February. Bernice's Table had forty-eight people Tuesday. Two people from fifty. I can practically see the fifty. Next week, I said to Sister Agnes. She said, "Mother Simms, you've been saying next week for three weeks." I said, "Then this is definitely the week." She shook her head the way she shakes her head at me, which is the gesture of someone who has accepted the situation and has prepared accordingly. She had extra chicken on hand. I noticed this and did not mention it because some acts of preparedness are most gracious when unremarked upon.
Valentine's Day is coming up and Calvin asked me what I wanted. I said I wanted him to sit at the kitchen table on Saturday morning while I made French toast and not look at his theology books for two hours. He said, "That's a strange request." I said, "Calvin Simms, is it stranger than buying flowers?" He thought about it. He said it was not. He agreed. Saturday morning, kitchen table, no books for two hours. This is the romance of a marriage that has been tested and is still standing: the small agreements, the negotiated presence, the willingness to be in the room without your defenses up. Two hours at the kitchen table. That is everything.
The French toast I made was with thick-cut bread that I'd left out overnight to dry slightly—this is the secret, the bread that is dry enough to absorb the egg custard without falling apart—and a custard of eggs and cream and vanilla and a grating of nutmeg and a whisper of cinnamon. Pan-fried in butter until golden on both sides, then into the oven briefly to set the middle, then onto the plate with powdered sugar and a small pitcher of warm maple syrup on the side. Calvin put down his phone and ate French toast and looked out the kitchen window at the February backyard and I sat across from him and we were both fully there, no theology, no sermon prep, just the kitchen and the morning and the French toast and us. Sometimes that's the whole Valentine's Day. Sometimes that's the whole marriage.
The bread I used that Saturday was left out the night before — that small act of preparation the evening before is exactly what makes this recipe work, and exactly what made that morning feel like something intentional rather than accidental. If you want to give someone two uninterrupted hours at the kitchen table, the overnight version is the way to do it: the heavy lifting is done before you go to sleep, and in the morning there is nothing left to do but be present. This is the recipe I reach for when presence is the whole point.
Overnight Raisin French Toast
Prep Time: 15 minutes + overnight soak | Cook Time: 45 minutes | Total Time: 1 hour (plus overnight) | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 1 loaf (about 1 lb) thick-cut or day-old bread, sliced 1-inch thick
- 3/4 cup raisins
- 6 large eggs
- 1 1/2 cups heavy cream
- 1/2 cup whole milk
- 1/3 cup granulated sugar
- 2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
- 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
- 1/4 teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
- 1/4 teaspoon salt
- 3 tablespoons unsalted butter, cut into small pieces
- Powdered sugar, for serving
- Warm maple syrup, for serving
Instructions
- Prepare the baking dish. Grease a 9x13-inch baking dish with butter. Arrange the bread slices in a single layer (slightly overlapping is fine) and scatter the raisins evenly over and between the slices.
- Make the custard. In a large bowl, whisk together the eggs, heavy cream, milk, sugar, vanilla, cinnamon, nutmeg, and salt until fully combined and smooth.
- Soak overnight. Pour the custard mixture evenly over the bread, pressing gently on each slice so it begins to absorb the liquid. Dot the top with the small pieces of butter. Cover tightly with plastic wrap and refrigerate overnight, or for at least 8 hours.
- Bring to room temperature. In the morning, remove the dish from the refrigerator and let it sit on the counter for 20–30 minutes while the oven preheats to 350°F (175°C).
- Bake. Uncover the dish and bake for 40–45 minutes, until the custard is set in the center, the edges are golden, and the top is lightly browned. A knife inserted in the center should come out mostly clean.
- Rest and serve. Let the French toast rest for 5 minutes before serving. Dust generously with powdered sugar and serve with warm maple syrup on the side.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 520 | Protein: 14g | Fat: 26g | Carbs: 58g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 380mg