Parmesan-Broiled Tilapia

Brayden is four years and eleven months old. The small late-August Sunday-family-dinner with Mama and Aunt Linda and Roy. The small Sunday-rhythm holds.

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Sunday cooking for me is always the slow-and-careful mode — the version of cooking where I actually get to think about what I’m making and why. This week, with Mama and Roy around the table and Brayden almost-five and the Bryant visit on the calendar for September, I wanted something that felt like a celebration without pretending we’re something we’re not. Tilapia is honest food — budget-friendly, fast under the broiler, and dressed up just enough with Parmesan and a little lemon that it feels like you put in real effort even when you didn’t. This one’s for the small Sunday table that keeps showing up, every week, no matter what.

Prep Time: 5 min | Cook Time: 10 min | Total Time: 15 min | Servings: 4

Ingredients

4 tilapia fillets (about 4–6 oz each)
1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese
3 tablespoons butter, softened
3 tablespoons mayonnaise
2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
1/4 teaspoon onion powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/8 teaspoon black pepper
Pinch of cayenne pepper (optional)
1 tablespoon fresh parsley, chopped (for garnish)

Instructions

Preheat the broiler. Set your oven to broil on high and position the rack so the top of the fish will sit about 6 inches from the heating element. Line a baking sheet with foil and lightly grease it.
Make the Parmesan topping. In a small bowl, mix together the Parmesan, softened butter, mayonnaise, lemon juice, garlic powder, onion powder, salt, pepper, and cayenne (if using) until a smooth paste forms.
Prep the fish. Pat the tilapia fillets dry with a paper towel and lay them in a single layer on the prepared baking sheet. Season lightly with a pinch of salt and pepper.
Broil the first side. Slide the baking sheet under the broiler and cook the fillets for 4–5 minutes, until the edges begin to turn opaque.
Add the topping and finish. Remove the pan from the oven and spread the Parmesan mixture evenly over the top of each fillet. Return to the broiler for another 3–4 minutes, watching closely, until the topping is golden and bubbling and the fish flakes easily with a fork.
Serve. Transfer fillets carefully to plates, garnish with fresh parsley, and serve immediately with a wedge of lemon on the side.

Nutrition (per serving)

Parmesan-Broiled Tilapia — The Sunday Table That Holds Us Together