My week with the kids. The Lions on Sunday. The quiet desperation of Lions fans returns. Tuesday was a long shift — second-shift overlap on a build target. Cleared it.
Pop's in the recliner. Tigers on. Sugar in range this week. Sunday at Mama's. She made greens with hambone the way she has since 1985.
Baked mac and cheese for the family. Three cheeses. Brown crust on top.
Aiden's 10. The youth basketball league. I'm coaching. He's the best player on the team and he knows it. Zaria's 8. Helps me cook on a step stool. Has opinions about the seasoning.
I am tired in the right way. The right way is the cost of love. I will pay it.
Drove past Jefferson North on Tuesday. The plant is still the plant. The trucks coming out. I waved at the gate guard out of habit. He waved back even though he didn't know me. The plant is its own neighborhood.
The custody calendar holds. Aiden and Zaria alternate weeks. Brianna and I co-parent without drama now. We do not always have to like each other to do this right.
The Lions on TV Sunday. Lost on a missed field goal. Detroit. The neighborhood collectively groaned at the same moment. You could hear it through the windows.
The basketball court at the rec center got refurbished. New floor. Plays different. Bouncy. I shot a few from the elbow before practice Wednesday. The knee held. The shot fell short.
The block had a small drama Tuesday. Somebody parked in front of Ms. Diane's driveway. Ms. Diane addressed it directly. The car moved within the hour. The neighborhood polices itself on small things.
I took a walk around the block Sunday morning. The neighborhood was quiet. The trees were the trees. The light was good. I waved at three porches. The porches waved back. Brookline holds.
Mr. Williams across the street had a heart scare. He is okay. We are all watching each other now. I took him a plate of greens and chicken Wednesday. He said, "DeShawn. You're a good neighbor." I said, "We're even, Mr. Williams. You shoveled my walk in 2024." He laughed.
The grass came in fast this week. Cut it Saturday morning before the heat. The mower had been sitting all winter. Took three pulls to start. Once it ran, it ran. Some things just need patience.
The drive home Friday was the long way around. I took Outer Drive past the lake. The water was still. I do not always notice the water. I noticed Friday.
Filled the propane tank Wednesday. The smoker is the only appliance I baby. Wiped it down. Checked the gaskets. Checked the temperature gauge. The smoker is mine the way Pop's torque wrench was his.
The kids next door knocked over my trash cans Tuesday night. Their dad made them help me clean up Wednesday morning. Good man. The kids apologized. I gave them each a Capri Sun. Cycle complete.
A neighbor down the street gave me a tomato plant Saturday. He grows them on his porch. Said he had extra. I put it next to the back step where it gets the afternoon sun. Detroit gardens are improvised victories.
Truck needed an oil change Saturday. Did it myself in the driveway. Took an hour. The neighbor across the street gave me a thumbs-up from his porch. I gave him one back. Detroit men do not waste words on car maintenance.
Aiden had practice Tuesday and Thursday. I drove. He shot threes for an hour after.
Pop sat in the recliner Sunday. He fell asleep before the third quarter. We covered him with a blanket.
The neighbor down the street handed me that tomato plant on Saturday like it was nothing — said he had extra, pointed me toward the afternoon sun by the back step, and walked back to his porch. That’s Detroit. You don’t make a speech about it. By the time I’d finished the oil change and covered Pop with a blanket and thought about the whole week — Aiden’s threes, Zaria on her step stool, Mr. Williams laughing about the shoveled walk — I wanted something that matched the mood: no fuss, honest ingredients, nothing trying too hard. This tomato onion salad is exactly that. Clean, simple, and worth paying attention to.
Tomato Onion Salad
Prep Time: 10 min | Cook Time: 0 min | Total Time: 10 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 3 large ripe tomatoes, sliced 1/4 inch thick
- 1 medium red onion, thinly sliced into rings
- 3 tablespoons olive oil
- 1 1/2 tablespoons red wine vinegar
- 1/2 teaspoon granulated sugar
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more to taste
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1 tablespoon fresh parsley, roughly chopped (or fresh basil)
Instructions
- Slice and layer. Arrange the tomato slices in a single overlapping layer on a wide, shallow plate or platter. Scatter the red onion rings evenly over the top.
- Make the dressing. In a small bowl, whisk together the olive oil, red wine vinegar, sugar, salt, and black pepper until the sugar dissolves and the dressing comes together.
- Dress the salad. Drizzle the dressing evenly over the tomatoes and onions. Tilt the plate slightly to let it settle into the layers.
- Rest before serving. Let the salad sit at room temperature for at least 10 minutes before serving. This draws a little juice from the tomatoes and softens the bite of the onion.
- Finish and serve. Scatter the fresh parsley or basil over the top. Taste and adjust salt. Serve at room temperature — do not refrigerate before serving or the tomatoes will lose their texture.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 115 | Protein: 1g | Fat: 10g | Carbs: 7g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 240mg