Three years since Ryan and I met, officially — it was a bar on Western Ave with bad lighting and a good jukebox and my friend Sara pushed me toward him because she said he looked like he needed rescuing and I said that is not how this works and she said try it anyway. I did. He did not need rescuing. He needed someone to tell him his order was wrong (it was), which I did, and apparently that is how this works. Happy three years, Ryan. You still order things wrong at bars and I still correct you and I would not change a thing.
We went to dinner at an actual restaurant for the first time since March — outdoor seating, masks when not at the table, the whole protocol. It was a slightly weird experience and also deeply good. We went to a neighborhood Italian place that we have been going to since our second date and the owner is an older man named Gino who remembered us and said congratulations on the engagement, which means Patty had already told someone who told someone who told Gino. This is Oak Lawn. This is what happens. I did not mind at all.
I made strawberry shortcake for our unofficial anniversary dinner, with shortcakes I made from scratch using a biscuit method — cold butter, heavy cream, a little sugar. Aldi had strawberries on sale for $1.99 a pound and I bought three pounds and macerated half of them with sugar and let them get syrupy and used the rest fresh. Ryan ate two shortcakes and said this is better than the restaurant we just came from. The restaurant had good pasta. He is not wrong about the shortcake.
The blog post was the strawberry shortcake, framed as a celebration of small anniversaries during large strange years. Apparently a lot of people are celebrating things quietly right now — small anniversaries, small birthdays, small milestones. The comments were full of them. I think I stumbled into a genre. I am going to keep writing it.
The shortcakes were the star of our anniversary dinner, but the strawberries were the real reason any of it worked — three pounds from Aldi, syrupy and sweet and exactly right for the occasion. If you want to carry that same energy into something a little easier to pull together for your own quiet celebration, this Easy Strawberry Poke Cake captures everything I love about the season: fresh berries, a little sweetness soaking into something soft, and the kind of dessert that feels like it means something even when you’re keeping things small. It’s the recipe I’d reach for the next time Ryan and I have something worth marking — which, honestly, is any Tuesday we decide to make it one.
Easy Strawberry Poke Cake
Prep Time: 20 min | Cook Time: 30 min | Total Time: 50 min | Servings: 12
Ingredients
- 1 box (15.25 oz) white or vanilla cake mix, plus ingredients called for on box (eggs, oil, water)
- 1 package (3 oz) strawberry-flavored gelatin
- 1 cup boiling water
- 1/2 cup cold water
- 1 1/2 cups fresh strawberries, hulled and sliced
- 1 container (8 oz) frozen whipped topping, thawed
- 2 tablespoons granulated sugar
- 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
Instructions
- Bake the cake. Prepare cake mix according to package directions and bake in a greased 9x13-inch pan. Let cool for 15 minutes — the cake should still be slightly warm.
- Macerate the strawberries. While the cake bakes, toss sliced strawberries with 2 tablespoons sugar in a small bowl. Let sit at room temperature for at least 15 minutes until syrupy.
- Poke the holes. Using the handle of a wooden spoon, poke holes all over the surface of the warm cake, spacing them about 1 inch apart.
- Make the gelatin mixture. Dissolve strawberry gelatin in 1 cup boiling water, stirring for 2 minutes until fully dissolved. Stir in 1/2 cup cold water.
- Pour and soak. Slowly pour the gelatin mixture evenly over the poked cake, letting it seep into the holes. Refrigerate uncovered for at least 2 hours, or until the gelatin is fully set.
- Top and finish. Stir vanilla extract into whipped topping. Spread evenly over the chilled cake. Arrange macerated strawberries and any accumulated syrup over the top.
- Chill and serve. Return to the refrigerator for at least 30 minutes before slicing. Serve cold and store any leftovers covered in the refrigerator for up to 3 days.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 280 | Protein: 3g | Fat: 10g | Carbs: 44g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 290mg