Rohan is three months old and Anaya is three and a half and the two of them together are a constant, beautiful negotiation of attention, noise, and cracker distribution.
Anaya has decided she's Rohan's teacher. She sits next to his bouncer and narrates the world: "This is the kitchen. This is where Amma cooks. This is the spice cabinet. Don't touch it — Amma will know. This is the wet grinder. It's VERY LOUD."
She's teaching him the kitchen. At three and a half. The way I was taught — not through instruction but through narration, through being present, through naming things.
"What's this?" she asked me, holding a jar from the spice cabinet (I need to install a higher lock — her reach has exceeded my childproofing).
"That's turmeric."
"What's it for?"
"Everything. It goes in everything."
"Why?"
"Because Paati says so."
"Oh. Okay."
The authority of Paati transcends chemistry. Turmeric goes in everything because Paati says so. No further explanation needed.
The wedding planning has started — Arvind and Dina. Small ceremony, spring next year, backyard (Dina's parents' house in Trenton). Amma has opinions about the food ("There must be biryani. And payasam. Non-negotiable."). Dina has opinions about the food ("My grandmother's meatballs. Non-negotiable."). The menu negotiation is underway.
I made Amma's coconut rice for dinner — the quick version, the weeknight version. Anaya helped by counting coconut pieces into the pot ("One, two, three, four, five, many, many, LOTS!"). Her counting system remains creative.
Rohan sat in his bouncer and watched the coconut counting with the focused gaze of a three-month-old who is absorbing data.
Two kids. One kitchen. Thirty-two jars of spice, one of which has been identified by the three-year-old as "turmeric, which goes in everything because Paati says so."
The education continues. The chain, unbroken.
The coconut rice was the anchor of the evening — Anaya’s counting, Rohan’s watching, the whole small ceremony of it — and it reminded me that rice is always where we begin in this kitchen, no matter what else lands on the table. This poke bowl is the weeknight extension of that same instinct: build from the rice up, keep it simple, let everyone find their own bowl in it. Anaya can count the toppings the same way she counts coconut pieces, which is to say creatively and with great enthusiasm.
Quick and Easy Chicken Poke Bowl
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 20 min | Total Time: 35 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 1/2 cups jasmine rice (or coconut rice — see note)
- 1 lb boneless, skinless chicken breast, thinly sliced
- 2 tablespoons soy sauce (or tamari for gluten-free)
- 1 tablespoon sesame oil
- 1 tablespoon rice vinegar
- 1 teaspoon honey
- 1 teaspoon fresh ginger, grated
- 1 clove garlic, minced
- 1 cup shredded red cabbage
- 1 cup shredded carrots
- 1 cup cucumber, thinly sliced
- 1 avocado, sliced
- 2 green onions, sliced
- 1 tablespoon sesame seeds
- Sriracha or spicy mayo, for serving (optional)
Instructions
- Cook the rice. Prepare jasmine rice according to package directions. For coconut rice, substitute half the water with full-fat coconut milk. Fluff with a fork and set aside.
- Marinate the chicken. In a bowl, whisk together soy sauce, sesame oil, rice vinegar, honey, ginger, and garlic. Add sliced chicken and toss to coat. Let marinate for at least 10 minutes while you prep the vegetables.
- Cook the chicken. Heat a non-stick skillet or grill pan over medium-high heat. Cook chicken in a single layer, 3—4 minutes per side, until cooked through and lightly caramelized. Remove from heat and let rest 2 minutes, then slice if needed.
- Prep the toppings. While the chicken rests, arrange cabbage, carrots, cucumber, and avocado in small bowls or directly on a cutting board for easy assembly.
- Assemble the bowls. Divide rice evenly among four bowls. Top each with chicken and the prepared vegetables. Finish with green onions, sesame seeds, and a drizzle of sriracha or spicy mayo if using.
- Serve immediately. Poke bowls are best eaten right away while the rice is warm and the vegetables are crisp.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 420 | Protein: 34g | Fat: 13g | Carbs: 42g | Fiber: 5g | Sodium: 610mg
About the cook who shared this
Priya Krishnamurthy
Week 285 of Priya’s 30-year story
· Edison, New Jersey
Priya is a pharmacist, wife, and mom of two in Edison, New Jersey — the town she grew up in, surrounded by the sights and smells of her mother's South Indian kitchen. These days, she splits her time between the hospital pharmacy, school pickups, and her own kitchen, where she cooks nearly every night. Her style is a blend of the Tamil recipes her mother taught her and the American comfort food her kids actually want to eat. She writes about the beautiful mess of balancing two cultures on one plate — and she wants you to know that ordering pizza is also an act of love.