My week with the kids. I told them about the house Monday night over dinner Γçö baked chicken thighs with roasted potatoes and broccoli, a weeknight meal I can do in my sleep now, which still amazes the version of me who ate cereal for dinner three years ago. Aiden asked if he'd have his own room. I said yes. He said cool, in the way eight-year-olds say cool when they mean everything. Zaria asked if the house had a yard. I said yes. She asked if the yard had a swing set. I said not yet. She said, "But it will." This was not a question. This was a decree from Queen Zaria, First of Her Name, Ruler of All Conversations.
The move is February first. Three weeks to pack, clean, and figure out how to get my smoker across town without a truck. Darius has a friend with a pickup. Jerome said he'd help carry furniture. The plant guys offered too Γçö there's a solidarity among factory workers that extends past the line. You need a hand, you get a hand. Nobody keeps score.
Saturday was Aiden's basketball game. We played the team from Bagley and won 18-12. Aiden scored six and had four assists, which pleased me more than the points because passing means you see the whole floor and seeing the whole floor means you're thinking, not just reacting. I'm trying to coach him to be smart, not just talented. Talent got me a torn ACL on a gym floor. Smart gets you further. After the game we went to the apartment and I made tacos Γçö seasoned ground beef, shredded cheese, lettuce, tomato, sour cream. Simple dad food. The kids assembled their own. Zaria's taco was ninety percent sour cream. I did not intervene. Some battles are not worth fighting.
Sunday dinner at Mama's. She made red beans and rice Γçö Monday's dish cooked on Sunday because Cheryl Carter answers to God and tradition, in that order, but sometimes adjusts the schedule when the week demands it. Andouille sausage, the holy trinity of onion-celery-bell pepper, red beans soaked overnight and simmered for hours with bay leaves and thyme. Served over long-grain rice. Louisiana by way of Detroit by way of my grandmother, who carried this recipe north like luggage. I watched Mama cook and thought about the new kitchen Γçö bigger stove, more counter space, room to actually move. Room to teach Zaria. Room to become whatever I'm becoming.
Tacos have become a Saturday ritual for me and the kids — there’s something about letting Aiden and Zaria build their own that turns dinner into an event, no intervention required (yes, even when Zaria’s is ninety percent sour cream). After that win over Bagley and the energy we brought home, I knew I wanted to level up our usual ground beef situation. These ultimate fish tacos are everything taco night should be — bold, fresh, and just involved enough that the kids feel like they’re part of making something real.
The Ultimate Fish Tacos
Prep Time: 20 min | Cook Time: 15 min | Total Time: 35 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 1/2 lbs white fish fillets (cod, tilapia, or mahi-mahi), cut into strips
- 1 cup all-purpose flour
- 1 teaspoon chili powder
- 1 teaspoon garlic powder
- 1/2 teaspoon cumin
- 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 2 eggs, beaten
- 1 cup panko breadcrumbs
- 2 tablespoons vegetable oil (for pan-frying)
- 8 small corn or flour tortillas, warmed
- 1 1/2 cups shredded green cabbage
- 1/2 cup pico de gallo or fresh salsa
- 1 avocado, sliced
- 1/4 cup sour cream
- 2 tablespoons mayonnaise
- 1 tablespoon lime juice
- 1 teaspoon hot sauce (optional)
- Fresh cilantro and lime wedges, for serving
Instructions
- Make the crema. In a small bowl, whisk together sour cream, mayonnaise, lime juice, and hot sauce if using. Set aside in the refrigerator until ready to serve.
- Season the flour. In a shallow bowl, combine flour, chili powder, garlic powder, cumin, smoked paprika, salt, and black pepper. Mix well.
- Set up the breading station. Place beaten eggs in a second shallow bowl and panko breadcrumbs in a third. Pat fish strips dry with paper towels.
- Bread the fish. Dredge each fish strip in the seasoned flour, shaking off excess. Dip into the egg, then press into the panko until evenly coated on all sides.
- Pan-fry the fish. Heat oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Cook fish strips in batches, 3—4 minutes per side, until golden brown and cooked through. Transfer to a paper towel-lined plate.
- Warm the tortillas. Heat tortillas directly over a gas flame for 30 seconds per side, or wrap in a damp paper towel and microwave for 45 seconds.
- Build the tacos. Layer each tortilla with shredded cabbage, a strip or two of crispy fish, pico de gallo, avocado slices, and a drizzle of crema. Top with fresh cilantro and a squeeze of lime.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 480 | Protein: 34g | Fat: 18g | Carbs: 44g | Fiber: 5g | Sodium: 620mg