Spring in the desert. The temperature is climbing — 90 this week, which is the desert saying 'buckle up, because it gets worse from here.' The tomato plants are growing. Dad was right: two of the six didn't make it. Four survive. Four is enough.
Caleb and I have a routine now that I love: every morning, we go to the patio and check the tomatoes. He bends down and looks at the leaves and says, 'Growing, Mama!' and I say, 'Growing, baby.' And we water them with the little green watering can that Soo-Jin sent as a housewarming gift.
A Korean-American woman's watering can, watering a Virginia grandfather's tomato seeds, in a California desert, tended by a toddler in a chef's apron.
The military life, distilled.
I've been thinking about what comes after the desert. Ryan's orders are for two years at Twentynine Palms, which means we have about fifteen months left. Then: another PCS. Somewhere. Everywhere. Nowhere we can predict.
But the book will be published during those fifteen months. The book will exist in the world while I'm still in the desert. And after the desert, wherever we go, the book goes too. On shelves, in libraries, in base exchanges. In the hands of women I haven't met yet.
Blog this week: a recipe from a reader in Germany — a military wife stationed at Ramstein who makes her German neighbor's käsespätzle (cheese spaetzle). The recipe is simple: flour, eggs, salt, water, mixed into a shaggy dough, pushed through a spaetzle press (or a colander) into boiling water, then tossed with caramelized onions and gruyère. Heavy, rich, the kind of food that sticks to your ribs and makes you forget you're on a base in Germany missing home.
The reader submissions keep coming. Fifty per week now. I can only publish one per week. The backlog is enormous. Every submission is a woman's story. Every recipe is a kitchen I can't visit.
But I'm preserving them. In the blog, in the binder, in the book's afterword that lists every reader who contributed. Their names. Their bases. Their recipes.
For all the Donnas. All of them. Every single one.
Made the käsespätzle tonight. Rich, cheesy, exactly what a cold desert night needs. Caleb ate the noodles and the cheese and rejected the onions because two-year-olds reject onions on principle.
New recipe. New kitchen. Same table.
The binder is volume two now. The first volume is full.
The käsespätzle from the Ramstein reader is the one I keep coming back to — that idea of a simple noodle dough, something humble and handmade, transformed by heat and cheese and time into something that makes you feel genuinely fed. When I went looking for the recipe to share here, I wanted to honor that spirit: a noodle dish that doesn’t need much, just good technique and a little patience, the kind of thing you can make on a cold desert night when the toddler is already in pajamas and you need dinner to work. These Sesame Noodles with Broccoli and Almonds live in that same register — fast, satisfying, the kind of bowl that asks nothing of you except that you show up and eat.
Sesame Noodles with Broccoli and Almonds
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 15 minutes | Total Time: 25 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 12 oz spaghetti or lo mein noodles
- 3 cups broccoli florets, cut into small pieces
- 1/3 cup sliced almonds, toasted
- 3 tablespoons sesame oil (toasted)
- 3 tablespoons soy sauce
- 2 tablespoons rice vinegar
- 1 tablespoon honey
- 2 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 teaspoon fresh ginger, grated
- 1/2 teaspoon red pepper flakes (optional)
- 2 tablespoons sesame seeds, for garnish
- 2 green onions, thinly sliced, for garnish
Instructions
- Make the sauce. In a small bowl, whisk together sesame oil, soy sauce, rice vinegar, honey, garlic, and ginger until fully combined. Set aside.
- Cook the noodles. Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil. Cook noodles according to package directions until al dente. In the last 2 minutes of cooking, add the broccoli florets directly to the boiling water with the noodles.
- Drain and toss. Drain the noodles and broccoli together. Transfer to a large bowl and immediately pour the sesame sauce over the top. Toss well to coat, making sure the sauce gets into all the noodles.
- Toast the almonds. If not already toasted, add sliced almonds to a dry skillet over medium heat and stir for 2—3 minutes until golden and fragrant. Watch closely; they go fast.
- Finish and serve. Top the noodle bowl with toasted almonds, sesame seeds, and sliced green onions. Add red pepper flakes if using. Serve warm or at room temperature.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 420 | Protein: 14g | Fat: 16g | Carbs: 58g | Fiber: 5g | Sodium: 680mg
About the cook who shared this
Rachel Abernathy
Week 259 of Rachel’s 30-year story
· San Diego, California
Rachel is a twenty-eight-year-old Marine wife and mom of two who has moved five times in six years and learned to cook a Thanksgiving dinner with half her cookware still in boxes. She married young, survived postpartum depression, and feeds her family of four on a junior Marine's salary with a freezer full of pre-made meals and a crockpot that has never let her down. She writes for the military spouses who are cooking dinner alone in base housing and wondering if they're enough. You are.