Ava's first week. I have been to Emma and Daniel's apartment every day. I bring food. I hold the baby while Emma sleeps. I do dishes. I do laundry. I do whatever needs doing, because that's what grandfathers are for — not the fun parts (though those will come), but the scaffolding parts, the unglamorous infrastructure of keeping a household running while two exhausted new parents learn the ancient and terrifying art of keeping a small human alive.
The freezer meals are already in rotation. Emma heated the cháo gà on day two and ate it standing in the kitchen at 4 AM while nursing Ava, and she texted me afterward: "You were right. This is not enough." I made another twenty portions the next day. The thit kho has been Daniel's lifeline — he eats it over rice at midnight between feedings, standing at the counter in his scrubs (he went back to work after three days because nurses don't get the leave they deserve). The pho broth has been heating continuously on the stove, a permanent source of warmth and nourishment. My food is doing what food is supposed to do: holding people together when everything else is falling apart.
Mai met Ava on Sunday. I drove Mai to the apartment, and she walked in with her walker and sat in the rocking chair and I put the baby in her arms. Mai looked at Ava for a long time. She touched her face. She counted her fingers. She checked her ears. Then she said, in Vietnamese, "She has Huy's nose." I looked. She did. The Tran nose — wider at the bridge, slightly upturned — was unmistakable. Huy's nose, on my granddaughter. Mai held Ava for forty-five minutes and didn't give her back until Ava cried for food, and even then she handed her over reluctantly. "She was fine," Mai said. "She was hungry, Mom," Emma said. "That's fine," Mai said.
I cooked a massive batch of bún riêu — crab noodle soup — and brought it to the apartment. It's light, it's nourishing, and the tangy tomato broth is the kind of thing that cuts through the fog of sleep deprivation and reminds you that the world outside the nursery still exists. Emma ate two bowls. I held Ava while she ate. My granddaughter slept on my chest and I breathed and I was more present than I have ever been. More present than the smoker, more present than the meetings, more present than Vietnam. This.
The bún riêu was the centerpiece, but I had learned by day three that Emma needed something waiting for her at every hour — not just dinner, not just soup, but something she could pull from the oven or the fridge at 6 AM with one hand while Ava slept on her shoulder. I started leaving a pan of these creamy baked eggs every morning before I left the apartment. Daniel ate them cold before his shift. Emma ate them standing at the counter, the same way she’d eaten the cháo gà — standing, fast, grateful. This is the recipe I made every single day that first week, and I will keep making it as long as they need me to.
Creamy Baked Eggs
Prep Time: 5 min | Cook Time: 20 min | Total Time: 25 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 tablespoon unsalted butter
- 1/2 cup heavy cream
- 4 large eggs
- 1/4 cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese
- 1/4 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/8 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes (optional)
- 2 tablespoons fresh chives or flat-leaf parsley, finely chopped
- Crusty bread or toast, for serving
Instructions
- Preheat the oven. Set your oven to 375°F (190°C). Place a small baking dish or individual ramekins on a rimmed baking sheet.
- Butter the dish. Rub the bottom and sides of the baking dish generously with butter. This prevents sticking and adds richness to the edges.
- Add the cream. Pour the heavy cream evenly into the buttered dish. It should coat the bottom in a shallow, even layer.
- Crack in the eggs. Carefully crack the eggs one at a time directly into the cream, spacing them evenly so the yolks remain intact and separate.
- Season and top. Sprinkle the eggs evenly with salt, black pepper, red pepper flakes if using, and the grated Parmesan.
- Bake. Transfer the baking sheet to the oven and bake for 16—20 minutes, until the whites are just set but the yolks are still soft and slightly jiggly. Check at 16 minutes — ovens vary and you do not want hard yolks.
- Finish and serve. Remove from the oven, scatter fresh chives or parsley over the top, and serve immediately with crusty bread or toast for scooping. Can be kept at room temperature for up to 30 minutes, or covered and refrigerated for up to 24 hours and gently rewarmed.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 210 | Protein: 10g | Fat: 18g | Carbs: 2g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 280mg