Back to the rhythm. The book launch energy has settled into something more sustainable — the long game. Katherine says the first month's sales are "strong for a debut from a small press." She means: we're not going viral, but we're building. The building is fine. The building is what I know. I built Set the Table girl by girl. I built this family dinner by dinner. I'll build the book's audience reader by reader. The pace of real things is slow. The pace of real things is Mama's collard greens: four hours, low heat, no shortcuts.
At school, end of year approaching. My twenty-first year. Twenty-one years of other people's children. The number is staggering when I let myself think about it — thousands of kids who sat in my office chair and told me things they couldn't tell anyone else. Some of them are adults now with children of their own. Some of them are in prison. Some of them are dead. The outcomes are not mine to control. My job is the chair and the tissue box and the door that stays open. The outcomes belong to the kids and to God and to the structural systems that I can't fix with a granola bar and a conversation. But I show up. I keep showing up. The showing up is the only thing I control.
Zoe is deep into AP Art — her portfolio is becoming something extraordinary. Her teacher nominated her for a regional art competition. The theme is "inheritance." Zoe is painting the Folgers can. Of course she is. The Folgers can, rendered in oils, large-format, every dent and scratch captured with the precision of a girl who has looked at this can every day for seven years and sees in it not just spices but the whole story of how love travels between women across time.
Made a simple pasta — aglio e olio, garlic and olive oil and chili flakes and parmesan. Five ingredients. Ten minutes. The meal of a woman who is balancing a book tour and a school year and a nonprofit and a family and has learned that simplicity is not laziness. Simplicity is mastery. Mama knew this. The best recipes have the fewest ingredients. The best love has the fewest conditions.
The aglio e olio reminded me, again, that the table doesn’t need to be complicated to be nourishing — and neither does what sits beside it. I threw together this green salad the same night: cold, crisp, dressed simply, nothing hiding behind anything else. It’s the kind of salad that earns the word “fancy” not because it’s fussy, but because it’s composed — every leaf intentional, every bite clean. Mama would have approved. She always said the difference between a salad and a good salad is attention, not ingredients.
Fancy Green Salad
Prep Time: 10 min | Cook Time: 0 min | Total Time: 10 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 5 oz mixed baby greens (arugula, spinach, butter lettuce)
- 1/2 cup thinly sliced English cucumber
- 1/4 cup shaved parmesan
- 1/4 cup toasted walnuts or sliced almonds
- 1/2 cup grape tomatoes, halved
- 3 tablespoons good extra-virgin olive oil
- 1 1/2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
- 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard
- 1 small garlic clove, minced
- Salt and freshly cracked black pepper to taste
Instructions
- Make the dressing. In a small bowl or jar, whisk together the olive oil, lemon juice, Dijon mustard, and minced garlic until emulsified. Season with salt and pepper. Taste and adjust — it should be bright and clean.
- Prepare the greens. Add the baby greens to a large salad bowl. Make sure they are fully dry so the dressing clings properly; wet greens are the enemy of a dressed salad.
- Add the toppings. Scatter the cucumber slices, grape tomatoes, and toasted nuts over the greens. Lay the shaved parmesan across the top last so it stays intact.
- Dress and toss. Drizzle the dressing around the edges of the bowl first, then gently toss everything together with tongs or clean hands. Every leaf should be lightly coated — not drowned.
- Serve immediately. Plate and serve right away. A dressed salad waits for no one.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 165 | Protein: 5g | Fat: 14g | Carbs: 6g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 180mg