Spring pushes back against the grief, the way spring always does — insistently, beautifully, without asking permission. The azaleas are blooming. The garden is growing. The Cherokee Purples are in the ground and reaching for the sun. Life is happening whether I'm ready for it or not, and I have learned, after sixty-seven years, that readiness is optional. Life doesn't wait. You either move with it or you stand still and it moves around you, and standing still is not something Henderson women do.
The wedding is thirteen months away. Kayla and Devon came over Sunday with a binder — an actual three-ring binder with dividers and plastic sleeves and color-coded tabs. The tab labeled "FOOD" was the thickest. "That's your section, Granny," Kayla said. I opened it. Inside: the menu (finalized by me), the quantities (calculated by me), the timeline (three days of cooking, organized by me), the volunteer list (ten Henderson women and Robert, who does what he's told). I said, "This is very organized." Kayla said, "I learned from the best." I said, "Mama?" She said, "The hospital. But also Mama."
The reception will be in the fellowship hall at First African — the same hall where my 70th birthday was, where the Lowcountry boil overflow goes, where the community gathers. Kayla wants long tables, family-style, the food in the center, everyone serving themselves. I said, "That's how we eat at home." She said, "Exactly." A wedding reception that feels like Sunday dinner. That's my granddaughter. She knows.
Made hoppin' John tonight. The comfort dish. The dish that grounds me when the world is spinning. The peas were creamy. The rice was perfect. The tradition holds. It always holds.
Now go on and feed somebody.
This Spinach Blueberry Wheat Berry Salad came into my cooking rotation the way most good things do — somebody at First African brought it to a fellowship supper and I had to have the recipe before the night was over. It’s been on my mind for Kayla’s reception: something that feels like spring, something you can build in a big bowl and set right in the center of those long tables so everybody can reach. The wheat berries have that same grounding, chewy substance that hoppin’ John has — they settle you, fill you, remind you that the earth is still solid under your feet. When you’re planning a wedding and carrying grief at the same time, you need food that steadies you, and this salad does exactly that.
Spinach Blueberry Wheat Berry Salad
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 50 min | Total Time: 1 hr 5 min | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 1 cup hard or soft wheat berries, rinsed
- 3 cups water
- 1/2 teaspoon salt, divided
- 5 cups fresh baby spinach
- 1 cup fresh blueberries
- 1/2 cup pecans, toasted and roughly chopped
- 1/4 cup thinly sliced red onion
- 1/3 cup crumbled feta cheese
- 3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
- 2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar
- 1 tablespoon honey
- 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard
- Freshly ground black pepper to taste
Instructions
- Cook the wheat berries. Combine wheat berries, water, and 1/4 teaspoon salt in a medium saucepan. Bring to a boil over high heat, then reduce to a low simmer. Cover and cook 45–50 minutes until the berries are tender but still pleasantly chewy. Drain any remaining water and spread on a baking sheet to cool completely, about 15 minutes.
- Toast the pecans. While the wheat berries cook, place pecans in a dry skillet over medium heat. Stir frequently for 3–4 minutes until fragrant and lightly browned. Remove from heat and let cool.
- Make the dressing. In a small bowl or jar, whisk together the olive oil, balsamic vinegar, honey, Dijon mustard, remaining 1/4 teaspoon salt, and black pepper until fully emulsified.
- Assemble the salad. In a large serving bowl, combine the cooled wheat berries, baby spinach, blueberries, red onion, and toasted pecans. Drizzle the dressing over the top and toss gently so the spinach stays whole and the blueberries don’t crush.
- Finish and serve. Scatter the crumbled feta over the top. Serve immediately for a fresh salad, or refrigerate up to 2 hours — the wheat berries hold up beautifully. Add feta just before serving if making ahead.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 278 | Protein: 8g | Fat: 14g | Carbs: 34g | Fiber: 6g | Sodium: 195mg