Veterans Day — no school — and I used the day to drive to White Plains and spend time with the grandchildren. Noah is seven months old and crawling, which is a developmental milestone that David reported with clinical precision ("He's at the fiftieth percentile for motor development") and which I received with the appropriate grandmother response, which is: he is a genius. All grandchildren are geniuses. This is not optional. Ethan, five, demonstrated his reading progress by reading me a picture book about a bear who loses his hat, and the reading was halting and effortful and the most beautiful sound I have heard since Marvin last said my name without being prompted.
Jennifer looks tired. I did not say this because telling a woman with three children under six that she looks tired is not helpful, it is stating the obvious while offering no solution. Instead I said, "Let me take the older two for the afternoon." She said yes immediately, with the speed of a woman who has been waiting for someone to say exactly those words. I took Ethan and Sophie to the park and then to a diner for lunch, where Ethan ordered a grilled cheese with the authority of a food critic and Sophie demanded "the pink drink," which turned out to be strawberry milk. I drank coffee and watched my grandchildren eat and thought about what it means to be the grandmother — the person whose job is not to manage or discipline or worry (though I do all three) but to enjoy, purely and without agenda, the fact that these small people exist.
I made a roasted root vegetable soup when I got home — parsnips, carrots, turnips, a sweet potato, all roasted until caramelized and then pureed with broth and a little cream. It's a soup for November, for the gray days, for the evenings when the house needs warming from the inside. Marvin ate a bowl and fell asleep in his chair, and I covered him with a blanket and washed the dishes and the house was quiet and warm and it was enough.
The soup I made that evening came together the way it always does when I’ve had a day that filled me up rather than emptied me — almost without thinking, just hands moving and the oven doing its work. If you want to start somewhere simpler, or you have a single squash sitting on your counter the way I usually do in November, this Hasselback Butternut Squash captures exactly the same spirit: a root vegetable pushed into the oven until its edges caramelize and its center goes soft and sweet. Marvin would have fallen asleep in his chair for this one too, and I would have covered him with the same blanket.
Hasselback Butternut Squash
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 1 hr | Total Time: 1 hr 15 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 large butternut squash (about 3 lbs), halved lengthwise and seeded
- 3 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted
- 2 tablespoons olive oil
- 2 tablespoons pure maple syrup
- 1 teaspoon fresh thyme leaves (or 1/2 teaspoon dried)
- 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
- 2 cloves garlic, thinly sliced
- Flaky sea salt, for finishing
- Fresh parsley or sage, for garnish (optional)
Instructions
- Preheat the oven. Heat oven to 400°F. Line a rimmed baking sheet or roasting pan with parchment paper or foil.
- Slice the squash. Place each squash half cut-side down on a cutting board. Using a sharp knife, make thin crosswise cuts about 1/4-inch apart, slicing down almost but not all the way through — stop about 1/2 inch from the bottom so the slices fan out but hold together.
- Make the glaze. Whisk together the melted butter, olive oil, maple syrup, thyme, smoked paprika, salt, and pepper in a small bowl.
- Season the squash. Place squash halves cut-side up on the prepared pan. Brush generously with the glaze, working it down between the slices. Tuck a slice of garlic into every few cuts.
- Roast, basting twice. Roast for 45 minutes, pausing at the 20- and 35-minute marks to brush more glaze over the top and between the slices. The squash is done when the edges are deeply caramelized and a knife slides through the thickest part with no resistance.
- Finish and serve. Remove from the oven and let rest 5 minutes. Scatter flaky sea salt over the top and garnish with fresh parsley or sage if desired. Serve directly from the pan.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 230 | Protein: 2g | Fat: 13g | Carbs: 30g | Fiber: 4g | Sodium: 310mg