The week after Huong left. The house is quiet. My house, Mai's house — both quiet in the way rooms are quiet after a party. The laughter is still in the walls but the source is gone. Mai is processing. She calls Huong every other day now, which is twice as often as before the visit. The conversations are shorter — they've said the big things, now they're saying the small things, the daily things, the things that sisters say when they're not catching up but simply being in each other's lives. What did you eat today. How is the weather. Did you sleep well. The mundane infrastructure of sisterhood, rebuilt after half a century.
I went back to the smoker this weekend with a renewed sense of purpose. Huong's visit had taken me out of my routine — three weeks of running logistics, cooking for crowds, managing emotions — and I needed the anchor of the smoker. I smoked a simple pork butt: salt, pepper, garlic, nothing fancy. Eight hours over hickory. Pulled it at 203 degrees, shredded it, ate it on white bread with pickles and raw onion. Pure Texas. No fusion. No Vietnamese twist. Sometimes you need to go back to basics. Sometimes the basics are the whole point.
Emma called Thursday. Ava said "Ba Ba" while looking directly at a photograph of me on Emma's fridge. Emma said, "She might be saying Bobby." I said, "She's definitely saying Bobby." Emma said, "Or she's saying banana." I said, "Emma. She's looking at my photo. She's saying Bobby." Emma conceded. My granddaughter knows my name. I don't care if the linguistics are debatable. I know what I heard. Again.
Made a big batch of pulled pork banh mi for the week — the shredded smoked pork on crusty baguettes with pickled daikon, carrots, jalapeño, cilantro, and a drizzle of Sriracha. The banh mi is the perfect intersection food: French bread, Vietnamese fillings, American smoker technique. Every time I make it I think of Mai and Mr. Clarence and the shrimp boats and Lily's restaurant and the long, improbable chain of events that led to a man putting pulled pork on a baguette in Alief, Texas. The chain is everything. The food is the proof.
The banh mi batch I made that week got me thinking about the other ways pork and brightness can meet on a plate — not always with a smoker and eight hours of hickory, but sometimes fast and loud in a hot wok with sweet pineapple and a savory sauce that cuts right through. This Pineapple Pork Stir Fry is the weeknight cousin of that long Sunday smoke session: same spirit, same intersection of bold and tender, ready in the time it takes Ava to say “Ba Ba” a dozen more times.
Pineapple Pork Stir Fry
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 15 min | Total Time: 30 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 1/2 lbs pork tenderloin, thinly sliced against the grain
- 2 cups fresh or canned pineapple chunks (juice reserved)
- 1 red bell pepper, sliced into strips
- 1 green bell pepper, sliced into strips
- 1 medium yellow onion, sliced
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 tablespoon fresh ginger, grated
- 3 tablespoons soy sauce
- 2 tablespoons reserved pineapple juice
- 1 tablespoon rice vinegar
- 1 tablespoon brown sugar
- 1 teaspoon sesame oil
- 1 tablespoon cornstarch
- 2 tablespoons neutral oil (vegetable or avocado), divided
- 1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes (optional)
- Cooked jasmine rice, for serving
- Sliced green onions and sesame seeds, for garnish
Instructions
- Make the sauce. In a small bowl, whisk together soy sauce, reserved pineapple juice, rice vinegar, brown sugar, sesame oil, and cornstarch until the cornstarch is fully dissolved. Set aside.
- Season and prep the pork. Pat pork slices dry with paper towels. Season lightly with salt and pepper. Slicing thinly against the grain ensures quick, even cooking and tender results.
- Sear the pork. Heat 1 tablespoon of oil in a large wok or skillet over high heat until shimmering. Add pork in a single layer — work in batches if needed to avoid steaming. Cook 2–3 minutes per side until browned. Transfer to a plate and set aside.
- Cook the vegetables. Add the remaining tablespoon of oil to the same pan over high heat. Add onion and bell peppers and stir-fry for 3–4 minutes until just tender but still with some bite. Add garlic, ginger, and red pepper flakes (if using) and cook 30 seconds until fragrant.
- Add pineapple. Add the pineapple chunks to the pan and toss with the vegetables for 1–2 minutes, letting the pineapple pick up a little color at the edges.
- Bring it together. Return the pork to the pan. Pour the sauce over everything and toss to coat. Cook 1–2 minutes, stirring constantly, until the sauce thickens and everything is glossy and well coated.
- Serve. Spoon over jasmine rice and garnish with sliced green onions and sesame seeds. Serve immediately.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 340 | Protein: 36g | Fat: 11g | Carbs: 24g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 720mg