Labor Day weekend and the start of football season, which means Jamal's season, which means we track Southern University games with the attentiveness of people who have personal stakes. Daddy has a spreadsheet. I am not joking. He has a spreadsheet tracking Jamal's stats when he can find the play-by-play, updated after every game. It is one of the most endearing things I know about my father.
Jamal started as a wide receiver in Southern's season opener and had three receptions for forty-two yards. I know these numbers because Daddy read them aloud at the dinner table on Monday morning from his phone, which he had been checking since six AM. Mama said it was too early for statistics. Daddy said there was no time too early for Jamal's statistics. I agreed with Daddy on this one.
MawMaw Shirley called after the game — she had watched it on TV with Uncle Terrence — and was talking faster than I had heard her talk in years. She said, "He looked like himself out there. He looked like Jamal, the one I knew was in there." I understood that exactly. Sometimes you can see a person arriving at themselves in a public moment. That was what happened Saturday.
I made a Labor Day cookout contribution: baby back ribs marinated overnight in my own dry rub — brown sugar, smoked paprika, garlic powder, cayenne, dried thyme, mustard powder — and finished with a sauce I had been developing all summer. We cooked them at MawMaw's on the grill at low heat for three hours. They fell off the bone. Uncle Terrence said they were restaurant ribs. I told him the restaurant comparison was getting redundant. He said, "That's not an insult." I said I knew. I just want to be my own thing, not a restaurant thing. MawMaw overheard that and laughed quietly into her tea. She understood.
The ribs that weekend were mine — the rub, the timing, the finished sauce — and what I kept thinking about was how the seasoning did the real work. A spice blend is a decision. It tells you exactly where someone stands. That’s the same energy I bring to this fried cube steak: a seasoned flour dredge that doesn’t apologize for itself, a cast-iron skillet, and the patience to let the crust develop the way it wants to. Uncle Terrence can call it restaurant food if he needs to. I know what it actually is.
Fried Cube Steak
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 20 min | Total Time: 35 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 4 cube steaks (about 1 1/2 lbs total)
- 1 cup all-purpose flour
- 1 tsp smoked paprika
- 1 tsp garlic powder
- 1 tsp onion powder
- 1/2 tsp cayenne pepper
- 1/2 tsp mustard powder
- 1 tsp kosher salt, plus more for seasoning
- 1/2 tsp freshly ground black pepper
- 2 large eggs
- 1/4 cup whole milk
- 1/2 cup vegetable oil, for frying
Instructions
- Season the steaks. Pat cube steaks dry with paper towels. Season both sides generously with salt and black pepper. Let rest at room temperature for 10 minutes while you prepare the dredge.
- Make the seasoned flour. In a shallow dish, whisk together flour, smoked paprika, garlic powder, onion powder, cayenne, mustard powder, salt, and black pepper until evenly combined.
- Make the egg wash. In a second shallow dish, beat eggs and milk together until smooth.
- Dredge the steaks. Working one at a time, dredge each steak in the seasoned flour, pressing firmly so it adheres. Dip into the egg wash, letting the excess drip off, then dredge again in the flour for a second coat. Set aside on a wire rack.
- Heat the oil. Pour vegetable oil into a large cast-iron skillet and heat over medium-high until shimmering, about 350°F. The oil should be about 1/4 inch deep.
- Fry the steaks. Working in batches of two, carefully add steaks to the hot oil. Fry undisturbed for 4—5 minutes until the bottom crust is deep golden brown. Flip once and fry an additional 3—4 minutes. Do not crowd the pan. Transfer to a wire rack set over a baking sheet to drain.
- Rest and serve. Let steaks rest 3—5 minutes before serving. The crust will stay crisp. Serve with your preferred sides.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 430 | Protein: 34g | Fat: 23g | Carbs: 19g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 490mg