Two weeks. The wedding is in two weeks and Amber has reached the stage of wedding planning I call "the calm before the calm before the storm." She's stopped panicking. She's stopped calling six times a day. She called once this week, and she sounded... peaceful. She said, "Everything is done. The venue is booked, the flowers are ordered, the cake is paid for, the dress is hanging in my closet. All I have to do is show up and marry him." That's all, Amber. That's the easy part. The hard part was the peonies.
The bachelorette dinner was Saturday night. Seven women at a long table in a Chattanooga restaurant, eating too much and laughing too loud. Crystal gave a toast: "To Amber, who found a man who grills steaks and opens doors and doesn't ask twice before helping." The table raised their glasses. I raised my water (I don't drink, but I raise my water with the same enthusiasm). Amber cried. She's been crying at everything for two weeks — commercials, sunsets, the seating chart, a particularly moving sandwich. Bride tears. They come for everything and mean nothing and everything at the same time.
I gave Amber a gift at the dinner: a framed recipe card. Not just any recipe — Earline's cornbread recipe, handwritten by me in my best handwriting, on a card that matches the ones in the recipe box. I wrote at the bottom: "For your kitchen. So Earline is at your table too. Love, Sarah." Amber held it and cried (of course) and said, "I'm hanging this in my kitchen." She will. And when she makes cornbread in Chattanooga, it'll be Earline's, the same recipe, the same cast iron, the same no-sugar tradition, three hundred miles from where Earline stood but connected by flour and lard and the stubborn insistence that sugar in cornbread is a crime.
Chloe hit fifty books. FIFTY. Her summer reading goal, achieved with three weeks to spare. Ms. Davis gave her a certificate and a gift card to the bookstore and Chloe said, "I'm going to buy five more books." Of course she is. She's going to read her way through the entire Nashville library system and then she's going to start on Chattanooga. My daughter is a reading machine and the machine has no off switch.
I made chicken salad sandwiches for a summer lunch this week — rotisserie chicken shredded with grapes, celery, pecans, mayo, on croissants. Croissants. I bought croissants. From the bakery section. The bakery section where the bread costs more because it's shaped fancy. I bought fancy bread for chicken salad and I didn't apologize for it because there is no shame in croissants. There is only butter and flakiness and the quiet revolution of a woman who used to eat her chicken salad on Wonder Bread and now eats it on a croissant. The chicken salad is the same. The bread is the upgrade. Sometimes the upgrade is the bread.
The croissant was the beginning of something. Once I stopped apologizing for wanting a lunch that felt a little intentional — a little more than utilitarian — I realized the upgrade doesn’t have to stop at the bread. This Crispy Coconut Chicken Salad with Sesame Vinaigrette is where that quiet revolution goes next: the same spirit as the chicken salad I made for that sun-soaked summer afternoon, but dressed up the way you dress up for a bachelorette dinner in Chattanooga — not because you have to, but because you want to, and nobody’s going to ask you to apologize for it.
Crispy Coconut Chicken Salad with Sesame Vinaigrette
Prep Time: 15 minutes | Cook Time: 15 minutes | Total Time: 30 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- For the chicken:
- 1 lb boneless, skinless chicken breasts, pounded to even thickness
- 3/4 cup shredded sweetened coconut
- 1/2 cup panko breadcrumbs
- 1/4 cup all-purpose flour
- 2 large eggs, beaten
- 1/2 tsp salt
- 1/4 tsp black pepper
- 2 tbsp coconut oil or vegetable oil
- For the sesame vinaigrette:
- 3 tbsp sesame oil
- 2 tbsp rice vinegar
- 1 tbsp low-sodium soy sauce
- 1 tbsp honey
- 1 tsp fresh ginger, finely grated
- 1 clove garlic, minced
- For the salad:
- 6 cups mixed greens or romaine, torn
- 1 cup shredded red cabbage
- 1 cup matchstick carrots
- 1/2 cup sliced almonds or cashews
- 3 green onions, thinly sliced
- 1/4 cup fresh cilantro leaves
- 1 mandarin orange, peeled and segmented (optional)
Instructions
- Prep the chicken. Pat chicken breasts dry and season both sides with salt and pepper. If breasts are thick, slice horizontally or pound to about 3/4-inch even thickness so they cook evenly.
- Set up the breading station. Place flour in one shallow dish, beaten eggs in a second, and stir together the shredded coconut and panko breadcrumbs in a third.
- Bread each piece. Dredge chicken in flour and shake off any excess, dip fully in egg, then press firmly into the coconut-panko mixture to coat both sides. Set on a plate while you finish the rest.
- Cook the chicken. Heat oil in a large skillet over medium heat until shimmering. Add chicken and cook 6—7 minutes per side, until the coconut crust is deep golden and the internal temperature reads 165°F. Transfer to a cutting board and let rest 5 minutes before slicing.
- Make the vinaigrette. Whisk together sesame oil, rice vinegar, soy sauce, honey, grated ginger, and minced garlic in a small bowl until smooth and emulsified. Taste and adjust seasoning.
- Build the salad base. In a large bowl, combine mixed greens, red cabbage, carrots, green onions, and cilantro. Drizzle with about two-thirds of the vinaigrette and toss gently to coat.
- Assemble and serve. Divide the dressed greens among four plates. Top each with sliced coconut chicken, almonds, and mandarin segments if using. Drizzle remaining vinaigrette over the chicken and serve immediately.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 415 | Protein: 31g | Fat: 23g | Carbs: 24g | Fiber: 4g | Sodium: 390mg