Second deer of the season this week. I went out Wednesday morning again before the pipeline start — a cold, clear morning, four degrees above freezing when I got to the stand at five-thirty. The deer came through just after seven, a yearling buck, and I took him cleanly. Same routine: process, package, freeze, bring a portion to Terry's.
Caleb called Sunday. He has been in the treatment program six weeks — three weeks longer than the first stretch he attempted on his own two years ago, which I knew about only partially and which he had never told me failed until after it failed. Six weeks is not enough to call it anything. Six weeks is a beginning. He is still going Monday and Thursday evenings. He is still working, a different job now, maintenance for a property management company, the kind of work that gives you keys and access and a list of things to fix. He said the supervisor is okay. He said the pay is okay. He said he is going to try the thirty-day thing they talk about in the program, which I take to mean the thirty-day sobriety commitment. I said good. He said it might not work. I said that is why you try again. He said yeah. We talked about the Cowboys. They are not good. Some things do not change.
I made the venison chili Sunday — big batch, the annual ritual. No beans, dried chiles, the long braise. Hannah's version with beans and tomatoes is on the stove at the same time. We each make our version and we eat from both without acknowledging that we are eating from both, which is how the chili détente has worked for five years. Kai, who is now four and a half and has diplomatic instincts I did not teach him, takes equal portions of each and says both are his favorite, which makes Hannah and me look at each other across the table. We are raising a politician. This is either a success or a failure and I have not decided which.
The chili is its own ritual — the dried chiles, the long braise, the annual détente with Hannah’s version — and rituals like that don’t need explaining so much as repeating. When a week gives you a clean shot at seven, a six-week phone call that ends with yeah, and a four-year-old who has already figured out how to keep the peace, the right answer is to keep your hands busy in the kitchen and let the slow process of heat and time do what it does. Prime rib is that kind of cook — you season it, you commit to it, and then you wait and trust.
Perfect Prime Rib
Prep Time: 20 min | Cook Time: 3 hrs 30 min | Total Time: 3 hrs 50 min (plus overnight dry brine) | Servings: 8–10
Ingredients
- 1 bone-in standing rib roast, 4–5 bones (approximately 8–10 lbs)
- 2 tablespoons kosher salt (for dry brine)
- 2 teaspoons coarse black pepper
- 1 teaspoon garlic powder
- 2 tablespoons olive oil or softened unsalted butter
- 6 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 tablespoon fresh rosemary, finely chopped
- 1 tablespoon fresh thyme, finely chopped
- 1 teaspoon smoked paprika
Instructions
- Dry brine the roast. At least 12 hours before cooking (ideally the night before), pat the roast completely dry with paper towels. Rub all surfaces generously with kosher salt. Place uncovered on a rack set over a rimmed baking sheet and refrigerate overnight. This draws out moisture and then reabsorbs it, concentrating flavor and improving the crust.
- Bring to room temperature. Remove the roast from the refrigerator 2 hours before cooking. This is not optional — a cold center will cook unevenly. Let it rest on the counter, loosely tented.
- Preheat and prepare the herb rub. Preheat oven to 450°F (230°C). In a small bowl, combine olive oil or softened butter, minced garlic, rosemary, thyme, black pepper, garlic powder, and smoked paprika. Mix into a paste.
- Apply the rub. Pat the roast dry again. Rub the herb paste over the entire surface, pressing it into any crevices around the bones. Place the roast bone-side down in a heavy roasting pan or cast iron skillet — the bones act as a natural rack.
- High-heat sear. Roast at 450°F for 20 minutes uncovered. This creates the initial crust and deep color. Do not open the oven during this phase.
- Reduce heat and slow roast. Lower oven to 325°F (165°C) without opening the door. Continue roasting until an instant-read thermometer inserted into the thickest part of the meat (not touching bone) reads 120°F for rare, 125°F for medium-rare, or 130°F for medium. For a 9-lb roast at medium-rare, this typically takes 2 hrs 45 min to 3 hrs 15 min — but use the thermometer, not the clock.
- Rest the roast. Transfer the roast to a cutting board and tent loosely with foil. Rest for at least 30 minutes before carving. The internal temperature will continue to rise 5–8 degrees. Do not skip this step — the rest is where the juices redistribute and the final texture is set.
- Carve and serve. Slice between the bones for bone-in portions, or cut the roast away from the bones first for boneless slices. Serve with pan drippings spooned over the top.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 610 | Protein: 48g | Fat: 44g | Carbs: 1g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 420mg