Elijah is four months old. He sits — not independently, not confidently, but with the supported lean of a baby propped between cushions who is trying very hard to be upright and succeeding approximately 60% of the time. The other 40% is toppling, which he handles with the grace of someone who doesn't know that falling is supposed to be embarrassing. He falls and he looks up and he laughs because falling is hilarious when you're four months old. I wish I had his relationship with failure. I wish falling made me laugh instead of cry in the bathroom.
Chloe's cooking class is her new favorite thing. Rosa — the instructor — teaches with the patience of a woman who has watched many children drop eggs on floors. This week: scrambled eggs (Chloe already knows this, but Rosa's technique involves a double boiler and French-style slow stirring that produces eggs so creamy they barely qualify as the same food). Chloe came to me after class and said, "Mama, we've been making eggs wrong." WRONG. My child took one Zoom cooking class and is now correcting my technique. I am simultaneously offended and delighted. She's going to be a better cook than me. She's going to be a better cook than Mama. She might — and this is the highest compliment I can give — be as good as Earline. The line doesn't just continue. The line improves.
Halloween is approaching and Jayden wants to be — you'll never guess — a firefighter. The streak continues. Year four of the firefighter costume. I suggested, gently, that he might want to try something new. He looked at me as if I'd suggested he breathe underwater. "Why would I be something DIFFERENT?" Why indeed. The boy knows who he is. Most adults spend decades trying to figure out who they are. Jayden knew at age two. A firefighter. Always. The helmet is the crown. The red is the color. The siren is the song. Jayden Mitchell, age five, firefighter forever.
Chloe wants to be Ruth Bader Ginsburg, who died three weeks ago. My daughter wants to honor a Supreme Court justice for Halloween. She needs: a black robe (my graduation gown from Nashville State, hemmed to eight-year-old size), a lace collar (craft supplies and hot glue), and glasses (fake ones, dollar store). She said: "RBG fought for what's right even when people told her she couldn't." Chloe is eight and she knows who RBG is and she wants to be her for Halloween and I am raising this child CORRECTLY.
I made pumpkin soup — roasted sugar pumpkin, blended smooth, with a swirl of cream and toasted pepitas on top. The October soup. The soup that tastes like the month itself — warm, orange (Jayden approved), slightly sweet, and full of something that feels like endings and beginnings mixed together. October is both. October is always both.
The pumpkin soup I mentioned was the kind of meal that practically makes itself when the season demands it — but this roasted carrot soup is the version I reach for when I want that same warm, orange October feeling with a little more texture and something extra on top to make it feel celebratory. After a week of Elijah’s wobbly sitting, Chloe’s egg epiphanies, and two very different but equally certain Halloween costumes, I needed a pot of something that felt as grounded and vivid as my kids do. The za’atar chickpeas on top are the finishing touch — a little crisp, a little herby, and Jayden did in fact approve of the color.
Roasted Carrot Soup with Za’atar Chickpeas
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 45 min | Total Time: 1 hr | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 2 lbs carrots, peeled and cut into 1-inch pieces
- 1 medium yellow onion, roughly chopped
- 4 cloves garlic, unpeeled
- 3 tablespoons olive oil, divided
- 1 teaspoon ground cumin
- 1/2 teaspoon ground coriander
- 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper (optional)
- 4 cups vegetable broth
- 1/2 cup full-fat coconut milk (or heavy cream)
- Salt and black pepper to taste
- 1 can (15 oz) chickpeas, drained and rinsed, patted very dry
- 1 1/2 tablespoons za’atar seasoning
- Fresh lemon juice, for finishing
- Fresh parsley or cilantro, for garnish
Instructions
- Roast the vegetables. Preheat oven to 425°F. Spread carrots, onion, and unpeeled garlic cloves on a large sheet pan. Drizzle with 2 tablespoons olive oil, season generously with salt and pepper, and toss to coat. Roast for 30–35 minutes, flipping halfway, until the carrots are tender and caramelized at the edges.
- Prepare the chickpeas. While the vegetables roast, toss the dried chickpeas with the remaining 1 tablespoon olive oil and the za’atar seasoning. Spread on a separate small sheet pan and roast alongside the vegetables for 20–25 minutes, until golden and crispy. Remove and set aside.
- Blend the soup. Squeeze the roasted garlic cloves out of their skins. Transfer the roasted carrots, onion, and garlic to a blender. Add cumin, coriander, cayenne (if using), and vegetable broth. Blend on high until completely smooth and silky, about 1–2 minutes. Work in batches if needed.
- Finish and season. Pour the blended soup into a pot over medium-low heat. Stir in the coconut milk. Taste and adjust salt, pepper, and a squeeze of fresh lemon juice. Warm through for 5 minutes without boiling.
- Serve. Ladle soup into bowls and top generously with the za’atar chickpeas. Finish with a drizzle of olive oil and fresh parsley or cilantro.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 340 | Protein: 9g | Fat: 16g | Carbs: 44g | Fiber: 10g | Sodium: 620mg