First week of school. Marcus walked into 7th grade with the confidence of a boy who has already survived a debate tournament and the death of his grandmother and his parents' divorce and he knows — even if he can't articulate it — that middle school has nothing on real life. He came home Tuesday and said, "Mrs. Patterson is my English teacher and she's amazing." A twelve-year-old boy voluntarily calling a teacher amazing is either a miracle or a crush. I'm monitoring the situation.
Jasmine walked into 5th grade like she owned it, which is Jasmine's way — quiet ownership, not loud. She came home with a best friend already (Kayla, who moved from Savannah over the summer) and a plan to join the school choir, which: obviously. My baby is going to sing. She's going to stand in front of people and open her mouth and the sound that comes out will remind me of Mama in the choir, and I will cry in the audience and pretend it's allergies and everyone will know and no one will say anything.
I'm back at work full-time. The school year brings structure that I desperately needed — a schedule, a purpose, a reason to shower and leave the house by 7:15. My caseload is full. The kids need me. Some days that's the only thing that gets me up: not my grief, not my cooking, but the knowledge that there are twelve-year-olds who need someone to listen to them and I am trained to listen and showing up for them is showing up for myself.
Set the Table is back on weekly schedule. Saturday mornings, eight girls in the church kitchen. We made meatloaf this week — a recipe I developed myself, not Mama's. Turkey meatloaf with a tomato glaze, onions, garlic, breadcrumbs from day-old bread that I taught the girls to make because "nothing is wasted in a kitchen that respects food." Destiny took notes. She takes notes now, in a little notebook she carries, writing down measurements and techniques and the things I say between the measurements. I don't know what she's building with those notes. I suspect it's something beautiful.
Dinner routine: cook on Sunday for the week, reheat and supplement daily. This week's Sunday cook was a big batch of chili, a tray of cornbread, and a pot of brown rice. The kids eat it in different configurations all week — chili over rice Monday, chili with cornbread Tuesday, leftover chili reincarnated as taco filling Wednesday. This is how single mothers cook: not one meal at a time but one ecosystem at a time, every ingredient earning its place twice.
The chili-as-taco-filling move on Wednesdays is the one my kids have started to look forward to more than the original chili — and that says something, because the original chili is good. What I make now is a full cheesy taco casserole, layered and baked, because if we’re reinventing something midweek it ought to feel like its own occasion. I taught a version of this thinking to the Set the Table girls: a good cook doesn’t just use leftovers, she transforms them into something that earns its own place on the table.
Cheesy Taco Casserole
Prep Time: 15 minutes | Cook Time: 30 minutes | Total Time: 45 minutes | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 1 lb lean ground beef (or 2 cups leftover chili, drained of excess liquid)
- 1 packet (1 oz) taco seasoning
- 1/3 cup water (skip if using leftover chili)
- 1 can (15 oz) black beans, rinsed and drained
- 1 can (10 oz) diced tomatoes with green chiles, drained
- 1 cup frozen corn, thawed
- 8 oz cream cheese, softened and cut into cubes
- 1/2 cup sour cream, plus more for serving
- 2 cups shredded sharp cheddar cheese, divided
- 3 cups tortilla chips, lightly crushed
- 2 green onions, sliced, for topping
- Salsa or pico de gallo, for serving
Instructions
- Heat the oven. Preheat oven to 350°F. Lightly grease a 9x13-inch baking dish.
- Cook the meat. If starting from raw, brown ground beef in a large skillet over medium-high heat, breaking it up as it cooks, about 7 minutes. Drain fat. Add taco seasoning and water, stir to combine, and simmer 2 minutes until thickened. If using leftover chili, warm it in the skillet over medium heat until any excess liquid has cooked off, 3–4 minutes.
- Build the filling. Reduce heat to medium-low. Add black beans, drained tomatoes, and corn to the skillet. Stir in cream cheese cubes and sour cream. Stir gently until cream cheese is fully melted and the mixture is cohesive, about 3 minutes. Remove from heat and fold in 1 cup of the shredded cheddar.
- Layer the casserole. Spread the crushed tortilla chips in an even layer across the bottom of the prepared baking dish. Spoon the taco filling evenly over the chips. Sprinkle the remaining 1 cup of cheddar over the top.
- Bake. Bake uncovered for 25–30 minutes, until the cheese is melted and bubbling at the edges and the casserole is heated through. Let rest 5 minutes before serving.
- Serve. Top with sliced green onions. Serve with sour cream and salsa on the side. Leftovers keep refrigerated for up to 4 days and reheat well in a 325°F oven or covered in the microwave.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 490 | Protein: 29g | Fat: 27g | Carbs: 34g | Fiber: 5g | Sodium: 810mg