Mid-January and the winter has settled into its rhythm — rain, gray, the occasional break of sun that makes the whole city gasp with gratitude. I took Miya to the library on Saturday and we sat in the children's section and she chose books about cooking, which is either a reflection of her genuine interests or a product of living in a household where food is the primary language. Either way, she now asks to read "the soup book" every night, a picture book about a bear who makes vegetable soup, and she recites the ingredients along with the story: "carrot, potato, onion, peas." She is learning the vocabulary of cooking from a bear. I am learning it from a grandmother. Both methods are valid.
I made Fumiko's oyako donburi — the parent-and-child rice bowl — for the third time since the translation, and this time it was right. Not close. Right. The chicken was tender, the egg barely set, the dashi broth pooling in the rice, the scallions fresh and bright on top. I tasted it and the taste was Fumiko's kitchen. Not my kitchen. Hers. The translation had fully transferred — from card to hand, from Japanese to English, from Sacramento to Portland, from grandmother to granddaughter. The transfer was complete. The soup was right. I almost called her. The almost was the cruelest part of the week.
I wrote about the oyako donburi for the blog — about the name, parent-and-child, about the tenderness of chicken and egg in the same bowl, about the metaphor of generations cooked together, inseparable, each one necessary for the dish to be complete. The post was quiet and personal and my readers responded with their own parent-and-child stories, their own kitchen memories, their own almost-calls to people who no longer answer. The blog has become a community of grief and food and the specific intersection of the two, a place where people bring their losses to the table and find them honored. I did not plan this. I planned a food blog. Life planned something else.
Brian's resolution: day twenty. Holding. I am watching without commenting, which is a form of faith, or a form of holding my breath, or both.
The third time making Fumiko’s oyako donburi, I understood something about containers — how the bowl itself is part of the meaning, how what holds the food matters as much as what’s inside it. These Chicken Wonton Cups carry that same idea: a crisp little vessel, golden and ready, cradling something warm and savory and deeply satisfying. They’re not Fumiko’s recipe, but they speak the same language — chicken, umami, the kind of food that asks you to slow down and actually taste it. Make them when you need something that feels like an occasion, even on an ordinary January evening.
Chicken Wonton Cups
Prep Time: 20 minutes | Cook Time: 15 minutes | Total Time: 35 minutes | Servings: 24 cups
Ingredients
- 24 wonton wrappers
- 1 lb ground chicken
- 2 tablespoons soy sauce
- 1 tablespoon sesame oil
- 1 tablespoon fresh ginger, finely grated
- 2 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 tablespoon hoisin sauce
- 1 teaspoon rice vinegar
- 1/2 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes (optional)
- 3 scallions, thinly sliced, divided
- 1/2 cup shredded carrots
- 1/4 cup water chestnuts, finely chopped
- Cooking spray
- 1 tablespoon toasted sesame seeds, for garnish
Instructions
- Preheat oven. Heat oven to 375°F. Lightly coat a standard 24-cup mini muffin tin with cooking spray.
- Form the cups. Gently press one wonton wrapper into each muffin cup, easing the corners upward to form an open cup shape. Lightly mist the wrappers with cooking spray.
- Par-bake the shells. Bake wonton cups for 5–6 minutes, until just beginning to turn golden at the edges. Remove from oven and set aside. Leave oven on.
- Cook the filling. In a large skillet over medium-high heat, cook ground chicken, breaking it into small crumbles, until no longer pink, about 5–7 minutes. Drain any excess fat.
- Season the chicken. Reduce heat to medium. Add garlic and ginger to the skillet and cook 1 minute until fragrant. Stir in soy sauce, sesame oil, hoisin sauce, rice vinegar, and red pepper flakes. Mix well to coat the chicken evenly.
- Add vegetables. Fold in shredded carrots, water chestnuts, and half of the sliced scallions. Cook 2 minutes more, until vegetables are slightly softened. Remove from heat.
- Fill and bake. Spoon 1 heaping tablespoon of the chicken mixture into each par-baked wonton cup. Return the filled cups to the oven and bake an additional 6–8 minutes, until the wonton edges are deep golden and the filling is heated through.
- Garnish and serve. Remove from oven and let cool in the pan for 2 minutes before carefully lifting out. Top with remaining scallions and toasted sesame seeds. Serve immediately.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 58 | Protein: 5g | Fat: 2g | Carbs: 5g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 148mg