Father's Day again. The holiday I skip. But this year, instead of feeling the absence, I felt something else — something closer to gratitude. Not for Danny, who is still gone, still somewhere in Arkansas being nobody's father. But for the men who showed up anyway. Kevin, who FaceTimes the kids every week and sends money when he can and fixed my garbage disposal from four hours away. Mr. Gerald, who has tipped me every morning for two years and asked about my grades like a grandfather who wandered into my life through the Waffle House door. Terrence — Elijah's future father, though we don't know that yet — who will, someday, be the man who stays even from a distance.
Wait. I'm getting ahead of myself. Terrence hasn't happened yet. That's two years from now. Right now, I'm a single mother of two with no romantic prospects and no interest in acquiring any, because the last time I acquired a romantic prospect, he left when the baby was six months old, and I am not doing that math again.
Chloe drew another family picture. This one has: me, her, Jayden, Mama, and the neighbor's cat (who has earned family status through sheer persistence and the fact that Chloe feeds it tuna on the porch). No daddy in the picture. She didn't explain it. She didn't need to. The family is who shows up. The cat shows up more than Marcus ever did.
The celebration dinner for Kevin and Crystal happened this weekend. Kevin drove down from Campbell with Crystal, who walked in holding a pie — pecan, again, because Crystal has learned that the way to Lorraine Mitchell's heart is through a pie crust. Mama hugged her and said, "Let me see the ring." Crystal held up her hand. The ring was small and perfect, like Kevin. Mama said, "That's a good ring." Coming from Lorraine, that's the equivalent of a full-page ad in the New York Times. Crystal is in. Crystal is family.
I made the cornbread. Mama made the potatoes. The pot roast was communal. We ate too much. Chloe and Crystal bonded over some Disney movie on Mama's ancient TV. Jayden fell asleep in Kevin's arms — his favorite place, always, since he was a baby. Kevin held my sleeping son and looked at Crystal and I saw the future in his eyes — the future where Kevin Mitchell is a father, a good one, the one who stays. The cycle breaks with him. It broke with me too, just differently. Different breakings for different Mitchells.
I made an icebox pie for dessert — chocolate pudding in a graham cracker crust, topped with Cool Whip, refrigerated until set. Earline's recipe card says: "Icebox pie. Make it the day before. Or don't. I'm not the boss of you." EARLINE. Even from beyond the grave, she's giving me attitude. I made it the day before. It was perfect. The chocolate was cool and smooth and the crust was salty and sweet and Kevin ate two pieces and Crystal ate one and Mama ate half and told me it needed more Cool Whip, because Lorraine Mitchell always needs more Cool Whip.
Earline’s original recipe card calls for boxed pudding and a store-bought crust, and I will defend that version until I die — but this raw vegan chocolate mousse scratches the exact same itch: cool, creamy, deeply chocolatey, and better after a night in the fridge. It’s the no-bake spirit of that icebox pie translated into something I can make for any table, any occasion, any celebration where someone like Kevin deserves two servings and Mama still tells you it needs more Cool Whip. Make it the day before. Or don’t. I’m not the boss of you.
Raw Vegan Chocolate Mousse
Prep Time: 10 min | Cook Time: 0 min | Total Time: 1 hr 10 min (includes chilling) | Servings: 4–6
Ingredients
- 2 large ripe avocados, pitted and scooped
- 1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
- 1/4 cup pure maple syrup, plus more to taste
- 1/4 cup full-fat coconut cream
- 1 tsp pure vanilla extract
- 1/4 tsp fine sea salt
- Optional toppings: whipped coconut cream, chocolate shavings, crushed graham crackers
Instructions
- Blend the base. Add avocados, cocoa powder, maple syrup, coconut cream, vanilla, and salt to a food processor or high-speed blender. Process for 60–90 seconds, scraping down the sides once, until completely smooth and no avocado lumps remain.
- Taste and adjust. Sample the mousse and add more maple syrup for sweetness or a pinch more salt to deepen the chocolate flavor. Blend again briefly to incorporate.
- Chill. Transfer mousse to serving glasses or a single bowl. Cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour — or overnight for best texture. The cold sets the mousse and rounds out the chocolate.
- Serve. Top with whipped coconut cream, chocolate shavings, or a sprinkle of crushed graham crackers just before serving. Serve cold directly from the refrigerator.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 185 | Protein: 3g | Fat: 13g | Carbs: 19g | Fiber: 6g | Sodium: 80mg