New Year's Day, 2024. The year turned while we were together. New Year's Eve was quiet — family in the living room with sparkling cider (Curtis's blood pressure; my solidarity) and a countdown the kids half-watched while on their phones. At midnight, Derek kissed me in the kitchen while nobody watched. Love at forty-two: a midnight kiss in the kitchen. The audience is optional. The love is not.
Isaiah cooked black-eyed peas and collard greens on New Year's Day — the Southern luck meal, peas for luck, greens for money. From memory. No recipe card. No phone call to me. He is becoming a cook. Not a chef — a cook. The kind who makes food because people need to eat. The kind Mama was. The line includes a boy named Mitchell who is Jackson by greens.
Marcus and Jasmine left today. The house returned to four. The subtraction is familiar. Not loss. Launch. But I still count chairs and feel the weight of the empty ones. The emptiness is a shape — the shape of people who were here and are now somewhere else, carrying recipes in their hands and stories in their hearts and the smell of my kitchen in their clothes. They carry me. I carry Mama. Mama carries Miss Ernestine. The carrying goes back further than any of us can trace and forward further than any of us can see.
Isaiah didn’t need a recipe card to make those greens, and that’s the part that stayed with me long after Marcus and Jasmine drove away. The knowing was already in him — inherited, absorbed, carried. I can’t give you Isaiah’s collard greens, because those belong to him now, the way Mama’s recipes belong to me. But I can give you something in that same spirit: a simple, honest green salad that asks nothing more of you than attention and care — the two things that make any cook, not a chef, but a cook.
Green Salad Recipes
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 0 min | Total Time: 15 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 6 cups mixed salad greens (romaine, spinach, and arugula work well together)
- 1 cup cucumber, thinly sliced
- 1 cup cherry tomatoes, halved
- 1/2 red onion, thinly sliced
- 1/4 cup shredded carrots
- 1/4 cup croutons (optional)
- 3 tablespoons olive oil
- 1 1/2 tablespoons red wine vinegar
- 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard
- 1 small garlic clove, minced
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon honey
Instructions
- Wash and dry the greens. Rinse your mixed greens thoroughly in cold water. Spin or pat them completely dry — wet greens dilute the dressing and wilt faster. Tear any large leaves into bite-sized pieces.
- Prep the vegetables. Slice the cucumber and red onion thin — a mandoline helps, but a steady hand does too. Halve the cherry tomatoes. Set everything out so you can see what you have before you build the bowl.
- Make the dressing. In a small jar or bowl, combine the olive oil, red wine vinegar, Dijon mustard, minced garlic, honey, salt, and pepper. Whisk or shake until emulsified. Taste it and adjust — more vinegar if it needs brightness, more oil if it’s too sharp.
- Assemble the salad. Add the greens to a large bowl. Layer the cucumber, tomatoes, red onion, and carrots over the top. Don’t toss yet — let everyone at the table see it whole for a moment. Food deserves that.
- Dress and serve. Drizzle the dressing over the salad and toss gently, coating the greens without bruising them. Add croutons last if using. Serve immediately.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 130 | Protein: 2g | Fat: 11g | Carbs: 9g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 320mg