The twins turned three in February, which means they've been three for four months, which means they've been in the full flower of three-ness long enough for Lisa and me to understand that three is not the sweet, cooperative age the parenting books promised. Three is a hostage negotiation. Three is Marco melting down in the cereal aisle because I put the Cheerios in the cart wrong — not the wrong cereal, the wrong placement in the cart — and Elena standing beside him with the calm authority of a tiny diplomat, patting his arm and saying, "Marco. Marco. It's okay, Marco." She's three. She's already the most emotionally intelligent person in this family, and the bar is not low.
I spent Monday through Wednesday at a coaching clinic in Colorado Springs — three days of Xs and Os with other high school coaches from across the state, talking defensive schemes and spread offenses and how to get a seventeen-year-old to understand gap responsibility when he can't remember his locker combination. I love these clinics. I love being in a room full of men who care about something as absurd and as important as high school football. We are ridiculous. We are also necessary. Someone has to teach these boys that discipline is a form of love, even when it doesn't feel like it.
Lisa held down the fort solo for three days, which is to say she did what she always does — everything — but without the illusion that I'm helping. She was tired when I got home Wednesday night. Not ER tired, which is a specific and terrifying fatigue, but parent tired, which is slower and more cumulative. I sent her to the bedroom with a book and I made dinner: calabacitas. Zucchini, corn, diced onion, a little garlic, all sautéed in a cast-iron skillet with butter. No green chile, because I have no green chile, because the universe is testing me. I added a can of diced green chiles from the grocery store, which is not the same thing and everyone in New Mexico knows it's not the same thing, but it was June and I was desperate. The kids ate it. Lisa came back downstairs and ate a plate standing at the counter and said, "You used canned, didn't you." I said, "We will never speak of this."
Diego spent the weekend running routes in the backyard by himself. Nobody asked him to. He just does it. I watched from the kitchen window and saw the thing I see in my best players — the kid who does the work when nobody's watching. That's my boy. Feed your people. The game is won at the table.
That Wednesday dinner — whatever you want to call it, calabacitas or desperation or love in a skillet — reminded me that the cast-iron pan is the most honest tool in the kitchen. You’re not hiding anything in there. Whatever you throw in, you’re committing to. If you want to recreate that kind of fast, feed-your-people weeknight energy without the shame of reaching for canned chiles (no judgment, we’ve all been there), these Fajita Veggies are the move — same spirit, same skillet, and enough smoky seasoning that the kids won’t notice what’s missing.
Fajita Veggies
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 15 minutes | Total Time: 25 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 medium zucchini, sliced into half-moons
- 1 red bell pepper, sliced thin
- 1 yellow bell pepper, sliced thin
- 1 large yellow onion, sliced thin
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 cup fresh or frozen corn kernels
- 1 tablespoon olive oil or butter
- 1 teaspoon ground cumin
- 1 teaspoon chili powder
- 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more to taste
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- Juice of 1 lime
- Optional: 1 (4 oz) can diced green chiles, drained
Instructions
- Heat the skillet. Place a large cast-iron skillet over medium-high heat. Let it get hot — a full minute at least. Add the olive oil or butter and swirl to coat.
- Cook the onion and peppers. Add the sliced onion and bell peppers to the skillet. Spread them into a single layer and let them sit undisturbed for 2–3 minutes so they get a little char on the edges. Stir and continue cooking for another 3 minutes until softened.
- Add the zucchini and corn. Add the zucchini and corn to the pan. Stir to combine with the peppers and onion. Cook for 4–5 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the zucchini is just tender but not mushy.
- Add garlic and season. Push the vegetables to the edges and add the minced garlic to the center of the pan. Let it sizzle for 30 seconds, then stir everything together. Sprinkle in the cumin, chili powder, smoked paprika, salt, and pepper. If using canned green chiles, add them now. Stir well to coat the vegetables evenly in the spices.
- Finish and serve. Remove the skillet from heat and squeeze the lime juice over the top. Taste and adjust salt as needed. Serve immediately as a side dish, over rice, inside warm tortillas, or straight from the pan at the counter — whatever gets food on the table fastest.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 110 | Protein: 3g | Fat: 4g | Carbs: 17g | Fiber: 3g | Sodium: 290mg