Darius and Tanya's baby is due in eight weeks. Tanya is enormous and radiant and tired, and Darius is terrified in the way that first-time fathers are terrified: with enthusiasm. He calls me every other day with questions. "How do you hold a newborn?" (Support the head.) "When do they sleep through the night?" (Never. They never sleep through the night. Accept this.) "What if I drop the baby?" (You will not drop the baby. But you will think about dropping the baby approximately four hundred times a day.) I am the experienced father now. Two children, three years in, and I am dispensing wisdom like a seasoned veteran. The wisdom is: you will figure it out. You will be exhausted. The food will sustain you. Cook for your family and the rest will follow.
Aiden's last week at Mrs. Henderson's before preschool starts. She cried when we picked him up Friday — not for the last time, since Zaria is still there, but because Aiden has been with her since he was one, and the goodbye was real. She hugged him and said, "You're going to do great things, Aiden Carter." He said, "I know." Carter confidence. Generation three.
I made fried chicken this week. The big one. Mama's fried chicken. The recipe I have been circling for two years, afraid to attempt because Mama's fried chicken is sacred, and failing at it would feel like sacrilege. But I called her, and she talked me through it: buttermilk soak overnight, seasoned flour (her blend — I wrote it down this time), cast-iron skillet, vegetable oil at 350 degrees (thermometer, thank God), twelve minutes per side for thighs.
The result: the crust was golden. The meat was juicy. The seasoning was there. But the crust was not as crispy as Mama's, and the oil temperature fluctuated because my stovetop is not as reliable as hers, and the overall product was — I need to be honest — seventy percent of Mama's. Seventy percent of the best fried chicken in Detroit is still very good fried chicken. But it is not Mama's, and the thirty-percent gap haunts me. I will try again. I will keep trying until the gap is zero or until I accept that some things are only achievable by the hands that invented them.
Brianna ate three pieces and said nothing, which I interpreted as the highest possible praise.
The seventy-percent gap is real, and I’m not done fighting it. What I know now — after that first real attempt, after writing down Mama’s blend for the first time, after watching the oil temperature on a thermometer like it owed me money — is that the coating is where the battle is won or lost. Brianna’s silence over three pieces told me I was close. This is the coating recipe I’m building from, the foundation I’m going to keep refining until the crust cracks the way it does when Mama makes it and the whole kitchen goes quiet.
Fried Chicken Coating
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 25 min | Total Time: 40 min (plus overnight soak) | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 2 cups buttermilk
- 1 tablespoon hot sauce
- 3 lbs bone-in chicken thighs and drumsticks
- 2 cups all-purpose flour
- 2 teaspoons salt
- 1 1/2 teaspoons black pepper
- 1 1/2 teaspoons garlic powder
- 1 teaspoon onion powder
- 1 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/2 teaspoon cayenne pepper
- 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
- Vegetable oil, for frying (about 3 cups)
Instructions
- Soak the chicken. Combine buttermilk and hot sauce in a large bowl. Add chicken pieces, turning to coat. Cover and refrigerate overnight, or at least 4 hours.
- Mix the coating. In a shallow dish, whisk together the flour, salt, black pepper, garlic powder, onion powder, smoked paprika, cayenne, and thyme until fully combined.
- Heat the oil. Pour vegetable oil into a large cast-iron skillet to a depth of about 3/4 inch. Heat over medium to medium-high until the oil reaches 350°F on a thermometer. Maintain this temperature throughout cooking.
- Dredge the chicken. Remove each piece from the buttermilk soak, letting excess drip off. Dredge thoroughly in the seasoned flour, pressing firmly so the coating adheres. Shake off any loose excess.
- Fry in batches. Working in batches to avoid crowding, place chicken skin-side down in the hot oil. Fry for 12 minutes per side, adjusting heat as needed to keep oil steady at 350°F, until the crust is deep golden and an instant-read thermometer inserted at the thickest point reads 165°F.
- Drain and rest. Transfer finished pieces to a wire rack set over a baking sheet. Let rest 5 minutes before serving — this keeps the crust from steaming itself soft.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 480 | Protein: 36g | Fat: 24g | Carbs: 28g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 620mg
About the cook who shared this
DeShawn Carter
Week 125 of DeShawn’s 30-year story
· Detroit, Michigan
DeShawn is a thirty-six-year-old single dad, auto plant worker, and a man who didn't learn to cook until his wife left and his five-year-old asked, "Daddy, can you cook something?" He called his mama, who came over with two bags of groceries and spent six months teaching him the basics. Now he's the dad at the cookout who brings the ribs, the guy at the plant whose leftover gumbo starts fights, and living proof that it's never too late to learn.