Mother's Day. My second — first was pregnant and alone, this one is with a baby and a husband and it's infinitely better and infinitely more complicated.
Caleb gave me a card. Well, Ryan gave me a card 'from Caleb' — a Hallmark card with baby footprints on the front that says 'Happy First Mother's Day, Mama!' Inside, in Ryan's handwriting (not Caleb's; Caleb cannot hold a pen; he can barely hold a rattle): 'You are the best mom Caleb could have. You kept him fed and warm and loved through a deployment and a move and everything. I'm sorry I wasn't there for all of it. I'm here now. Love, Caleb (and also Ryan).'
I cried. Pregnancy crying is over; now I have 'Ryan wrote something sweet' crying, which is equally destructive.
Caleb's actual gift: he slept until 6 AM. Six AM. The latest he has EVER slept. I woke up in a panic (Is he breathing? Is he okay? Why isn't he crying?) and tiptoed to the crib and he was fine — just sleeping, peacefully, like a normal human being, on Mother's Day. The best gift a five-month-old can give.
I called Mom. 'Happy Mother's Day, Mom. From your daughter and your grandson.'
'Put him on the phone.'
I held the phone to Caleb's ear. Mom said, 'Hi, sweet boy. Grandma loves you. Grandma misses you. Grandma is going to see you soon.' Caleb babbled. Mom said, 'He said he loves me.' He absolutely did not say that. But grandmothers hear what they need to hear.
Ryan made me breakfast. Scrambled eggs. They were good — not great, not chef-level, but good. He's learning. The scrambled eggs are improving. He adds butter now (my influence) and doesn't overcook them (Mom's influence via me). The teaching chain continues: Mom taught me, I'm teaching Ryan, someday we'll teach Caleb.
I made Mom's fried chicken for dinner. The cast iron. The seasoned flour. The golden, crispy, perfect chicken that I've been making since I was eighteen years old, watching my mother's hands in Norfolk.
My fried chicken. Not Mom's. Mine. The same recipe, different hands.
Happy Mother's Day. To the mothers who cook. To the mothers who survive. To the mothers who call every night and send recipe cards and knit blankets and grow tomatoes for babies who don't have teeth.
To Donna. Always to Donna.
I made Mom’s fried chicken that night, but this garlic baked chicken is the version I reach for when I want that same golden, savory comfort without standing over a cast iron full of hot oil with a five-month-old on my hip. It has the same spirit — seasoned, crispy-skinned, deeply satisfying — and it’s the recipe I’ll teach Caleb someday, just like Mom taught me and I’m teaching Ryan. The teaching chain continues.
Garlic Lovers Baked Chicken
Prep Time: 10 min | Cook Time: 45 min | Total Time: 55 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 4 bone-in, skin-on chicken thighs (about 2 lbs total)
- 6 cloves garlic, minced
- 3 tablespoons olive oil
- 1 tablespoon unsalted butter, melted
- 1 teaspoon garlic powder
- 1 teaspoon onion powder
- 1 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
- 1/2 teaspoon dried rosemary
- 3/4 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 1 tablespoon fresh parsley, chopped (for garnish)
Instructions
- Preheat. Heat oven to 425°F. Pat chicken thighs dry with paper towels and place them skin-side up in a cast iron skillet or oven-safe baking dish.
- Make the garlic rub. In a small bowl, whisk together olive oil, melted butter, minced garlic, garlic powder, onion powder, smoked paprika, thyme, rosemary, salt, and pepper.
- Season the chicken. Spoon the garlic mixture evenly over and under the skin of each thigh, pressing it into the meat so every surface is well coated.
- Bake. Roast uncovered for 40–45 minutes, until the skin is deeply golden and crispy and an instant-read thermometer inserted into the thickest part reads 165°F.
- Rest and serve. Let the chicken rest for 5 minutes before serving. Spoon any pan juices over the top and finish with fresh parsley.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 390 | Protein: 28g | Fat: 29g | Carbs: 3g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 480mg
About the cook who shared this
Rachel Abernathy
Week 163 of Rachel’s 30-year story
· San Diego, California
Rachel is a twenty-eight-year-old Marine wife and mom of two who has moved five times in six years and learned to cook a Thanksgiving dinner with half her cookware still in boxes. She married young, survived postpartum depression, and feeds her family of four on a junior Marine's salary with a freezer full of pre-made meals and a crockpot that has never let her down. She writes for the military spouses who are cooking dinner alone in base housing and wondering if they're enough. You are.