Atlanta winter — gray, damp, fifty degrees and somehow colder than that. Set the Table at New Birth Saturday morning. Six girls. We did baked chicken.
Daddy in his apartment in the back. I brought him his coffee and his medication this morning. He grumbled. The grumble was the love. Marcus, 20, studying for finals at Alabama.
Pot roast Sunday. Five hours low. The kitchen smelled like Sunday from breakfast on.
Jasmine, 18, home from Howard for the weekend. Isaiah, 17, shot baskets in the driveway after school.
The kitchen smells like greens. The greens smell like home.
I made a casserole for the church potluck. The pan came back empty. That is the only review I trust.
I had a hard counseling case at school this week. A seventh-grade girl whose mama lost her job. We talked. I gave her my number. I told her she could call.
Daddy sat in his chair after dinner watching the news. He fell asleep before the third quarter. Standard.
I read for an hour Sunday night before bed. Some novel about a Black woman in 1960s Alabama. Mama would have liked it.
Saturday morning I had Set the Table at the Cascade Heights center. Twelve young women. We did baked chicken. One of them — Imani, sixteen — was so afraid of seasoning that she barely shook the salt. I stood next to her and put my hand over hers and said, baby, you cannot be afraid of food. We seasoned the chicken. The chicken came out right. She glowed.
Miss Ernestine called Tuesday. She's ninety-something and sharp as ever. She told me my potato salad still needs more mustard.
I went to the cemetery Saturday morning. Brenda's grave is on the hill at South-View. Curtis still goes most Sundays. I left a small bouquet of magnolias.
Thursday I made cornbread for a sister at church whose husband had surgery. I dropped it off at the hospital. She cried at the door. I told her, eat the cornbread, baby. The food is the saying.
The blood pressure check was Wednesday. The numbers were borderline. The doctor wants me to walk more. I am walking more.
Tuesday evening I sat at the kitchen table with my composition notebook and worked on the cookbook. From Brenda's Kitchen — that's the working title. I cannot write the introduction without crying yet.
The neighbors had a Friday cookout this week. I brought my mac and cheese. They have come to expect this. I have come to expect this. The block is the block.
Sunday service at New Birth this morning. The choir sang. I sang soprano in the second alto row. Pastor preached about Naomi and Ruth. The congregation said amen. I said amen.
Darnell sent a photo from Clarksville. The garden is producing. He grew tomatoes the size of softballs. I sent him back a photo of my sweet potato casserole. We are competitive about food now in our middle age.
Andre called from LA. He told the Kevin Hart story again. Twenty-some years and that boy is still telling that story. Everyone in this family is going to hear about Kevin Hart at our funerals.
Pastor preached about the prodigal son again. He preaches about that boy at least three times a year. The text is the text but every preaching is different. I cried in the second service this time. Don't ask me why.
I drove to the Walmart on Camp Creek Saturday morning. The kind of grocery run that takes two hours because you run into three people you know. Sister Patrice caught me in the produce. We talked about her grandbaby for fifteen minutes.
When Darnell sent that photo from Clarksville — tomatoes the size of softballs, just sitting there on the vine like they were showing off — I sent him my sweet potato casserole right back and didn’t say a word. We’ve been competing like that for years now, and I love every minute of it. But if I’d had a box of those tomatoes on my counter this week, this is exactly what I would have made: a slow garden tomato compote, the kind you spoon over pot roast or pile onto cornbread, the kind that fills the kitchen with that deep, sweet smell that says Sunday even on a Thursday. Food is the saying — and this one says I see you, I grew this, I made this for you.
Garden Tomato Compote
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 45 min | Total Time: 1 hr | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 3 lbs fresh garden tomatoes, cored and roughly chopped (about 6–8 medium tomatoes)
- 1 medium yellow onion, finely diced
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 2 tablespoons olive oil
- 2 tablespoons light brown sugar
- 1 tablespoon balsamic vinegar
- 1 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more to taste
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes (optional)
- 4 fresh basil leaves, torn, for finishing
Instructions
- Soften the aromatics. Heat olive oil in a wide, heavy-bottomed skillet or saucepan over medium heat. Add the diced onion and cook, stirring occasionally, for 8–10 minutes until softened and translucent. Add the garlic and cook 1 minute more until fragrant.
- Add the tomatoes. Add the chopped tomatoes to the pan along with the salt, pepper, and smoked paprika. Stir to combine. Raise the heat to medium-high and bring to a gentle boil, then reduce to medium-low.
- Slow it down. Stir in the brown sugar and balsamic vinegar. Let the compote cook uncovered, stirring every 8–10 minutes, for 35–40 minutes until the tomatoes have broken down completely and the mixture has thickened to a jammy, saucy consistency.
- Taste and adjust. Season with additional salt and pepper as needed. Add crushed red pepper flakes if you want a gentle heat. The compote should taste rich, slightly sweet, and deeply savory.
- Finish and serve. Remove from heat and scatter torn basil over the top. Serve warm over pot roast, grilled chicken, cornbread, or alongside any Sunday plate. Leftovers keep refrigerated in a sealed jar for up to one week.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 95 | Protein: 2g | Fat: 5g | Carbs: 13g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 310mg