October. My favorite month, if I'm honest. Nashville in October is a postcard — red and gold leaves against a blue sky, the Smoky Mountains visible on clear days, the air sharp enough to wake you up but warm enough to forgive. Everything smells like campfire and possibility. I know that sounds poetic for a woman who spends her mornings scraping waffle irons, but October makes poets of all of us.
Chloe is CONSUMED with Halloween planning. She wants to be Elsa. Again. Last year she was Elsa. The year before — well, she was two, so she was a pumpkin and had no say. But this year she wants the full Elsa: the dress, the braid, the shoes, the attitude. I found a costume at Goodwill for $6 — slightly too big, one sequin missing from the bodice — and Chloe looked at it like I'd handed her the Hope Diamond. "IT'S PERFECT, MAMA." It's imperfect and she doesn't care and that is the most beautiful thing about being four.
Jayden will be a lion. I bought a onesie with a hood that has ears and a mane. He looks ridiculous. He looks like the cutest thing that has ever existed. He roars when he wears it, which is actually just him screaming, but we're calling it a roar because context is everything.
School continues. We're deep into periodontal anatomy now — the gums, the bone, the ligaments that hold teeth in place. Did you know your teeth are not actually fused to your jaw? They're held in by a ligament called the periodontal ligament, and it acts like a tiny shock absorber. I told Mr. Gerald this at the Waffle House and he said, "My teeth aren't held in by anything anymore. They're held in by prayer and Fixodent." I love that man. I love him and his pecan waffles and his three-dollar tips and his jokes about dentures.
Mama's blood pressure was high again at her checkup. The doctor put her on medication — lisinopril, 10mg. Mama was irritated. She said, "I don't need pills. I need less stress." I said, "Mama, you babysit two children three nights a week for free. That IS the stress." She said, "Those children are not stress. Those children are joy." And then she made fried chicken for dinner, because Lorraine Mitchell processes medical news through cooking oil. Some things don't change. Some things are not supposed to change.
I made a pumpkin soup this week — roasted canned pumpkin (not pie filling, the plain kind), sautéed onion and garlic, chicken broth, a splash of cream, nutmeg, salt. Blended smooth. It's the color of October and it tastes like the season feels: warm, golden, changing. Chloe said it tasted "like Halloween." Jayden ate it off a spoon, which is progress — he usually eats with his hands like he's auditioning for a medieval feast. We're evolving. Slowly, but we're evolving.
Mama’s whole philosophy — that the right food can hold you steady when life feels uncertain — was running through my head all week, and I think that’s exactly why I landed on pumpkin soup. There’s something about a warm, blended bowl of something golden that feels like an answer to news you weren’t quite ready to hear. It’s simple, it’s grounding, and it comes together in thirty minutes — which is about all the bandwidth I had. Here’s how I made it.
Creamy Roasted Pumpkin Soup
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 20 minutes | Total Time: 30 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 tablespoon olive oil or unsalted butter
- 1 medium yellow onion, roughly chopped
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 can (15 oz) pure pumpkin puree (not pumpkin pie filling)
- 3 cups low-sodium chicken broth
- 1/4 cup heavy cream (plus more for swirling, optional)
- 1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, or to taste
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- Pinch of cayenne pepper (optional)
- Pepitas or crusty bread, for serving (optional)
Instructions
- Sauté the aromatics. Heat olive oil in a medium saucepan over medium heat. Add the onion and cook, stirring occasionally, until softened and translucent, about 5–6 minutes. Add the garlic and cook 1 minute more, until fragrant.
- Add pumpkin and broth. Stir in the pumpkin puree until it is fully combined with the onion and garlic. Pour in the chicken broth and stir to incorporate. Bring the mixture to a gentle simmer over medium-high heat.
- Season. Add the nutmeg, salt, black pepper, and cayenne (if using). Stir well and reduce heat to medium-low. Simmer for 10 minutes to let the flavors meld.
- Blend until smooth. Using an immersion blender directly in the pot, blend the soup until completely smooth. Alternatively, carefully transfer in batches to a countertop blender, filling no more than halfway each time. Return blended soup to the pot.
- Finish with cream. Stir in the heavy cream over low heat. Taste and adjust salt as needed. Do not boil once the cream is added.
- Serve. Ladle into bowls. Swirl in an extra drizzle of cream if desired, and top with pepitas or serve alongside crusty bread.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 145 | Protein: 4g | Fat: 9g | Carbs: 14g | Fiber: 3g | Sodium: 320mg