Back to ordinary time, which is what Gloria calls the weeks after a holiday. The church calendar has ordinary time and she borrowed it for regular life. After Christmas, after Easter, after a birthday, back to ordinary time. I like the phrase. It makes the regular weeks sound intentional rather than just in-between.
Ordinary time this week meant work, which meant Thomas going through a biting phase that is making everyone tense. He is not malicious, he is two, he does not have words for everything yet, and biting is a tool. My supervisor says redirect redirect redirect. I have been narrating his feelings out loud before he can bite: you are frustrated that Marcus has the truck, let us find words. It works about sixty percent of the time. The other forty percent I am writing incident reports.
In the kitchen I made my first attempt at her baked mac and cheese. The recipe I have had for months, the one that lives on a Post-it on my fridge. Sharp cheddar, Velveeta, evaporated milk, eggs, butter, salt, black pepper, a little mustard powder. You mix the cooked pasta with the sauce and pour it in a baking dish and bake at 350 until the top is golden and the edges pull away from the pan.
My first batch: the top was a little pale and the inside was more saucy than set. She said I needed to let it bake longer and also that my oven runs low. Get an oven thermometer, she said. I ordered one from Amazon that night for eight dollars. Wisdom costs eight dollars sometimes.
It tasted good though. It tasted like the right direction. I ate two helpings alone at my kitchen table and thought about how long I waited to have a kitchen table that was only mine. Long time. Worth waiting for.
The baked mac and cheese taught me something I am still sitting with: patience applied to heat is its own kind of skill. Turkey Tetrazzini asks for the same thing — a creamy pasta you pour into a dish and trust the oven to finish. After a week of incident reports and redirections and forty-percent failure rates, there is something clarifying about a recipe that just needs time and the right temperature. Get an oven thermometer. Bake until the edges pull away. Some lessons travel.
Turkey Tetrazzini
Prep Time: 20 min | Cook Time: 35 min | Total Time: 55 min | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 12 oz spaghetti or thin egg noodles
- 3 cups cooked turkey, shredded or cubed (rotisserie works well)
- 3 tablespoons unsalted butter
- 1 small yellow onion, diced
- 8 oz cremini mushrooms, sliced
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 3 tablespoons all-purpose flour
- 2 cups chicken broth, low sodium
- 1 cup whole milk
- 1/2 cup sour cream
- 1 1/2 cups shredded Parmesan cheese, divided
- 1/2 cup frozen peas
- 1 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon nutmeg
- 1/4 cup plain breadcrumbs
Instructions
- Preheat and prep. Preheat your oven to 375°F (use an oven thermometer if you have one — it makes a difference). Lightly grease a 9x13-inch baking dish. Cook pasta according to package directions until just shy of al dente, about 1 minute less than the package says. Drain and set aside.
- Build the sauce. In a large skillet or Dutch oven, melt butter over medium heat. Add onion and cook until softened, about 4 minutes. Add mushrooms and cook until they release their liquid and begin to brown, about 5 minutes. Add garlic and cook 1 minute more.
- Make the roux. Sprinkle flour over the vegetables and stir to coat, cooking for 1 minute. Slowly pour in the chicken broth while stirring, then add the milk. Bring to a gentle simmer and cook, stirring frequently, until the sauce thickens, about 4–5 minutes.
- Finish the filling. Remove from heat and stir in sour cream, 1 cup of the Parmesan, salt, pepper, and nutmeg. Fold in the cooked pasta, turkey, and peas until everything is well coated.
- Assemble and top. Pour the mixture into the prepared baking dish and spread evenly. In a small bowl, combine the remaining 1/2 cup Parmesan with the breadcrumbs and scatter over the top.
- Bake. Bake uncovered for 30–35 minutes, until the top is golden and the edges are bubbling and beginning to pull from the pan. Let rest 5 minutes before serving.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 485 | Protein: 34g | Fat: 17g | Carbs: 48g | Fiber: 3g | Sodium: 620mg