients
- 2 cups Vidalia onion, finely chopped (about 2 medium onions)
- 2 cups shredded Swiss cheese
- 1 cup mayonnaise
- 1 teaspoon garlic powder
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon salt
- Crackers, baguette slices, or pita chips for serving
Instructions
- Preheat. Heat your oven to 350°F. Lightly grease a small baking dish or a 9-inch pie plate.
- Mix the dip. In a large bowl, stir together the chopped Vidalia onion, shredded Swiss cheese, mayonnaise, garlic powder, salt, and black pepper until evenly combined.
- Transfer and smooth. Spread the mixture evenly into your prepared baking dish, smoothing the top with a spatula.
- Bake. Bake uncovered for 22 to 25 minutes, until the top is golden and bubbling at the edges.
- Rest and serve. Let the dip rest for 5 minutes before serving. Set it out warm alongside crackers, toasted baguette slices, or pita chips. It goes fast — that’s how you know.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 245 | Protein: 7g | Fat: 22g | Carbs: 5g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 310mg