Father's Day. My second one as a dad, and the first one where it actually felt real — not because last year was not real, but because last year Aiden was six months old and a loaf of bread with eyes. Now he is a person. He runs to me when I come home from work. He says "Dada" and means me. He has preferences and opinions and a personality that is emerging week by week like a photograph developing. Being his father is the thing I am most proud of in my life, and Father's Day is the one day I let myself say that out loud without feeling like I am bragging.
Brianna gave me a card that Aiden "signed" with a crayon scribble. She also gave me a pair of Jordans — the Bred 11s, which I had been looking at online for months. They cost more than we should be spending right now, and I know that, and she knows that I know that, and we did not discuss it because some gestures are worth the financial irresponsibility. I put them on and walked around the apartment and felt, briefly, like the seventeen-year-old who wore Jordans on the basketball court like armor.
We went to Mama's for dinner. Father's Day is one of the rare occasions when Mama defers to Dad's preferences, which means we had steak. Ronald Carter does not ask for much — he is a man of modest wants and iron discipline — but once a year he wants a good steak, and Mama obliges. She buys ribeyes from Eastern Market, seasons them with salt, pepper, and garlic butter, and cooks them in a cast-iron skillet so hot that the sear sounds like applause. Dad likes his medium-rare, which Mama thinks is uncivilized but prepares anyway, because marriage is a series of compromises and this is one she has accepted.
I watched Dad eat his steak. He cut it slowly, deliberately, the way he does everything. He is sixty years old, has been at Chrysler for thirty-four years, has raised four children, has buried his own parents, has survived layoffs and recessions and a city that tried to die. He has never complained. Not once, in my entire life, have I heard Ronald Carter complain about his circumstances. He adjusts. He endures. He shows up. I am trying to be that man. I am not there yet. I complain — not out loud, not to anyone but myself, but internally I rage against the unfairness of a blown knee and a stalled career and a marriage that feels like it is running on fumes. Dad does not rage. Dad works. I need to learn that.
Marc gave Dad a coffee mug that said "World's Okayest Father," which made everyone laugh except Mama, who said it was disrespectful, and Dad, who laughed the hardest and used it for the rest of the day. Keisha gave him a new Tigers cap. Darius gave him a gift card to Home Depot. I gave him a framed photo of him and Aiden from the birthday party — Dad in the recliner, Aiden on his lap, both of them looking at the camera with the same expression. Stubbornness, probably. It runs in the family.
Watching Dad eat that ribeye — slow, deliberate, unbothered — reminded me that the best meals aren’t about the food so much as what they mark. We don’t always have access to Eastern Market or Mama’s cast iron, but that doesn’t mean we can’t bring that same intention to the table at home. Chicken Marsala has become my version of that Sunday dinner energy: something rich enough to feel like a occasion, something you can pull off in a single skillet without a production. Brianna has requested it on rotation, and honestly, so has my own sense of self-respect.
Chicken Marsala Recipe
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 30 min | Total Time: 45 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts (about 6 oz each)
- 1/2 cup all-purpose flour, for dredging
- 1 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/2 teaspoon garlic powder
- 3 tablespoons olive oil
- 2 tablespoons unsalted butter, divided
- 8 oz cremini or baby bella mushrooms, sliced
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 3/4 cup dry Marsala wine
- 3/4 cup low-sodium chicken broth
- 1/2 cup heavy cream
- 1 tablespoon fresh parsley, chopped (for garnish)
Instructions
- Pound and season the chicken. Place chicken breasts between two sheets of plastic wrap and pound to an even 1/2-inch thickness. In a shallow dish, whisk together flour, salt, pepper, and garlic powder. Dredge each breast in the flour mixture, shaking off any excess.
- Sear the chicken. Heat olive oil and 1 tablespoon of butter in a large skillet over medium-high heat until shimmering. Add the chicken breasts and cook 4—5 minutes per side until golden brown and cooked through (internal temp 165°F). Transfer to a plate and tent with foil.
- Cook the mushrooms. Reduce heat to medium. Add the remaining tablespoon of butter to the same skillet. Add the sliced mushrooms and cook, stirring occasionally, for 5—6 minutes until softened and browned. Add minced garlic and cook 1 minute more until fragrant.
- Deglaze with Marsala. Pour in the Marsala wine, scraping up any browned bits from the bottom of the pan. Let it simmer and reduce by about half, approximately 3 minutes.
- Build the sauce. Add the chicken broth and heavy cream. Stir to combine and let the sauce simmer over medium heat for 5—7 minutes, until it thickens slightly and coats the back of a spoon.
- Finish and serve. Return the chicken breasts to the skillet, spooning the sauce over them. Let everything simmer together for 2—3 minutes until the chicken is warmed through and well coated. Garnish with fresh parsley and serve immediately over pasta, mashed potatoes, or with crusty bread.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 480 | Protein: 42g | Fat: 24g | Carbs: 14g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 520mg
About the cook who shared this
DeShawn Carter
Week 13 of DeShawn’s 30-year story
· Detroit, Michigan
DeShawn is a thirty-six-year-old single dad, auto plant worker, and a man who didn't learn to cook until his wife left and his five-year-old asked, "Daddy, can you cook something?" He called his mama, who came over with two bags of groceries and spent six months teaching him the basics. Now he's the dad at the cookout who brings the ribs, the guy at the plant whose leftover gumbo starts fights, and living proof that it's never too late to learn.