Tyler asked me this week what James was like. We were sitting on the porch after dinner and it was finally cooling down enough at night to sit outside. I think he asked because he could feel the weight I still carry and he wanted to understand its shape.
I told him about the winter coat. I was fourteen and it was the first foster home where anyone noticed I was cold. James handed it to me on a Saturday morning without ceremony, just a green wool coat he had found at Goodwill in my size. He said try that on. I tried it on. He said good. And that was it. No performance, no expectation of gratitude. Just a coat. Just noticing.
Tyler listened without interrupting. He does not say I am sorry reflexively the way some people do. He waited until I was done and said he sounds like someone worth missing. And I said he was. And Tyler put his hand over mine on the porch railing and we sat there until the mosquitoes drove us in.
Made a pot of vegetable soup Sunday for Gloria because her hands were sore enough that she did not want to do much of the directing. Whatever is in the kitchen, everything together, long slow simmer. Half a leftover chicken. Corn off two ears. Potatoes and green beans from her freezer that she had put up herself in July. Canned tomatoes. Enough black pepper. More than you think.
Destiny ate three bowls. She asked if there was more. I said there was always more. I meant it as a fact but Gloria caught my eye over Destiny head and something passed between us that was not exactly words.
That Sunday soup used everything we had, and the corn was the heart of it — cut fresh off the ear, sweet and a little grassy, the way corn only tastes when someone has been paying attention to the season. Gloria’s freezer corn made me think about all the effort that goes into putting food by, the quiet act of believing there will be a later worth feeding. This corn relish salad is what I make when the corn is good and I want to do something with it that honors that — quick enough not to fuss over, bright enough to feel like a gift, and the kind of thing you can always make a little more of.
Corn Relish Salad
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 5 min | Total Time: 20 min | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 4 ears fresh corn, husked
- 1/2 cup diced red bell pepper
- 1/2 cup diced green bell pepper
- 1/3 cup diced red onion
- 2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar
- 1 tablespoon olive oil
- 1 teaspoon sugar
- 1/2 teaspoon celery seed
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 2 tablespoons fresh parsley, chopped
Instructions
- Cook the corn. Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Add the ears of corn and cook for 3 to 5 minutes, just until tender. Drain and let cool enough to handle.
- Cut the kernels. Stand each ear upright on a cutting board and slice the kernels off with a sharp knife, working top to bottom. You should have about 3 cups of kernels.
- Make the dressing. In a small bowl, whisk together the apple cider vinegar, olive oil, sugar, celery seed, salt, and black pepper until the sugar dissolves.
- Combine. In a large bowl, toss the corn kernels with the diced red and green bell pepper and the red onion. Pour the dressing over and toss to coat evenly.
- Finish and rest. Stir in the fresh parsley. Let the salad sit at room temperature for at least 10 minutes before serving so the flavors can come together. Serve at room temperature or chilled.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 110 | Protein: 3g | Fat: 3g | Carbs: 20g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 200mg