Caleb is eighteen months old. A year and a half. He's running, talking (twenty words now — his vocabulary expands daily), eating almost everything we eat (except broccoli, still rejected; the broccoli war continues), and has developed a personality that can only be described as 'Ryan's stubbornness plus Rachel's sociability, shaken, not stirred.'
He wants to cook with me every day. Every. Day. He drags his step stool to the counter and climbs up and reaches for things and says 'He'p! He'p!' which is his word for 'help' and also his word for 'give me that wooden spoon so I can hit things with it.' I let him. I give him a bowl and a spoon and something to stir — usually dry rice or pasta, something harmless — and he stirs with the focus of a surgeon.
Mom says I did the same thing. 'You were in my kitchen at two, stirring everything. You ruined a batch of cookies by adding an entire cup of salt instead of a teaspoon. You were very proud of yourself.'
I'm very proud of Caleb. He's my little sous chef. My tiny, incompetent, enthusiastic sous chef who can't reach the stove (good) and can't use a knife (excellent) but who stands at the counter and says 'He'p' and means it.
The pandemic is settling into a long middle — not the acute crisis of March, but the chronic uncertainty of April. We're not panicking anymore. We're enduring. The commissary has restocked most things (flour is back, hallelujah). The base is still restricted but less so. We can walk outside. We can go to the playground (masks, distance, hand sanitizer at the gate).
The blog's daily posting schedule has slowed to three times a week. I was burning out — daily recipes plus the column plus Caleb plus the general anxiety of a pandemic is too much. Three times a week is sustainable. Sustainable matters.
I wrote a column about burnout: 'The Military Wife Guide to Not Losing Your Mind.' Because military wives know about sustainability. We know about pacing. You can't sprint through a deployment. You can't sprint through a pandemic. You have to pace yourself. Cook dinner. Write the post. Hug the baby. Rest.
Rest. The hardest thing to do when the world is on fire.
Made Mom's shepherd's pie tonight — ground beef, vegetables, gravy, mashed potato top. Caleb ate the potatoes off the top and rejected everything underneath. Strategic eating. He's an Abernathy.
Eighteen months of pandemic baby. He doesn't know the world is different. To him, this IS the world: a kitchen and a step stool and a wooden spoon and 'He'p.'
Maybe that IS the world. Maybe that's all there is.
Mom’s shepherd’s pie is the real hero of tonight’s story — but on the nights when I want every bit of that same ground beef and vegetable comfort without hunting for the right size baking dish, these stuffed red peppers are where I land. Everything I love about that layered, gravy-rich casserole is tucked right inside each pepper: the seasoned beef, the tender vegetables, all of it self-contained and somehow even easier to get on the table while a certain eighteen-month-old is demanding his step stool and his wooden spoon. Caleb ate the tops off the peppers just like he ate the mashed potato crust off the shepherd’s pie — strategic eating runs deep in this family.
Vegetable & Beef Stuffed Red Peppers
Prep Time: 20 min | Cook Time: 40 min | Total Time: 1 hr | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 4 large red bell peppers
- 1 lb lean ground beef
- 1 cup cooked white or brown rice
- 1 medium yellow onion, diced
- 2 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 cup frozen mixed vegetables (peas, carrots, corn), thawed
- 1 can (14.5 oz) diced tomatoes, drained
- 2 tablespoons tomato paste
- 1 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce
- 1 teaspoon Italian seasoning
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1 cup shredded mozzarella or cheddar cheese, divided
- 1 tablespoon olive oil
Instructions
- Preheat and prep peppers. Preheat oven to 375°F. Slice the tops off the red peppers and remove seeds and membranes. Place peppers cut-side up in a baking dish just large enough to hold them upright. Lightly brush the outsides with olive oil.
- Cook the beef mixture. In a large skillet over medium-high heat, brown the ground beef, breaking it up as it cooks, about 5–6 minutes. Drain excess fat, then push the beef to one side and add the diced onion. Cook until the onion softens, about 3 minutes. Add the garlic and cook 1 minute more.
- Build the filling. Stir in the mixed vegetables, diced tomatoes, tomato paste, Worcestershire sauce, Italian seasoning, salt, and pepper. Simmer over medium heat for 5 minutes until the mixture thickens slightly. Remove from heat and fold in the cooked rice and 1/2 cup of the shredded cheese.
- Fill the peppers. Spoon the beef and vegetable filling generously into each prepared pepper, pressing down lightly to pack it in. Mound any extra filling on top. Sprinkle the remaining 1/2 cup cheese evenly over all four peppers.
- Bake covered. Cover the baking dish tightly with aluminum foil and bake for 25 minutes, until the peppers have softened.
- Finish uncovered. Remove the foil and bake an additional 10–15 minutes, until the cheese is bubbly and lightly golden and the peppers are fully tender when pierced with a fork.
- Rest and serve. Let the stuffed peppers rest for 5 minutes before serving. They hold their shape best when given a moment to settle.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 420 | Protein: 32g | Fat: 16g | Carbs: 34g | Fiber: 5g | Sodium: 620mg
About the cook who shared this
Rachel Abernathy
Week 212 of Rachel’s 30-year story
· San Diego, California
Rachel is a twenty-eight-year-old Marine wife and mom of two who has moved five times in six years and learned to cook a Thanksgiving dinner with half her cookware still in boxes. She married young, survived postpartum depression, and feeds her family of four on a junior Marine's salary with a freezer full of pre-made meals and a crockpot that has never let her down. She writes for the military spouses who are cooking dinner alone in base housing and wondering if they're enough. You are.