April. Ida is nineteen months and she has been saying mama and dada and no and more and up and down and book and this week she said something that sounded like cookie and pointed at the counter where the tea cakes were cooling. Tyler said: she is your daughter. I said: I know.
Gloria health is steadier this month. She has been going to physical therapy for her hips twice a week and she says it helps. The physical therapist is a woman named Tamara who is apparently very no-nonsense and gives Gloria instructions she actually follows, which I take as a sign that Tamara is either very persuasive or that Gloria respects her. Gloria only follows instructions from people she respects. That is a very short list.
Made a proper lemon pound cake this week, which is different from the lemon layer cake. Dense and fine-crumbed, with a lemon glaze that soaks in and a little lemon zest in the batter. It took two tries. The first one was too dense. The second one was right. Tyler ate half of it over two days and said nothing except good after each piece. For Tyler that means excellent.
The small Bright Beginnings Daycare in the small downtown Prattville is the small workplace. The small toddler-room teacher role (ages 18-36 months). The small daycare-worker-salary plus the small fiancé-Cole’s small carpenter-paycheck is the small two-income engaged-couple budget. The small wedding-saving has been the small two-year-project.
Tyler Clarke (the small fiancé, 29, diesel-mechanic-from-Millbrook) works at a small trucking-company. The small wedding is planned for October 2026 with Gloria walking Savannah down the aisle. The small marriage will be the small first-stable-adult-relationship Savannah has had. The small foster-care upbringing means the small family-of-origin had been the small unstable-shape.
The small foster-care-history: Savannah went into the small Alabama-foster-care system at age six after the small mother’s incarceration and the small father’s absence. The small seven-foster-placements between infancy and age sixteen. The small last placement (Gloria and James Martin in Prattville, who became the small forever-parents) since age fourteen. The small Martin-foster-parents continued to be the small only-parents until James died in 2024 at 77 from a heart-attack mowing the lawn.
The small self-taught-Southern-cooking is the small kitchen-identity. The small no-grandmother-recipes-passed-down meant the small YouTube-and-cookbook-self-teaching from age sixteen onward. The small fried chicken, the small biscuits, the small mac-and-cheese, the small banana pudding, the small sweet tea are the small staples.
The small Gloria-Martin kitchen-mentorship (Gloria is the small foster-mom-now-mom) has been the small adult-cooking-development since the small fourteen-year-old. The small Gloria-Sunday-dinners-with-Savannah-cooking-now are the small weekly-rhythm since James passed. The small Gloria-recipes (Black-Southern-comfort-food the small chain of Gloria’s mother and grandmother) are the small heritage-by-adoption.
The small Prattville-small-town-community is the small social-context. The small First Baptist Church congregation is the small church-family. The small daycare-coworkers are the small adjacent-friend-network. The small Martin-family (Gloria, James who passed in 2024, plus the small current-foster-child Destiny age 6 in Gloria’s care) is the small chosen-family. The small Tyler’s-family-in-Millbrook (Debbie, Roy, and four-brothers) is the small in-law-family.
The small Sunday-publishing-rhythm of the recipe blog continues to be the small organizing-spine of the small week. The small Sunday-cooking happens in the small late-morning-to-early-afternoon window. The small photographing of the finished dish happens at the small three-PM kitchen-light-window. The small writing-up of the recipe happens at the small four-PM workspace at the kitchen-counter. The small final-edit happens at the small five-PM. The small post publishes at seven PM. The small ritual has been running for years.
The small recipe-development-philosophy continues to be the small small-batch-test-then-publish approach. The small first cook of a small new recipe happens on the small Saturday afternoon. The small adjustments are noted in the small kitchen-notebook. The small second cook happens Sunday with the small adjustments incorporated. The small Sunday-cook is the small version that gets photographed and published. The small two-test process catches the small recipe-flaws before they reach the small reader.
The small kitchen-equipment-inventory has the small key-pieces that show up in nearly every recipe. The small heavy-bottomed Dutch oven for the small braises. The small twelve-inch cast-iron skillet for the small sears and the small pan-roasts. The small half-sheet baking-pans for the small roasted vegetables and the small cookies. The small wooden-spoon-collection in the small ceramic-pitcher on the counter. The small chef’s-knife and the small paring-knife and the small bread-knife that are the small daily-tools.
