Martin Luther King Jr. Day. Chloe's pre-K talked about Dr. King this week — his dream, his bravery, the idea that every person matters. She came home and said, "Mama, Dr. King had a dream and it was about being nice to everybody." That's the four-year-old version, and honestly, it's the best version. Be nice to everybody. If the world ran on four-year-old theology, we'd be fine.
My first real clinical patient was this week. Her name was Mrs. Henderson, sixty-three years old, came in for a routine cleaning. My hands were shaking. I could feel them shaking and I knew she could see them shaking and I said, "I'm sorry, I'm a student and this is my first patient." She said, "Honey, I can tell. But my last hygienist was rude, so nervous is an improvement." Mrs. Henderson. God bless Mrs. Henderson.
I cleaned her teeth. Slowly, carefully, the way Dr. Whitfield taught us — systematic, quadrant by quadrant, checking every surface. It took twice as long as a professional cleaning because I was checking everything twice. Mrs. Henderson was patient. She told me about her grandchildren (four of them) while I worked, talking around my instruments with the specific skill of a woman who has been making conversation in dental chairs for decades. When I finished, she looked in the mirror and said, "That feels wonderful." WONDERFUL. My first patient said wonderful. I wrote it in my journal. I will remember Mrs. Henderson and her "wonderful" when I'm eighty.
Jayden turned twenty-two months old. He's almost two. TWO. In two months I'll have a two-year-old and a five-year-old and a second semester under my belt and a patient who said "wonderful." The math of my life is adding up. Not fast — Mitchell math is slow math — but it's adding up.
I made chicken fried steak this week. Because Mama made it every MLK Day when we were kids — it was Danny's favorite before he left, and Mama kept making it after he left because she refused to let his absence ruin a good recipe. Cube steak, tenderized with a mallet (great for stress), dredged in flour with salt and pepper and garlic powder, fried in oil, served with white gravy and mashed potatoes. It's not health food. It's soul food. And on MLK Day, in this house, we feed our souls.
Chloe helped me tenderize the steak. She held the mallet with both hands and whacked it with more enthusiasm than technique. I let her. Sometimes cooking isn't about doing it right. It's about doing it together.
Chicken fried steak is the recipe I told you about — the one Mama made every MLK Day, the one Chloe helped me pound with a mallet — but I want to leave you with something a little more weeknight-friendly that carries the same spirit: warm, creamy, deeply satisfying, the kind of dinner that says you made it through the week. This Marry Me Chicken has become my go-to when I need comfort food that doesn’t require me to stand over a frying pan managing hot oil after a long clinic day. It’s rich and savory and it fills the kitchen with the kind of smell that makes Chloe come running, and honestly, after a week of shaky hands and first patients and four-year-old theology, that’s exactly what I need.
Marry Me Chicken Recipe
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 25 minutes | Total Time: 35 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts (about 2 lbs), pounded to even thickness
- 1 teaspoon salt
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/2 teaspoon garlic powder
- 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 2 tablespoons olive oil
- 4 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes (optional)
- 3/4 cup chicken broth
- 1 cup heavy cream
- 1/2 cup grated parmesan cheese
- 1/3 cup sun-dried tomatoes in oil, drained and roughly chopped
- 1 teaspoon dried Italian seasoning
- 1 teaspoon fresh thyme leaves (or 1/2 teaspoon dried)
- 2 tablespoons fresh basil, torn, for garnish
Instructions
- Season the chicken. Pat chicken breasts dry with paper towels. In a small bowl, combine salt, pepper, garlic powder, and smoked paprika. Season both sides of each chicken breast generously with the spice mixture.
- Sear the chicken. Heat olive oil in a large oven-safe skillet over medium-high heat. Add chicken breasts and sear for 4–5 minutes per side until golden brown. The chicken does not need to be fully cooked through at this stage. Transfer to a plate and set aside.
- Build the sauce. Reduce heat to medium. In the same skillet, add minced garlic (and red pepper flakes if using) and cook for 1 minute, stirring constantly, until fragrant. Pour in chicken broth and scrape up any browned bits from the bottom of the pan. Let it reduce for 2 minutes.
- Add cream and cheese. Stir in heavy cream, parmesan, sun-dried tomatoes, Italian seasoning, and thyme. Stir to combine and bring to a gentle simmer. Cook for 3–4 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the sauce begins to thicken.
- Finish the chicken. Return the seared chicken breasts to the skillet, nestling them into the sauce. Spoon sauce over the top of each piece. Reduce heat to medium-low, cover, and cook for an additional 10–12 minutes, or until the internal temperature of the chicken reaches 165°F.
- Rest and garnish. Remove from heat and let rest for 5 minutes. Scatter torn fresh basil over the top before serving.
- Serve. Plate over mashed potatoes, pasta, rice, or crusty bread to soak up every drop of that sauce.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 520 | Protein: 48g | Fat: 34g | Carbs: 7g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 680mg