Mother's Day again, and this year it arrives in quarantine, which means no brunch, no visit from David, no Rebecca at the table — just a phone call from each of them and a video call with the grandchildren and Marvin, who was told it was Mother's Day and who said, "Well, you're a wonderful mother," with the sincerity of a man who means it completely and may not remember the specific evidence for his claim but whose assessment is stored in a place deeper than memory — in the bones, in the blood, in whatever part of a person knows what they know without knowing how they know it.
The grandchildren made me cards. Ethan's card said, "Dear Bubbe, You make the best soup in the world. Love, Ethan." Sophie's card had a drawing of me in the kitchen, surrounded by what I think are pots but which may be planets — Sophie's artistic style is abstract in ways that defy confident interpretation. Noah, who is thirteen months old and not yet a literary contributor, was held up to the camera and waved, which is contribution enough. Jennifer organized the video call with the efficiency of a woman who has been managing four people under seven in quarantine for two months and who deserves not a Mother's Day card but a medal, possibly several.
I made Sylvia's noodle kugel, as I always do on Mother's Day. The kugel is the dish that connects me to my mother more directly than any other — not the brisket, which is my signature, but the kugel, which is hers, the sweet noodle pudding with the cinnamon top that was Sylvia's answer to every occasion that required comfort. I ate it warm, standing at the counter, and thought about my mother's hands, the way she mixed the egg and the cottage cheese and the noodles with a wooden spoon that I still have, in the drawer by the stove, the same spoon. I use it every time I make the kugel. The spoon is the bridge. The food is the crossing.
After I finished the last of Sylvia’s kugel — standing at the counter, spoon in hand, grandchildren still flickering on the laptop screen — I found myself thinking about what noodles do across every kitchen in the world: they hold warmth, they hold people together, they hold time still for just a moment. I didn’t have the energy to cook anything elaborate, but I wanted something that felt celebratory and alive, with color and sesame and brightness to balance all that beautiful, aching tenderness the day had carried. This quick Japchae — Korean glass noodles tossed with vegetables and sesame — was exactly that: a reminder that noodles, in whatever tradition, are always the bridge.
Japchae (Quick Korean Noodle Stir-Fry)
Prep Time: 20 minutes | Cook Time: 20 minutes | Total Time: 40 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 8 oz dangmyeon (Korean sweet potato glass noodles)
- 3 tbsp soy sauce, divided
- 2 tbsp sesame oil, divided
- 1 tbsp sugar or honey
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 medium carrot, julienned
- 1 red bell pepper, thinly sliced
- 1 cup fresh spinach, loosely packed
- 4 oz shiitake mushrooms, stems removed and caps sliced
- 3 green onions, cut into 1-inch pieces
- 2 large eggs
- 1 tbsp vegetable oil
- 1 tsp toasted sesame seeds, for garnish
- Salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste
Instructions
- Cook the noodles. Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Cook the dangmyeon according to package directions, about 6–8 minutes, until tender but not mushy. Drain, rinse under cold water, and use scissors to cut the noodles into roughly 6-inch lengths. Toss with 1 tsp sesame oil to prevent sticking and set aside.
- Make the sauce. In a small bowl, whisk together 2 tbsp soy sauce, 1 tbsp sesame oil, the sugar, and the minced garlic. Set aside.
- Cook the eggs. Beat the eggs with a pinch of salt. Heat a large nonstick skillet or wok over medium heat with a little vegetable oil. Pour in the eggs and cook into a thin omelet, about 1–2 minutes per side. Slide onto a cutting board, roll, and slice into thin ribbons. Set aside.
- Stir-fry the vegetables. In the same skillet, heat the remaining vegetable oil over medium-high heat. Add the carrots and cook for 2 minutes. Add the mushrooms and bell pepper and cook another 3 minutes, stirring frequently. Add the spinach and green onions and toss just until the spinach wilts, about 1 minute. Season lightly with salt and pepper.
- Combine and finish. Add the cooked noodles to the skillet with the vegetables. Pour the sauce over everything and toss well with tongs until all the noodles are evenly coated and heated through, about 2 minutes. Remove from heat and drizzle with the remaining 1 tsp sesame oil. Taste and adjust seasoning.
- Serve. Transfer to a large platter or individual bowls. Top with the egg ribbons and a sprinkle of toasted sesame seeds. Serve warm or at room temperature.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 310 | Protein: 8g | Fat: 11g | Carbs: 45g | Fiber: 3g | Sodium: 520mg