January 2020. The calendar turns and suddenly everything is about the next season — recruiting, staff development, facility improvements. I presented a three-year plan to the athletic director this week that laid out where I want this program to be in 2022. He called it ambitious. I said ambitious was the point. He smiled. We understand each other now, which took about eight months and a state title.
Diego started varsity conditioning this week. It's a January program — not mandatory, not tied to the fall roster yet, just an invitation for anyone who wants to be part of what's being built. He showed up every day. On Friday, after the session, Tui found me in the hallway and said three words: "He's different, Coach." Tui doesn't say things like this casually. I had to work to keep my face neutral for the rest of the day.
Sofia turned eleven this week. She asked for nothing. She's at an age where she doesn't want things, she wants experiences — so we took her to a cooking class, the two of us, a Mexican cooking class at a kitchen studio on Broadway. We made mole negro together from scratch. It took three hours. The class was designed for adults and the instructor kept looking at Sofia like she was an anomaly, which she is. Sofia asked better questions than anyone else in the room.
The mole was extraordinary — forty-plus ingredients, the chocolate and dried chile combination creating something that tastes like it came from another century, because it did. I've been making mole my own way for years. I learned three things in that class that will change how I make it forever. Sofia wrote down everything. She's going to be a cook. She doesn't know it yet. I can see it in how she asks about the why.
That mole negro class reminded me of something I’d drifted away from — the satisfaction of standing over a pan and building a sauce layer by layer, ingredient by ingredient, until it becomes something that tastes like intention. Steak Diane isn’t mole, but it lives in the same spirit: a dish that rewards patience and attention, one that has a real why behind every step. Sofia wrote down everything she learned that day. This recipe is the one I reach for when I want to honor that same instinct — to cook something that has actual depth, the kind you can taste.
Steak Diane (Cheesecake Factory Copycat)
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 20 min | Total Time: 35 min | Servings: 2
Ingredients
- 2 beef tenderloin steaks (6 oz each), pounded to 1/2-inch thickness
- 1/2 tsp kosher salt
- 1/2 tsp freshly cracked black pepper
- 2 tbsp unsalted butter, divided
- 1 tbsp olive oil
- 2 shallots, finely minced
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 8 oz cremini mushrooms, thinly sliced
- 1/4 cup cognac or brandy
- 1 tbsp Dijon mustard
- 2 tsp Worcestershire sauce
- 1 tsp Dijon whole-grain mustard
- 1/2 cup beef broth
- 1/2 cup heavy cream
- 1 tbsp fresh flat-leaf parsley, finely chopped
- 1 tsp fresh chives, snipped
Instructions
- Season and rest the steaks. Pat steaks completely dry with paper towels. Season both sides generously with salt and cracked black pepper. Let them sit at room temperature for 10 minutes while you prep the other ingredients.
- Sear the steaks. Heat 1 tbsp butter and the olive oil in a heavy skillet (cast iron preferred) over high heat until just beginning to smoke. Add steaks and sear 2–3 minutes per side for medium-rare, or until they reach your preferred doneness. Transfer to a plate and tent loosely with foil.
- Build the aromatics. Reduce heat to medium. Add remaining 1 tbsp butter to the same pan. Add shallots and cook, stirring often, for 2 minutes until softened. Add garlic and cook 30 seconds more until fragrant.
- Cook the mushrooms. Add sliced mushrooms to the pan in a single layer. Cook undisturbed for 2 minutes to develop color, then stir and cook another 2–3 minutes until they’re golden and any moisture has evaporated.
- Deglaze with cognac. Remove pan from heat. Add cognac to the pan, then carefully return to heat. Allow the alcohol to reduce for 30–60 seconds, scraping up all browned bits from the bottom of the pan — this is where the flavor lives.
- Build the sauce. Whisk in both mustards and the Worcestershire sauce. Pour in the beef broth and stir to combine. Bring to a simmer and cook 2 minutes to reduce slightly.
- Finish with cream. Stir in the heavy cream. Simmer gently for 3–4 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the sauce thickens enough to coat the back of a spoon. Taste and adjust salt and pepper.
- Return and finish. Nestle the steaks back into the sauce and let them warm through for 1 minute, spooning the sauce over the top. Remove from heat, scatter parsley and chives over everything, and serve immediately.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 620 | Protein: 42g | Fat: 44g | Carbs: 8g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 680mg