Super Bowl week. I don't care about the teams this year — neither Phoenix nor anyone I follow made it — but I care deeply about the food, because the Super Bowl is the second-largest eating event in America after Thanksgiving, and I take my responsibilities as the household pitmaster seriously. Jessica says my Super Bowl prep is "more intense than the actual game." She's not wrong. The game is four hours. My cook starts at 6 AM.
The menu: smoked wings (two batches — one with my Station 19 rub, one with a honey-habanero glaze), jalapeño poppers (stuffed with cream cheese and wrapped in bacon, smoked at 275 until the bacon crisps), pulled pork sliders (made from a shoulder I started at midnight), homemade guacamole (Elena's recipe, which I still can't replicate exactly, but I'm getting closer), a seven-layer dip that Jessica insists on because it's "tradition" even though she invented the tradition last year, and a massive tray of nachos assembled at halftime when everyone is drunk enough to eat nachos as a main course.
We had people over: Orozco and his wife, Dave and his wife, Miguel and Adriana, and a couple of Jessica's work friends who I've met exactly twice but who brought beer and didn't complain about the smoke, which qualifies them as permanent invitees. My parents came for the food but left before halftime because Roberto doesn't understand football ("they stop every five seconds, mijo, how is this a sport?") and Elena doesn't like crowds in small spaces.
The wings were the star. The honey-habanero glaze was new — honey, habanero hot sauce, butter, lime juice, garlic, reduced to a sticky glaze and tossed with the smoked wings. They were sweet, then spicy, then sweet again, and the smoke flavor underneath held everything together. Orozco's wife, Maria, who doesn't eat spicy food, ate six of them and then stood at the kitchen sink drinking water and saying "why did I do that" in a tone of voice that suggested she would absolutely do it again.
Sofia stayed up until halftime, which is a parenting concession we made because she was wearing a football jersey (my old Maryvale High jersey, enormous on her, falling past her knees) and we couldn't bear to put her to bed looking that cute. She ate her body weight in guacamole and fell asleep on Miguel's lap during the third quarter. Miguel carried her to bed. I watched him — my cousin, the man who changed my life — carry my daughter gently down the hallway, and I thought about the next baby, the one we're hoping for, and how this house is going to feel even more full and even more right when they arrive.
Watching Miguel carry Sofia to bed, I felt that particular fullness that doesn’t have a word — gratitude mixed with something almost like grief that the moment is already passing. The wings were the center of gravity all night, the thing everyone kept coming back to, and afterward more than one person asked me how I got that sweet-heat layering without it feeling like a one-note punch. I’ve been reverse-engineering Orozco’s cousin’s rub for two seasons now, and I think I finally got it close enough to share.
Copycat Rib Tickler Rub
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 0 minutes | Total Time: 10 minutes | Servings: Makes about 3/4 cup (enough for 4–5 lbs of wings or ribs)
Ingredients
- 3 tablespoons dark brown sugar, packed
- 2 tablespoons smoked paprika
- 1 tablespoon kosher salt
- 1 tablespoon coarse black pepper
- 1 teaspoon garlic powder
- 1 teaspoon onion powder
- 1 teaspoon ground cumin
- 1 teaspoon chili powder
- 1/2 teaspoon cayenne pepper (add more if you want heat)
- 1/2 teaspoon dry mustard powder
- 1/4 teaspoon ground coriander
- 1/4 teaspoon celery salt
Instructions
- Combine dry ingredients. Add the brown sugar, smoked paprika, kosher salt, black pepper, garlic powder, onion powder, cumin, chili powder, cayenne, mustard powder, coriander, and celery salt to a small bowl. Break up any brown sugar clumps with your fingers or a fork.
- Mix thoroughly. Stir until all spices are evenly blended and the color is uniform throughout. The brown sugar will give it a slightly damp, sandy texture — that’s exactly right.
- Apply generously. Pat wings, ribs, or pork shoulder dry with paper towels. Coat all surfaces with the rub, pressing it in firmly so it adheres. For wings, about 1 tablespoon per pound is a good starting point. For a pork shoulder, don’t be shy — cover it completely.
- Rest before cooking. For best results, let the rubbed meat rest uncovered in the refrigerator for at least 1 hour, or overnight. The salt will draw out slight moisture that then reabsorbs into the meat, building deeper flavor before the smoke ever touches it.
- Store any extra. Transfer leftover rub to an airtight jar or zip-lock bag. It keeps at room temperature for up to 3 months. Label it — because once your guests taste these wings, someone is going to ask for the recipe, and you’ll want a jar ready to send home with them.
Nutrition (per serving — approximately 1 tablespoon of rub)
Calories: 28 | Protein: 0g | Fat: 0g | Carbs: 7g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 580mg