End of January and I got my first vaccine shot Saturday. I sat in the folding chair in the vaccination site for my fifteen-minute observation period and cried a little, which surprised me, and then I thought about what Ryan had been going to work every day for ten months and I thought about my students who needed to be in their classroom and I thought about Kristin stuck in her apartment in New York and I understood exactly why I was crying and was not embarrassed about it.
The arm was sore for two days and I had a low-grade headache the second day, which I treated with ibuprofen and a very soft boiled egg on toast and the kind of deliberate rest that you have to actually schedule or it does not happen. The soft boiled egg on toast is underrated as sick food or tired food or any food that needs to be gentle. Salty, warm, uncomplicated. Six minutes in boiling water for the egg. Toast. Butter. That is the whole recipe and it is enough.
February is coming and that means the last big planning push before the wedding. Four months out. Patty binder is now a physical object of some density. We had a planning call this week with Patty and Kristin and me, which was ninety minutes, and at the end of it we had resolved: the ceremony time (2 PM), the music (Ryan cousin plays guitar and has agreed to do acoustic sets before and during cocktail hour), and the question of the wedding cake (a real one from a bakery but a small one, because the dessert table will be covered with other things). I am making the other things.
The kitchen repaint is happening. Ryan found a yellow that we are calling warm ivory and I am calling it extremely pale yellow and we have agreed this is close enough. The painter is coming in February. The kitchen is getting yellow. I have made peace with this. I am choosing to believe it will be beautiful.
The soft boiled egg was exactly right for that second day—gentle and warm and requiring almost nothing of me. But it got me thinking about the other meals I reach for when I need to be kind to myself, and the one I keep coming back to for low-effort mornings is overnight oats. Pumpkin overnight oats, specifically, because there’s something about the warmth of cinnamon and pumpkin that feels like the same register as butter on toast: salty and soft and uncomplicated. You make them the night before—which, honestly, is its own kind of self-care, the planning-ahead version of it—and in the morning they’re just there, ready, asking nothing of you.
Pumpkin Overnight Oats
Prep Time: 5 minutes | Cook Time: 0 minutes (chill overnight) | Total Time: 8 hours 5 minutes | Servings: 1
Ingredients
- 1/2 cup old-fashioned rolled oats
- 1/2 cup milk (dairy or unsweetened almond milk)
- 1/4 cup plain Greek yogurt
- 1/3 cup pumpkin puree (not pumpkin pie filling)
- 1 tablespoon maple syrup or honey, plus more to taste
- 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
- 1/4 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice
- 1/8 teaspoon fine salt
- Optional toppings: pepitas, a drizzle of maple syrup, a pinch of flaky salt, or a dollop of nut butter
Instructions
- Combine. In a jar or small container with a lid, stir together the oats, milk, Greek yogurt, pumpkin puree, maple syrup, vanilla, cinnamon, pumpkin pie spice, and salt until fully combined.
- Chill. Seal the container and refrigerate for at least 6 hours, or overnight. The oats will absorb the liquid and thicken considerably.
- Check consistency. In the morning, give the oats a stir. If they’re thicker than you’d like, stir in a splash of milk to loosen them up. Taste and adjust sweetness.
- Top and serve. Add any optional toppings you like—pepitas add a nice crunch, and a light drizzle of maple syrup over the top makes it feel a little more special without any extra effort. Eat cold straight from the jar, or warm briefly in the microwave for 60–90 seconds if you prefer it warm.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 310 | Protein: 14g | Fat: 5g | Carbs: 52g | Fiber: 6g | Sodium: 210mg