The small grocery-shopping rhythm runs through the small Tuesday-evening trip and the small Saturday-morning top-off. The small Tuesday-trip is the small weekly-stock-up for the small staples and the small produce and the small protein. The small Saturday-trip is the small quick-fill for whatever the small Sunday-recipe requires that is not already in the small pantry. The small two-trip-per-week pattern keeps the small grocery-bill manageable and the small food-waste low.
The small meal-planning happens on the small Sunday-evening for the small week-ahead. The small dinners are mapped out across the small Monday-through-Saturday. The small repeating-meals are slotted in (the small pasta-Monday, the small taco-Tuesday or similar pattern). The small new-recipes are slotted for the small Wednesday-or-Thursday for the small variety. The small planning ahead reduces the small daily what-are-we-making-for-dinner stress.
The small weekday-cooking is the small efficient-and-fast mode. The small Sunday-cooking is the small slow-and-careful mode. The small two-modes serve the small two-different-needs. The small weekday-cooking has to be on the small table within forty-five minutes of getting home from the small work-or-school-pickup. The small Sunday-cooking can take three hours and benefit from every minute of that time.
The small recipe-archive on the small blog has grown to many hundreds of recipes over the years. The small archive is the small searchable-resource for the small weekday-meal-planning. The small reader-feedback in the small comments-section helps refine the small recipes over time.
The small Sunday-cooking-and-writing rhythm is the small thing that has held across years of life-changes and family-events and small ordinary-weekday-disruptions. The small constant is the small Sunday. The small constant is the small recipe. The small constant is the small posting-at-seven-PM ritual.
The lemon was already on my mind that week — all that zest in the batter, the glaze soaking in, the satisfaction of the second try finally landing right. When Sunday came around I wanted to stay in that lemon headspace but take it somewhere a little lighter, a little more celebratory, the kind of thing that feels like spring on a plate. Limoncello Tiramisu was it. Same brightness, different shape — and Gloria, when I told her about it on the phone, said that sounds fancy, make it for the wedding.
Limoncello Tiramisu
Prep Time: 25 minutes | Cook Time: 0 minutes | Total Time: 4 hours 25 minutes (includes chilling) | Servings: 9
Ingredients
- 3/4 cup limoncello liqueur
- 1/2 cup fresh lemon juice (about 3 lemons)
- 1/2 cup water
- 16 oz mascarpone cheese, room temperature
- 1 1/4 cups heavy whipping cream
- 1/2 cup powdered sugar, sifted
- 2 teaspoons fresh lemon zest, plus more for garnish
- 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
- 24–28 ladyfinger cookies (savoiardi)
- 1/4 cup white chocolate shavings or curls, for garnish (optional)
Instructions
- Make the soaking liquid. In a shallow bowl, stir together the limoncello, lemon juice, and water until combined. Set aside.
- Whip the cream. In a large bowl using a hand mixer or stand mixer, beat the heavy whipping cream on medium-high until soft peaks form. Set aside.
- Make the mascarpone filling. In a separate large bowl, beat the mascarpone, powdered sugar, lemon zest, and vanilla extract on medium speed until smooth and creamy, about 1–2 minutes. Do not overbeat.
- Fold together. Gently fold the whipped cream into the mascarpone mixture in two additions, using a rubber spatula, until fully combined and no streaks remain. The filling should be light but hold its shape.
- Dip the ladyfingers. Working one at a time, quickly dip each ladyfinger into the soaking liquid for about 2 seconds per side — just enough to absorb without becoming soggy. Arrange a single layer of dipped ladyfingers in the bottom of an 8x8 or 9x9 inch baking dish.
- Layer the filling. Spread half of the mascarpone filling evenly over the first layer of ladyfingers, smoothing to the edges with an offset spatula.
- Add the second layer. Dip and arrange a second layer of ladyfingers over the filling. Spread the remaining mascarpone mixture evenly over the top.
- Chill. Cover the dish tightly with plastic wrap and refrigerate for at least 4 hours, or overnight. The longer it chills, the better the layers set and the flavors develop.
- Garnish and serve. Before serving, scatter fresh lemon zest and white chocolate shavings across the top. Cut into squares and serve chilled.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 390 | Protein: 6g | Fat: 26g | Carbs: 28g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 95mg