End of school year approaching. Luc is finishing eighth grade — his last year of middle school. Next fall: high school. The word "high school" makes my chest tighten in a way that I'm pretty sure is not medically significant but is emotionally enormous. High school means driving, dating, leaving, becoming. It means the door that's been slowly closing is about to close a little more, and I know the door needs to close, and I know the closing is the point, and I still want to wedge a crawfish pot in the frame to keep it open.
Colette is finishing fourth grade with her typical excellence — straight A's, teacher's notes that read like college recommendation letters, a classroom organization system that she implemented without being asked. Her teacher told Danielle: "Colette reorganized my supply closet. I didn't ask her to. She just did it." My daughter is ten years old and reorganizing authority figures' closets. I'm terrified. I'm delighted. I'm both.
Rémy is finishing first grade and has, mercifully, learned to read well enough to sound out recipes, which is exactly the disaster I predicted. He found my gumbo recipe (written on an index card, in Joey's handwriting, taped to the inside of the spice cabinet) and read it aloud at dinner: "One. Cup. Flour. One. Cup. Oil. Stir. For. Forty. Five. Minutes." He looked at me. "That's a long time, Papa." "Oui, cher." "Worth it?" "Always."
Made a shrimp and grits for the end-of-year celebration — the ultimate comfort pairing, the meal that says "you survived" without saying "barely." Stone-ground grits, slow-cooked, buttery. Gulf shrimp in a pan sauce with andouille, garlic, and a splash of Worcestershire. The kind of food that makes the shoulders drop and the jaw unclench and the year — the long, loud, homework-checking, lunch-packing, baseball-watching, piano-recital-attending year — feel like it was worth every minute. Because it was.
So that’s what I made — shrimp and grits, slow and deliberate, while the kids ran through the house with that unhinged end-of-year energy. One kid heading to high school, one reorganizing the world without permission, one sounding out gumbo recipes at the dinner table. They deserved a meal that didn’t rush, a meal that said sit down, breathe, you did it. Here’s how I put it together.
Shrimp and Grits
Prep Time: 15 minutes | Cook Time: 35 minutes | Total Time: 50 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- For the grits:
- 1 cup stone-ground grits
- 3 cups water
- 1 cup whole milk
- 3 tablespoons unsalted butter
- 1/2 cup sharp cheddar cheese, shredded
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- For the shrimp:
- 1 1/2 pounds large Gulf shrimp, peeled and deveined
- 6 ounces andouille sausage, sliced into half-moons
- 4 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
- 1/2 cup chicken broth
- 2 tablespoons unsalted butter
- 1 tablespoon olive oil
- 3 green onions, sliced
- 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
- Juice of 1/2 lemon
- Salt and black pepper to taste
Instructions
- Cook the grits. Bring the water, milk, and salt to a boil in a medium saucepan. Slowly whisk in the grits, reduce heat to low, and cover. Cook for 25–30 minutes, stirring every 5 minutes, until thick and creamy. Stir in the butter and cheddar cheese. Season with pepper and keep warm.
- Brown the andouille. Heat olive oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add the andouille slices and cook until browned on both sides, about 3–4 minutes. Remove and set aside.
- Season the shrimp. Toss the shrimp with smoked paprika, cayenne, and a pinch of salt and pepper.
- Sear the shrimp. In the same skillet over medium-high heat, add the shrimp in a single layer. Cook for 1–2 minutes per side until pink and just cooked through. Remove and set aside with the andouille.
- Build the pan sauce. Reduce heat to medium. Add butter and garlic to the skillet, stirring for 30 seconds until fragrant. Pour in the chicken broth and Worcestershire sauce, scraping up any browned bits. Let the sauce simmer for 2–3 minutes until slightly reduced.
- Bring it together. Return the shrimp and andouille to the skillet. Toss to coat in the sauce. Squeeze in the lemon juice and remove from heat.
- Serve. Spoon the grits into bowls, top with the shrimp, andouille, and pan sauce. Garnish with sliced green onions.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 520 | Protein: 38g | Fat: 28g | Carbs: 32g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 980mg