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Stewed Tomatoes with Dumplings — The Dish That Carried Babcia’s Spirit Forward

The RecipeSpinoff piece is live. "Recipe Cards and a Rubber Band: How My Grandmother Taught Me to Cook After She Died" by Jake Kowalski. Published Monday at 8 AM. I read it on my phone at the brewery, leaning against a grain silo, heart pounding. By noon, it had twenty thousand reads. By Wednesday, fifty thousand. By Friday, a hundred thousand. A hundred thousand people read about Babcia. About the recipe cards tied with a rubber band. About the kid who couldn't make pierogi and then could. About the grief and the cooking and the grandmother who taught her grandson to love without ever saying the word. The response was overwhelming. Hundreds of comments. Thousands of shares. DMs from strangers who cried while reading. A woman in Poland — actual Poland — wrote to say her grandmother made the same pierogi and she hadn't thought about them in twenty years and she was going to call her mother. A man in Brooklyn said he pulled out his grandmother's recipe box after reading my piece and found a pierogi recipe he'd forgotten existed. My Instagram crossed sixty thousand followers in a week. RecipeSpinoff featured the piece on their homepage. Milwaukee Eats shared it. The national magazine writer who profiled me shared it. Mrs. Wojcik heard about it from someone at church (Mrs. Wojcik still doesn't have internet, but she has the Polish Center information network, which is faster). I called Mom. She'd read it. She was crying — of course. "Jake, the whole world knows about Babcia now," she said. The whole world doesn't, but enough of it does. Enough to matter. Dad texted. Three words: "Good job, kid." Tom Kowalski, embracing technology to deliver a text message. The man bought a phone with text capability specifically for moments like this. Three words. A novel. I went to Babcia's grave on Saturday. Sat on the grass. "A hundred thousand people, Babcia. A hundred thousand people know about your pierogi. Your recipe cards. Your rubber band. You." The wind blew through the cemetery. The summer sun was warm. I sat there for a long time and didn't say anything else because there was nothing else to say. I'm a RecipeSpinoff writer now. I'm a food writer. I'm Babcia's grandson with a platform and a voice and a hundred thousand people who know what a rubber band and some grease-stained cards can mean. This is the beginning. Mrs. Wojcik was right. This is the beginning.

After sitting at Babcia’s grave on Saturday — after a week that turned a rubber band and a stack of recipe cards into something a hundred thousand people held in their hands — I needed to cook something that felt like her without trying to be her. Pierogi carry too much ceremony right now, too much weight and love and grief all folded together; I wasn’t ready to stand at that counter again so soon. But dumplings simmered low and slow in a deep tomato braise? That’s the same impulse, the same Eastern European instinct to make something soft and filling and honest out of very little. This is the recipe I came back to, the one that let me be in the kitchen again without it breaking me open.

Stewed Tomatoes with Dumplings

Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 35 min | Total Time: 50 min | Servings: 4

Ingredients

  • 2 cans (14.5 oz each) diced tomatoes, with juices
  • 1 can (14.5 oz) crushed tomatoes
  • 1 medium yellow onion, diced
  • 2 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 tablespoon olive oil
  • 1 teaspoon granulated sugar
  • 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
  • 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
  • Salt and black pepper to taste
  • 1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
  • 2 teaspoons baking powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 3/4 cup whole milk
  • 2 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted
  • 1 egg, lightly beaten
  • Fresh parsley, chopped, for garnish

Instructions

  1. Build the base. Heat olive oil in a large, deep skillet or Dutch oven over medium heat. Add the diced onion and cook, stirring occasionally, until softened and translucent, about 6–8 minutes. Add the garlic and cook 1 minute more until fragrant.
  2. Simmer the tomatoes. Pour in the diced and crushed tomatoes with all their juices. Stir in the sugar, smoked paprika, and thyme. Season generously with salt and black pepper. Bring to a gentle simmer and cook uncovered for 12–15 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the stew has thickened slightly and the flavors meld.
  3. Make the dumpling batter. While the tomatoes simmer, whisk together the flour, baking powder, and salt in a medium bowl. In a separate small bowl, combine the milk, melted butter, and beaten egg. Pour the wet ingredients into the dry and stir just until a shaggy, soft batter forms — do not overmix.
  4. Drop and cover. Reduce the heat under the tomato stew to medium-low so it maintains a gentle simmer. Using a tablespoon, drop heaping spoonfuls of dumpling batter directly onto the surface of the stew, spacing them slightly apart. You should get 10–12 dumplings. Immediately place a tight-fitting lid on the pot.
  5. Steam through. Cook covered, without lifting the lid, for 15 minutes. The dumplings will puff and cook through from the steam — lifting the lid early will deflate them. After 15 minutes, check that a toothpick inserted into the center of a dumpling comes out clean.
  6. Finish and serve. Taste the stew and adjust seasoning. Ladle into wide shallow bowls, making sure each serving gets 2–3 dumplings well-cradled in the tomato braise. Scatter fresh chopped parsley over the top and serve immediately.

Nutrition (per serving)

Calories: 340 | Protein: 9g | Fat: 10g | Carbs: 54g | Fiber: 5g | Sodium: 780mg

Jake Kowalski
About the cook who shared this
Jake Kowalski
Week 221 of Jake’s 30-year story · Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Jake is a twenty-nine-year-old brewery worker, newlywed, and proud Polish-American from Milwaukee's Bay View neighborhood. He didn't start cooking until his grandmother Babcia Helen passed away and left behind a stack of grease-stained recipe cards. Now he makes pierogi from scratch, smokes meats on a balcony smoker his landlord pretends not to notice, and writes for guys who want to cook good food but don't know a roux from a rub.

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