Gloria has functionally moved in. I am exaggerating — she has not moved in. She stays five nights a week. She sleeps in the nursery on an air mattress that she brought from her house, next to Zaria's crib. She says she is "helping with the night feedings," which she is, but she is also establishing a beachhead in our apartment from which she launches daily commentary on my housekeeping, my cooking, and the temperature at which I keep the thermostat. The thermostat is set at sixty-eight. Gloria says it should be seventy-two because "the baby will catch cold." Babies do not catch cold from thermostats. But I adjusted it to seventy because choosing this as my hill to die on would be tactically foolish.
Brianna defends Gloria's presence. "She is helping," she says, and she is correct — Gloria is helping with the baby, with Aiden, with the dishes, with the laundry. The help is real and necessary. But the help comes with a cost, which is the constant presence of a woman whose love for her daughter manifests as critique of her daughter's husband. I absorb it. I smile. I go to the balcony and look at the grill and think about smoking a brisket for twelve hours just to have an excuse to be outside.
I have not grilled in two weeks. The weather is turning cold, and grilling in Michigan in late October requires a commitment to outdoor discomfort that I do not currently possess. The Weber is covered. The charcoal bag is in the closet. I will return to it in the spring, like a bear returning to a stream. The grill will wait. It is patient.
Mama and Gloria crossed paths on Thursday. It was as I feared: polite, loaded, and tense. Mama arrived with a pot of chicken soup for Brianna ("to help her strength come back"). Gloria said, "I already made broth this morning." Mama said, "This is not broth. This is soup." The distinction was delivered with the precision of a judge handing down a ruling. Gloria did not respond. The soup was consumed. The broth was not mentioned again. Mama: 1. Gloria: 0. But the game is ongoing.
Sunday dinner was pepper steak. Mama's pepper steak: thin-sliced sirloin sauteed with green bell pepper, onion, and tomato in a savory brown sauce, served over white rice. It is a quick meal by her standards — under an hour — and she makes it when she senses the family needs normalcy more than grandeur. She was right. We needed normalcy. We ate and the food was good and nobody argued and the baby slept and Aiden ate rice with his fingers and Dad watched the Lions lose and everything was exactly as it should be.
Watching Mama move through that kitchen Sunday—slicing sirloin thin, getting that brown sauce exactly right, pulling everything together without ceremony or fanfare—reminded me that the best meals are the ones that don’t announce themselves. They just show up and do the work. I’m not claiming my Honey Dijon Chicken Cheesesteaks are Mama’s pepper steak, because they are not. But they carry the same principle: a quick sauté, a savory glaze, and something good on the side, assembled without drama. Sometimes you make the elaborate thing; sometimes you make the thing that gets dinner on the table before anyone has a chance to say anything about the thermostat.
Honey Dijon Chicken Cheesesteaks On Pretzel Rolls
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 20 minutes | Total Time: 30 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 1/2 lbs boneless, skinless chicken breasts, thinly sliced
- 2 tablespoons olive oil, divided
- 1 medium yellow onion, thinly sliced
- 1 green bell pepper, thinly sliced
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 2 tablespoons honey
- 2 tablespoons Dijon mustard
- 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
- 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
- 4 slices provolone cheese
- 4 pretzel rolls, split and lightly toasted
Instructions
- Make the sauce. In a small bowl, whisk together the honey, Dijon mustard, and Worcestershire sauce. Set aside.
- Cook the vegetables. Heat 1 tablespoon of olive oil in a large cast iron or stainless skillet over medium-high heat. Add the onion and bell pepper and cook, stirring occasionally, for 6–8 minutes until softened and beginning to caramelize. Add the garlic and cook 1 minute more. Transfer the vegetables to a plate.
- Cook the chicken. Add the remaining tablespoon of olive oil to the same skillet. Season the sliced chicken with salt, pepper, and smoked paprika. Cook over medium-high heat for 5–6 minutes, stirring occasionally, until cooked through and lightly browned on the edges.
- Combine and glaze. Return the vegetables to the skillet with the chicken. Pour the honey Dijon sauce over everything and toss to coat. Cook for 1–2 minutes until the sauce thickens slightly and everything is well glazed.
- Melt the cheese. Divide the chicken and vegetable mixture into four portions in the skillet. Lay one slice of provolone over each portion. Cover the skillet with a lid or foil for 1 minute until the cheese is melted.
- Assemble and serve. Scoop each cheesy portion onto a toasted pretzel roll. Serve immediately.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 520 | Protein: 46g | Fat: 16g | Carbs: 44g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 780mg
About the cook who shared this
DeShawn Carter
Week 83 of DeShawn’s 30-year story
· Detroit, Michigan
DeShawn is a thirty-six-year-old single dad, auto plant worker, and a man who didn't learn to cook until his wife left and his five-year-old asked, "Daddy, can you cook something?" He called his mama, who came over with two bags of groceries and spent six months teaching him the basics. Now he's the dad at the cookout who brings the ribs, the guy at the plant whose leftover gumbo starts fights, and living proof that it's never too late to learn.