November opens cold. Twenty-eight at six in the morning, the first morning the woodstove was running at five before I had even made coffee, the first morning I pulled out the wool socks and the heavy coat and the mittens. The shift from fall to winter in Montana is not gradual. It is a date you can mark, and the date is usually in the first week of November, and this year it was Sunday. The cattle came into the calf shed and around the windbreak last night because the temperature dropped to twenty-three by ten and they know what twenty-three means. They are growing thick coats. Within two weeks they will look like a different species.
\nI weaned the November calves Tuesday. Twenty-two head separated from their mothers, into the calf shed, with the September baby and his mother in the next pen — they are staying together, not weaned, which is unusual but which is the right call. The calves cried. The mothers cried. The first night is always loud. By Thursday they had stopped. Weaning is one of those things you do because it must be done and you do not enjoy it but you do not avoid it either. The calves are healthy and the mothers will breed back in the spring and the cycle continues.
\nPatrick has been quiet this week. Not bad — the medication is in a steady rhythm — but quiet. He has not said much at any meal. He has been reading more, a Wendell Berry I had given him last year that he had not picked up before. He read it for two days and then stopped and put it on the side table and started a different book — a Cormac McCarthy I had not even known he had ever read — and got halfway through it in two evenings. The reading is something. Patrick reading McCarthy is not a thing I would have predicted at twenty-five. People surprise you, including the people you have lived with your whole life.
\nI drove to the VA in Billings Wednesday for my monthly check-in with Dr. Kessler. The therapy is monthly now, has been for a year, sometimes a phone call, sometimes the drive. This was a drive month. I told her about Tara and about Patrick and about Marcus and about Saturday cookouts and about the book and about how I had been crying more in 2024 than in any prior year, and she listened, and at the end she said, You are letting more in. I said, I do not know if that is good. She said, It is good. I said, It is exhausting. She said, Yes. Letting more in is exhausting. That is the trade. I sat with that. I drove home through the failing light. The Bull Mountains were the color of cold iron. I went home and made stew and went to bed at nine and slept eight hours and Thursday I did chores and the chores helped. The chores always help.
\nCooked Sunday a pot roast. Beef chuck, three pounds, browned in the Dutch oven, then onions, then carrots, then potatoes, then the meat back in with broth and a sprig of rosemary and a bay leaf and a glass of red wine I do not drink but use. Three hours covered in the oven at three hundred. Came out tender. The kind of meal that warms a kitchen for an afternoon and warms three people through Sunday night and into Monday lunch when we ate the leftovers cold on bread. Mom said this is the food you want in November. Mom is correct. November in Montana is for braising. The seasons tell you what to cook if you let them.
\nSaturday cookout was small — five guys, wind out of the north, the fire smoking sideways across the yard, the temperature dropping to twenty by nine in the evening. Marcus made sixty-three days. We did not mention it. He looked good. We ate a pork shoulder I had been smoking since six in the morning, with cornbread and slaw and applesauce I had made from the apples by the chicken coop. Pete said, You have been quiet tonight. I said, Yeah. I have been. He said, Anything wrong. I said, No. Just quiet. He nodded. The men understand quiet. We sat with the fire until ten. We went home. Sunday morning I slept until eight. The week was a quiet week. The fire helps. The pot roast helps. The quiet was, for once, not a problem. The quiet was just quiet.
The carrots went into the Dutch oven with everything else that Sunday, but I have been making them this way on their own since — glazed with chutney, finished with a little butter — because they hold the same warmth the whole pot roast does without the three-hour commitment. Mom had seconds. Patrick did not say much, but he came back for the carrots. November does not ask for complicated. It asks for something that warms the kitchen and sits well, and these do exactly that.
Chutney-Glazed Carrots
Prep Time: 10 min | Cook Time: 20 min | Total Time: 30 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 1/2 lbs carrots, peeled and cut into 1/2-inch coins (or halved lengthwise if small)
- 3 tablespoons mango chutney
- 2 tablespoons unsalted butter
- 1 tablespoon olive oil
- 1/2 teaspoon ground ginger
- 1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
- Salt and black pepper to taste
- Fresh parsley, chopped, for garnish (optional)
Instructions
- Boil the carrots. Place carrots in a medium saucepan and cover with salted water. Bring to a boil over high heat and cook for 8–10 minutes, until just tender but not mushy. Drain and set aside.
- Make the glaze. In a large skillet over medium heat, melt the butter with the olive oil. Stir in the chutney, ground ginger, and cinnamon. Cook for 1–2 minutes, stirring, until the glaze is bubbling and fragrant.
- Glaze the carrots. Add the drained carrots to the skillet and toss to coat evenly. Cook for 5–7 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the carrots are glazed and slightly caramelized around the edges.
- Season and serve. Taste and adjust with salt and black pepper. Transfer to a serving dish and garnish with chopped parsley if desired. Serve warm alongside pot roast, pork, or any braised main.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 165 | Protein: 1g | Fat: 8g | Carbs: 23g | Fiber: 4g | Sodium: 180mg