I met a woman at the spouse group event who changed my cooking forever. Again.
Her name is Elena. She's a Marine wife from Las Cruces, New Mexico, married to a Gunnery Sergeant, and she arrived at the potluck with a casserole dish of green chile chicken enchiladas that I am not exaggerating when I say were the best thing I have eaten in Twentynine Palms and possibly the best thing I have eaten in my life.
The enchiladas: corn tortillas, shredded chicken, roasted Hatch green chiles (the REAL ones, from New Mexico, not the canned imposters), Monterey Jack cheese, a green chile sauce made from the chiles themselves — roasted, peeled, blended with garlic, onion, chicken broth, and a little cumin. Rolled, sauced, baked until bubbly.
I ate three. Then I went back for a fourth and Elena laughed and said, 'You want the recipe, don't you?'
'I want the recipe and your friendship and possibly your firstborn child.'
She wrote it on a napkin. A NAPKIN. The way recipes travel in the military: on napkins, on index cards, on the backs of commissary receipts. Written fast, shared fast, because who knows how long either of you will be at this base.
Elena's green chile enchiladas are the desert equivalent of Soo-Jin's Korean short ribs. A recipe that arrives from a friendship and becomes a signature. A recipe that carries a person's kitchen and culture and history in a single dish.
Elena is from Las Cruces, where green chiles are not an ingredient — they're a way of life. Her grandmother roasted chiles in the backyard every fall. Her mother made enchiladas every Sunday. Elena makes them in the desert, three thousand miles from New Mexico, using chiles she orders online because the Twentynine Palms commissary doesn't stock Hatch green chiles (of course it doesn't; the commissary barely stocks joy).
I told her about the blog. About the book. About the recipe chain — Mom to me, Soo-Jin to me, now Elena to me. She said, 'Write about the enchiladas. Write about what it means to eat your grandmother's food in a place she'd never go.'
Your grandmother's food in a place she'd never go. That's the military wife experience in one sentence.
I made the enchiladas that night. With the napkin recipe. With chiles from a can (because I don't have Elena's online source yet). They were good. Not Elena's good — not the Hatch chile good — but good. A beginning.
The napkin is in the binder now. Between Soo-Jin's short ribs and Sandra's popcorn balls.
The binder grows. The table grows. The family grows.
Green chile chicken enchiladas. The desert recipe. The one that stays.
I’m still waiting on Elena’s online source for Hatch chiles — and until those arrive, I’m channeling every bit of that Las Cruces spirit into these Mexican Lettuce Wraps, which carry the same bold, cumin-forward, unapologetically Southwestern soul that made her enchiladas stop me cold at a potluck in the desert. They’re quick enough for a weeknight, light enough for the heat out here, and every bite tastes like the beginning of a friendship. The napkin is in the binder; the wraps are on the table.
Mexican Lettuce Wraps
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 15 min | Total Time: 30 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 lb ground chicken (or finely chopped cooked chicken breast)
- 1 tablespoon olive oil
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1/2 medium yellow onion, finely diced
- 1 teaspoon ground cumin
- 1 teaspoon chili powder
- 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more to taste
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1 can (4 oz) diced green chiles, drained
- 1 can (15 oz) black beans, drained and rinsed
- 1/2 cup frozen corn, thawed
- 1/2 cup salsa (your favorite jarred or fresh)
- 1 head butter lettuce or romaine hearts, leaves separated
- 1/2 cup shredded Monterey Jack cheese
- 1/4 cup sour cream, for serving
- 1 avocado, sliced or diced, for serving
- Fresh cilantro and lime wedges, for serving
Instructions
- Cook the aromatics. Heat olive oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add the diced onion and cook, stirring occasionally, until softened, about 3–4 minutes. Add the garlic and cook 30 seconds more until fragrant.
- Brown the chicken. Add the ground chicken to the skillet. Break it up with a wooden spoon and cook until no pink remains, about 6–7 minutes.
- Season and add chiles. Sprinkle in the cumin, chili powder, smoked paprika, salt, and pepper. Stir to coat the chicken evenly. Add the diced green chiles and stir to combine.
- Build the filling. Add the black beans, corn, and salsa. Stir everything together and cook for 3–4 minutes until the mixture is heated through and most of the liquid has reduced. Taste and adjust seasoning.
- Assemble the wraps. Arrange the lettuce leaves on a platter or individual plates. Spoon 3–4 tablespoons of the chicken filling into each leaf.
- Top and serve. Garnish with shredded Monterey Jack cheese, a small dollop of sour cream, sliced avocado, fresh cilantro, and a squeeze of lime. Serve immediately.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 370 | Protein: 32g | Fat: 16g | Carbs: 26g | Fiber: 8g | Sodium: 680mg
About the cook who shared this
Rachel Abernathy
Week 270 of Rachel’s 30-year story
· San Diego, California
Rachel is a twenty-eight-year-old Marine wife and mom of two who has moved five times in six years and learned to cook a Thanksgiving dinner with half her cookware still in boxes. She married young, survived postpartum depression, and feeds her family of four on a junior Marine's salary with a freezer full of pre-made meals and a crockpot that has never let her down. She writes for the military spouses who are cooking dinner alone in base housing and wondering if they're enough. You are.